Ever be the girlfriend of a gentle non-martial artist guy of average fitness, bespectacled, doesn't know how to fight or defend himself, but is very kind, makes $200k AUD annually at a tech job, and has an 8/10 face, with a head full of hair ?
>>35079596No.
>>35079596thats the dream couple but in reality she would suddenly get bored and dump you
>>35079596Probably not. They fuck their instructors and higher ranking students mostly.
>>35079638>>35079620I just want girlfriend who can beat me in an open fight if she wanted to and becomes mad at me (but doesn't do it because she loves me, I'm a kind guy, and doesn't want to user her fists and kicks on me).>>35079663Picrel is Rayna Vallandingham, taekwondo expert, half Brit-Indian, half filipina. I read somewhere that her bf is in dental school, a future high earner. And a total nerd. How did he do it?
>>35079683>Picrel is Rayna Vallandingham, taekwondo expert, half Brit-Indian, half filipina. I read somewhere that her bf is in dental school, a future high earner. And a total nerd. How did he do it?Tall.
I see you're going to become the next autist that spams the same thread for the next five years.
Youre a white man in Australia. Literally get a basic cardio routine and hit the beach near syndey or something, don't try to reinvent the wheel. You guys gave built up the "outback chad" archetype for 4 decades now.
>>35079683>girlfriend who can beat me in an open fight if she wanted toeven a trained female fighter could not beat up an average man
Be of extreme fitness and learn to be street smart.
>>35081373>Extreme fitnessBut that's what I don't want to be, Zach. If I attain extreme fitness, I'd be able to beat her. That's exactly what I don't want. I want to continue to remain the nerdy techbro that I am, while maintaining average fitness (lean, avg muscle mass, not skinnyfat).How to attract girls that are good at martial arts? Like how much money??
>t. ex hobbyist fightguy>>35083106>If I attain extreme fitness, I'd be able to beat herit'd certainly help, but anecdotally a typical man to woman weight edge is worth 1.5 bjj belts, and extreme fitness another belt. Mid stage purple belt 4-6 year baddies will probably still fuck your shit up if you're fit-but-untrained>>35079596Probably not. Both because most of these ladies do >>35079663 in part because it's kinda hard to respect a guy you're pretty confident you could tap, and because most of in-person dating is proximity and if you're not actually going to the gyms or to fights, you're probably going to struggle to actually meet them. If you don't want to spend time with fighters, you're probably not going to enjoy dating one, and visa versa.
>>35083356>it's kinda hard to respect a guy you're pretty confident you could tap, and because most of in-person dating is proximity and if you're not actually going to the gyms or to fights, you're probably going to struggle to actually meet them.so that's my question exactly: can my high salary $215k AUD at age 30, and a very high net worth (I don't want to disclose an amount, for fear of being judged or called a liar), make up for me not being a martial artist ? Surely she wouldn't mind being the hot, fit, strong athletic, domme gf of a rich nerdy guy (who isn't strong), right ? She'll respect my money right ?
>>35083356>it'd certainly helpi think you haven't understood my question, or are wilfully ignoring this => you realize that I want a hot woman who can turn me into her personal punching bag if she wanted to, correct? I have a thing for women who can fight and fight well enough to beat up a man.I'm not like other guys, I do not like meek weak useless women who I have to "provide for", then she "makes me a sandwich" when I "get home after a busy day at work". I've accomplished quite a lot, and I need a woman to "physically" be capable enough of disciplining me, punishing me, and controlling my body with her sheer athleticism, her boxing skills, her martial arts abilities. I'd like for her to leave my finances, my investment portfolio alone, that area is my domain.
>>35079755It's not autism, it's literally Indian contractors that gookmoot uses to make the website look busy and still relevant.Without bots and literal paid shills/b8 this place would have like a thousand visitors per day, tops. Which sounds perfect to me but Kadokawa and Good Smile dropped too many bands betting on gookmoot for that to be all they get.
>>35083506>i think you haven't understood my question, or are wilfully ignoring this I quite understand it, it's a type/fetish thing. Breaking news, actually dangerous dommy bossy ladies are fun. I don't judge.I'm mostly commenting on "you're going to run into massive problems with actually meeting and then wooing these women". Money works, but these women have two issues you'll face, in that they like men who share their interests, and mostly keep to these spaces. It works under the same rules as lawyers date lawyers, doctors date nurses, and fighters date fighters. This doesn't mean it's impossible for you to succeed, but your problem isn't actually "will they be interested in a man with money" (they are, same as any other woman, it's always an improvement on whatever your full package is) but >how can you get enough access to these women for them to both notice you and see you have that money?and money isn't going to get you that access, unless you're planning to join a fightgym or start chatting up women at fights.
>>35079596No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch, kys immediately
>>35083752>>35083529>>35083506Adding onto this, if you actually want her to beat you up, she's way, WAY more likely to do that if you actually start training, even if it's just a little.Most fighters are extremely reticent to even willingly attack a normie because after about a year or so of practice, you start noticing>actually, normies are really squishy and leave themselves massively open to takedowns/chokes/punches to the point it's not even fun to fight with them>even to demonstrate moves, because you're genuinely scared you're gonna seriously fuck them up if you use any of the stuff you trained onPlus it's a liability thing. If you're also a fighter, any injuries you have are easily explained to friends and colleagues as "he got those sparring", if you're not, she's sticking her neck out if you want her to willingly injure you.Plus it's a "she doesn't want to fuck herself up either" thing, knowing you can win and knowing it'll be a clean fight are massively different, and pure newbies don't tend to have clean fights, they're thrashy in a way that while extremely ineffective at winning fights has a very high consistency of generating "much worse than training average" injuries because they have no ability to consciously modulate the intensity of their attacks or defense, and no knowledge of the kinds of things that just hurt, or can end a fighter's career.Pretty much unless you're also going to at least one combat sport with some of that cash, even if by some miracle you found a girl, she's probably not going to give you what you want.
>>35083787>>35083752Thank you for your response, fightguy anon. Just 2 more questions, with regards to what you said:1) Would owning a fight gym (or acquiring a franchise of a women's only kickboxing + HIIT gym chain) be of help ? I could appoint a trainer (female) who takes care of it, and be a non-working owner myself, then make myself visible slowly over time? I know of a distant cousin I can rope in as a trainer - I know from her parents that she is very good at BJJ, but she's only 16, and lives in another city. 2) Create a fitness wearables device centred around kickboxing/martial arts, and get access to female martial artists as 'models' for demo ? Let me ask you anon - would martial artists like yourself (men, not just women) be open to gripping a small rubber ball inside your boxing glove while you train, which connects to your mobile phone via bluetooth, and you can view your various fight data at the end of your workout or boxing match ? Like number of punches landed, average intensity/energy of punch in joules, calories burnt, etc. etc. ?
>>35083842>Would owning a fight gym (or acquiring a franchise of a women's only kickboxing + HIIT gym chain) be of helpProbably not, because unless you're the head coach or training yourself you're closer to a landlord doing this, and there isn't really a convenient way to just hover at the periphery as a semi-participant. It'll be seen as weird and confrontational to your head coach for you to be hanging around all the time, because his students won't like a rando just hovering around the lobby or trying to insert himself, unless you're part of the action. It'll also create weird dynamics within the gym itself, because you don't want other students or the coach either intentionally trying to hurt you, or intentionally trying NOT to hurt you, because of your role, both are bad for learning or your safety.Also all my coaches bitched about how brutally insurance was anally raping them. I'm not sure whether that devolves to the property owner or the coach but my intuition is this is probably split by the property and coach, because most coaches are broke af. I got the sense gyms were terrible businesses and mostly are run by zealots.>I could rope in a 16 year old girl as a trainernot gonna work, separate from what I hope are other obvious issues, your coach basically has to run the business end of a full-ass business. A 16 year old is going to butcher this.>Create a fitness wearables device centred around kickboxing/martial arts, and get access to female martial artists as 'models' for demo ?I mean, it could work, and it'd put you around a lot of other fighters or fight interested people if you were doing sales or selling at venues, but this is a lot of effort to sell trinkets to get like 5% of the access you'd get by just calling to ask >can I take a trial lesson at your local gym's beginner class?>gripping a ballno>embedded in the glovemaybe, probably not. most people buy gear on axes of safer, cooler, or cheaper. Which is metrics supposed to be?
>>35083928>no rubber ballHmm..could a small rubber cylinder work then, the size of a small chalk ? would you be open to holding this item in your fist while you train on a bag, or spar with others ?
>>35083978probably not, which is why I called out "embedded in the glove" as a more appealing alternative, passive info on force or punching or beatsaber style playback could be kinda cool, but only if it wasn't something you had to actually think about and just worked as part of an otherwise normal piece of gear.
>>35083999I got some great ideas from this discussion. Thanks a lot fightguy anon!!! Ending this thread unless you have something to add.
>>35084011not much else. glhf, strongly recommending you at least try a little bjj, recommending you go wrestle with the gym's dudes and ladies before you commit to 6-24 months of shenanigans.
>>35083999Leaving my throwaway email here in case you wanna collab/continue this discussion:gvaespear71@gmail.com
Stop trying the throw MORE MONEY at the problem like a weird simp. You're just going to continue to get ignored and disrespected by these ladies.
Honestly curious: why would you want a wife who could kick your ass at will? She won't respect you.
>>35085566Because OP is faggot and a spammer.
>>35079596>bespectacled,I can't say, but I can tell you that she isn't going to date the type of nasally voiced allergy ridden nerd who unironically uses terms like these, and thinks that it matters. Unless you have the shittiest taste in glasses imagineable, nobody gives a remote fuckt. has been doing martial arts for a decade and can't see his own nose without glasses
>>35087052I SAYETH, LET THE BESPECTACLED MAN BE SPECTACULARETH
