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My partner (35 MtF) and I (26M) met in february online in an MMO. We instantly hit it off and quickly started to date and spend most of our free time together. We were very compatible both personality and sex wise. In the beginning of April, I had made plans to meet her in person and started to save up to travel across the US to be together for 2 weeks. Everything was fine and well for the following weeks, until she became less sexually available. Intimate conversations and phone sex went from once every other day, to once every 2 weeks if i was lucky. I expressed my concerns to her and 3 possible causes came to mind: her dosage of prozac increased, she stopped taking Progesterone as part of her HRT, and she personally felt burnt out from doing it online and wanted intimacy in real life.

By mid July, my plans to visit her in August had been abruptly cancelled as she felt she couldn't be sexually available to me if we were to be together in person. I was hurt by this, I felt that I was part of the problem and maybe the attraction had gone away. She reassured me that she was still attracted to me and she thinks it was a hormonal issue. She figured that increasing her T levels would help reignite some sexual desire, but wasn't entirely sure. I have expressed that a lack of intimacy would be a dealbreaker for me, as it is something I find important in a stable relationship. She started seeing a therapist as well to help find the solution.

Fast forward to today and she has expressed to me that she doesn't like the idea of sex and finds it disgusting due to her gender dysphoria. She only wants to find some sort of libido to make me happy despite personally hating the idea of sex now. I am very distraught by this, the idea of sex sounded so nice to us in the beginning, however she has 0 desire to be intimate and it has affected my self confidence. Im unsure on what to do, she wants to find a desire for my sake, but she personally wants a sexless relationship
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>>35079573
CHEAT ON HER NOWS YOUR CHANCE
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Die you fucking freak didn't read the rest
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>>35079573
i see posts like this online often and i genuinely find it hard to comprehend that normies will ruin their relationships over a lack of sex

do u even like the person ur dating or r u just horny
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>My boyfriend (35 M) and I (26M) met in february online in an MMO. We instantly hit it off and quickly started to date and spend most of our free time together. We were very compatible both personality and sex wise. In the beginning of April, I had made plans to meet him in person and started to save up to travel across the US to be together for 2 weeks. Everything was fine and well for the following weeks, until he became less sexually available. Intimate conversations and phone sex went from once every other day, to once every 2 weeks if i was lucky. I expressed my concerns to him and 3 possible causes came to mind: his dosage of prozac increased, he stopped taking Progesterone as part of his HRT, and he personally felt burnt out from doing it online and wanted intimacy in real life.

>By mid July, my plans to visit him in August had been abruptly cancelled as he felt he couldn't be sexually available to me if we were to be together in person. I was hurt by this, I felt that I was part of the problem and maybe the attraction had gone away. He reassured me that he was still attracted to me and he thinks it was a hormonal issue. He figured that increasing his T levels would help reignite some sexual desire, but wasn't entirely sure. I have expressed that a lack of intimacy would be a dealbreaker for me, as it is something I find important in a stable relationship. He started seeing a therapist as well to help find the solution.

>Fast forward to today and he has expressed to me that he doesn't like the idea of sex and finds it disgusting due to his gender dysphoria. He only wants to find some sort of libido to make me happy despite personally hating the idea of sex now. I am very distraught by this, the idea of sex sounded so nice to us in the beginning, however he has 0 desire to be intimate and it has affected my self confidence. Im unsure on what to do, he wants to find a desire for my sake, but he personally wants a sexless relationship

Fixed it for you OP.
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>>35079573
Also
If someone has to drug themselves with mind altering hormone raping chemicals just to feel attracted to you that should tell you everything. Yet I am not surprised your dumbass can't connect the dots when you don't even seem to understand the difference between a man and a woman.
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>>35079573
I'm sure you can find a middle aged gay man who isn't on libido-reducing drugs.
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>>35079573
>We were very compatible both personality and sex wise.
>I had made plans to meet her in person
DOES
NOT
COMPUTE
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>MtF
>libido
lol, lmao even. happens when you troon out with hormones. also didnt read



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