Virgin at 27 blablabla you know the drill. I have phimosis and tried surgery (preserving the foreskin) but it seems to not have worked and it also looks fucked up. Granted it is still healing, which also means I can't masturbate which sucks. I just feel like such a freak with my fucked up zombie dick. It is affecting my mood and mental health a lot, I hoped getting the surgery would make me feel better about myself but especially because it is starting to look like it did jack shit except for making my cock uglier I really really fell down a pit mentally. It's also not a thing I would discuss with anyone irl, so I feel completely alone in this struggle.
How severe the phimosis was? Like, doing surgeries there is a bit retarded, unless you have very strong reasons to do so. I did a bit of stretching and it improved the situation. Desu I'm too lazy to finish it, and it's not like I'm gonna have sex anytime soon
>>35075164Not extreme, but any level of phimosis is bad and can lead to trouble with having sex. My doctor advised this and talked about it like it was no big deal so I said sure fuck it. I just wanted that shit off my mind because it is one of the main reasons I avoid sex and relationships.
>>35075164Anyway I already had the surgery so whats done is done
>>35075172Yes, it's true that any level is not good, but the difference is that surgery is a bit of an extreme solution, kinda close to how a guy I knew just cut their foreskin off in mid 20s because of itHave you looked into the surgery, know the exact procedure it was, to at least know that whether you're experiencing is normal or not
>>35075178I tried creams and it got better but I wasnt able to fully cure it. Yes I looked into the surgery pretty extensively of course. One of the risks is that it might not solve the issue but my phimosis wasnt too bad so I figured it would work. Its still healing tho so it's hard to tell what the end result will be, likely no to barely any scarring but I have doubts about the functionality. If I pull it back right now while hard it is still too tight abd hurts, technically I am allowed to wank and shit by now but it is clearly still healing.Anyway I am mostly asking for advice on the mental aspect, physically it just is what it is for now
>>35075160If it's still healing, you have no idea whether it worked or not. Be patient.
if you get your dick function back just accept that it's small/useless and you'll likely never ever have sex with a woman (that you don't have to pay for). no woman wants to interact with your weird freaky zombie dick and that's... okay, see, we all roll the dice at birth. some of us are born into the slums of india, others are born into the us but their parents are poor methheads, some have down syndrome, some are born without limbs -- some, like you, are just not going to have sex. ever. genetics, god, whatever, these things have determined that you will not get to fuck like other men may yeh if you're a 10/10 everywhere else (or some woman's personal 10/10) you two can fuck but she won't enjoy it as much as she'd enjoy sex with a non genitally crippled maletry to find things beyond sex to pour yourself into. 27's not young but it's not too old either, you can still pick up a skill like art or music. you can also make regular friends. but give up on sex
>>35075617It's above average in size and has no problems with getting hard. It just looks a bit weird and hurts (for me) because the foreskin can't retract properly.Anyway why am I even replying to your weird incel demoralising post, are you a russian bot or something? Why would you post such a miserable reply
like you said, it's healing as you post this so give it some hope. All dicks look different and most look worst than some. Since its YOURS, its gonna seem more fucked up than what it really is. Even if it concludes to it looks little off, doesnt all genitalia looks weird a little bit? Give time to heal and keep a introspective mind that everyone's shit looks different too. If you got a good personality, hobbies, and interests you'll be fine, coming from a woman.
Edited: like you said, it's healing as you post this so give it some hope. All dicks look different and most look worst than some. Since its YOURS, its gonna seem more fucked up than what it really is. Even if it concludes to it looking a little off, doesnt all genitalia look weird a little bit? Give it time to heal and keep a introspective mind that everyones shit looks different too. If you got a good personality, hobbies, and interests you'll be fine, coming from a woman
please wait for it to fully heal before posting about how it didn't work and blah blah blah.You sound like a huge pussy.
>>35076547>>35076553Thanks anon. I'm more worried about thr fumctionality than the aesthetics though, but yeah it is still healing so who knows it might be fine
>>35076559Fuck you I can't talk about this shit with anyone irl
>>35076562Well you were talking about the mindest around it and your mental health but no worries anon I hope everything turns out okay for you!!
If you can make up for it with your mouth/hands, I dont think you have anything to worry about. Maybe her vulva will look wonky and you can bond over it
