chud bf wont stop talking to girl I who openly dislikes me even after I said it makes me uncomfortable /wdid
larping ass foid in social justice who is a racist drug addict that he used to sleep with (next to) but never actually got to fuck
its so infuriating to me apparently he wants nothing more than to be in relationship of value with me but I just would never do something like this to him I dont understand why he cant take action on this in any way
>>35075354>chud bf wont stop talking to girl I who openly dislikes me even after I said it makes me uncomfortable /wdidTell your bf to be respectful of your decision and not to talk her too much. Also you shouldn't be calling your bf names. Unless he finds chud as affection.
He knows already, it’s something we talk about frequently enough that he hides it because he knows it upsets me. He avoids talking about her or their relationship around me and scrolls through his notifications fast if she’s on the tab… I see her in public and she ignores me/wont look at me or tries to separate us so she can interact with him without having to look at me. I just don’t understand why he thinks that kind of behaviour is ok..
I know he's not cheating on me, we spend 99% of our time together and she's also in a relationship. It just makes me uncomfortable that she dislikes me so much, and of course I feel some kind of way about them having had a "more than friends" relationship in the past.
I wish I could make him jealous or somehow replicate what he's doing with her but im such a loser and have no friends. Im pretty though and I think its possible to manufacture some trifle but im scared of getting raped or making a fool of myself PLUS I dont WANT to.
>>35075458>I wish I could make him jealous or somehow replicate what he's doing with herIf things have got to the point where you're even considering that possibility, it's time to break up with him.
well I dont really want to do that but I dont know how to make this stop, I have no interest in seeing other people but Im just so upset he doesnt care. Obviously when I say it upsets me its not enough but I dont know what action I can take.
I think he hates me actually m aybe he only fucks me for pussy
>>35075484>I dont know what action I can take.You can break up with him. Look, you may feel that, in isolation, this isn't a good enough reason to dump him. By itself, it isn't. But it tells you something important. What it tells you is that, more generally, he doesn't care about you. He knows that him talking to this girl upsets you; you've asked him to stop; and he ignores you and keeps doing it. So he knows he's upsetting you, and he doesn't care. Whether you are happy or upset doesn't matter to him. And what means "you* don't matter to him. And you don't want to be with someone who doesn't care about you.>>35075533>I think he hates me actually m aybe he only fucks me for pussyThat would be consistent, wouldn't it?
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>>35075548>canI dont think he genuinely dislikes me but maybe he just likes her more? I dont mind if he uses my body it doesnt bother me but Im confused on this because he had an opportunity to be with her in the past and rejected her advances for me. He says its friendship but then when he talks about being her friend he says shes terrible. He says he feels sorry for her and that its vital they retain a freidnship because her life is so miserable. but I know its not the case, he just likes her.. why lie? Lie to make me happier... therefore wants me to be happy therefore maybe likes me?
Crazy gf thread, nice.Its not uncommon for long time friends to dislike their friends partner. You're basically pushing him to cut off somebody close to him and it's only going to push him away in the long run.The crazy gf thing to do would be find another man to talk to and mirror his own actions. If he isn't letting you come between him and a friend, then it just creates an impasse between you where nobody budges.
not a crazy gf they arent long term friends they met maybe a month before he and I did and it was a sort of "just didnt work at that time" thing between them. Really, he had just broken up with his long term partner and was looking for a new one and met us both within a few months of eachother. He was dealing drugs to and with her and eventually dropped her when we met.
correction he did NOT drop her. At first he said he was and had but Im not stupid I know they've been talking this whole time, all while im going out and receiving nasty looks from her
>>35075827i could care less about your little relationship problems to me youre a mindless slag like any other yet i wanna say that your writing style really pisses me off. writing fat blocks of text with no spacing is one thing, not addressing posters and also spamming several replies in a row is another. please stop learn to format so my hatred for you can limit itself to you being a used up bpd cunt
>>35075354she is doing this intentionally. She knows that you can see her actions are wrong & he cant, and is using this to create a rift. Women are truly evil. Im sorry you have to deal with this.
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>>35075841suck my lip tardo
>>35075895richer than you and ill only suck it if also get to fuck it after
>>35075871>>>35075354 (OP)thanks I appreciate it I. I know I cant control her actions so it doesnt bother me as much, hoe gna hoe, its just as my partner it surprises me that he wont stand up for me. Honestly they could even stay friends I dont care I just feel completely undefended by him. I think he should at the very least say something about the way she talks to others about me in public... If they are really as close as he says they are then it should matter to him that whatever connflict is between her and I should be resolved no? I've also reached out to her and tried to be her friend. She is completely unresponsive to my attempts because she hates me.
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>>35075590>I dont think he genuinely dislikes me but maybe he just likes her more?I don't think he actively dislikes you, he just doesn't care about you, and you should be with someone who cares about you. It doesn't actually matter whether he likes her or not: what matters is that you are with someone who doesn't care about you. You can do better than that.>I dont mind if he uses my body it doesnt bother meHow the hell can you possibly not mind this?
>>35075934> should be with someone who cares about youThis is the only evidence I have that he doesnt care about me, otherwise he treats me very well and is understanding of my mental health problems. should I just let it go? it really upsets me. > How the hell can you possibly not mind this? I just dont.
>>35075954i think you have woman brain that likes shitty and despicable men and still would let them fuck you. every fucking time this shit happens and no one knows the reason for it, probably biology and ape brain makes you want this man who clearly doesn't want anything to do with you.