Thoughts on contacting my stepmother's grandchildren?they're technically my family but we never met and we aren't related by blood, so maybe they wouldn't want me to?
>>35075932Context, please. Why do you want to? Why haven't you up to now?
>>35075936I want to because I feel lonely and I've been isolated from most of my family for decades, so I'm trying to reconnectI haven't until now because my parents used to tell me outsiders were evil and to stay away from them, also my mom never mentioned that her father remarried and she cut contact with him before I was born so I only found out about them recently
Go for it. The worst that can happen is that they will ignore you.
>>35076020no, the worst thing that could happen is that they reject me and laugh at memaybe even think I'm creepy for looking them up
>>35075932>my stepmother's grandchildren?How old are they compared to you?
>>35077700like 20 years. my grandpa had my mom at 40 and my mom had me at 40, so I'm a generation younger than the rest of my cousins
>>35077858How old are they COMPARED TO YOU? If you're an adult looking to contact children, that's probably not a good idea; if they're almost exactly the same age as you, that's different.
>>35076020Lol no. That’s the best thing that could happen. They could ruin his whole entire existence.
>>35077882I am 29, they are in their 40s-50s
>>35077982Since they're older than you and they're like adults, I think that's totally okay. I was only gonna think it'd be weird if you were like 20 years older than them. But since you're younger, I think it's okay. And also another thing I noticed a lot of people on the site are becoming like 29, 30 years old. And we're all isolated and have no irl social lives. What the heck
>>35077982>I am 29, they are in their 40s-50sGo for it, then. So long as they don't think you're after money, I don't think it'll be a problem..
>>35078307>>35079642>if they don't think you are a pedo or a money grubber, they'll accept you with open armsyou guys are retards, you know?
>>35082978I projected myself one to them. If some rogue family member contacted me and they seemed decent, I'd be willing to be their friend.
>>35075932>>35075950That is your grandfather's family so they are blood related to you unless you fucked up and said 2 different things because you are a retarded ESL
>>35083050my grandpa and my grandma had my mommy grandma diedmy grandpa remarried in his 50s with a woman who already had kidsnow every grandparent is dead, and the stepgrandma's kid is dead too, so only the step cousins are still alive
