'sup 4chan. Tomorrow, I go pick my wife up from a mental hospital. Context: I am a filthy cradle robber at 44 and married her at 22. Things were downright glorious up to that point. Honest, cheerful, fun, sweet, creative, crafty, and into the exact type of fucked up shit that made this happen more than I ever was. She invited herself to my house after encouraging me to drink on the night she slept over the first time. A fantastic setup for someone who was on the internet well before 4chan was dreamed up.Fast forward 1.5 years, she asks me to marry her. She's basically been a housepet for the past year, and a tremendous stoner. She's a little batty and thinks she has multiple personalities, but it seems like harmless theater. She spends hours a day writing naughty fanfiction and masturbating with various props when I'm at work, then I come home and get pounced on. We have a sex swing. We use it frequently. Definitely no regrets about letting her be a pet. She wants to have a beautiful future with me and has been working toward it, exercising, eating right, educating herself, trying new hobbies and activities, learning about herself like someone 22 should have been allowed to do (but she was a parentified child like me). Anyway, I say yes. I've been through worse, and I'm too damn old to have never given in yet. She's perfect. Like, physically and mentally designed for me in a way that cannot be anything but happy coincidence. It's in her history, her body, her mindset, everything. No subterfuge. I am ecstatic.She decides to not invite her malignant narcissist mom, and all hell breaks loose. People get upset, and she ends up having no friends or family at the ceremony. She still wanted to go through with it, and was an absolute darling by all accounts the entire time. She's hitting like 12 dabs a day and eating gummies and using the dab pen in between dabs now. She's started having digestive issues in the mornings now, and gets relief from hot baths...
..Anyway we get married and it's great. All my people, sweet and special. After ceremony, she is weak and weepy. We bow out and get to hotel. We rest, we rise, we party, we up all night long. She gets loopy. Starts talking seriously crazy stuff about her past. Thinks the wedding may trigger danger, a stalker, a threat. She talks through it, calms down and I snooze a bit. She stays up and does hotel sauna hot tub etc. We plan to sign our marriage license this day. We get ready to go to do that, and in the parking lot, she sees the stalker with a shoulder bag. She thinks he's going to kill her. We bolt. Find safe haven with friends. I circle back, get our shit and bounce. Kinda on edge about it. Really convincing and fitting narrative. I'm also deeply exhausted and half stoned. I want to go home. We get wedding photos, she identifies dude that was standing there who looked a lot like parking lot dude. It's intense. We never signed papers. Came home, she gets real real crazypants. Like, thinks the shower will boil her alive. Literally pissing stark naked in the back yard in the city and screaming into the void. I gussy her up and emergency services kick in, and she's an inpatient.It's been about a month. She's still a little loopy, and the medical science tells me she has a 46% chance of staying this way for life, off and on. Cannabis-induced psychosis. Every increase in her symptoms I saw as harmless were connected to her intake. I preached tolerance breaks, and suggested quitting, but I didn't stop her, and in fact enabled her on a regular basis as the breadwinner. She liked it. It was a hobby to explore strains and methods of delivery. Enrichment for the enclosure, as it were.So I'm afraid that my beautiful, perfect, loving, strikingly intelligent, shockingly emotionally mature, curious, intricate and adoring wife is dead, and replaced now with a babbling psychopath who is unintentionally cruel, childish, and endlessly exhausting.
Per the science, everything hinges on her getting a bottomless well of support while she's out of her mind. Psychosis is like a fever dream when you're in it. Your brain thinks of anything? It's the god's honest truth and nothing can convince you otherwise. You believe it. You are Jesus. You are the Avatar. God himself has appeared and testified to it. Anything you imagine is real, and any stimulus you receive supports it. Arguments turn the arguer into an enemy and a threat. I learned this the hard way. You the person are still there, but imagine a psychedelic trip that never stops for a month. It's honestly been kind of sweet to see her, because she's still motivated to help and cares about me and almost every other person she sees. She just literally doesn't have an off switch, and she's worried something will happen when I try to sleep, so she checks on me every 5 minutes so I can't. She is the girl I wanted to marry, even when her brain is half strangled to death and may never fully recover.How do I stop worrying about it and sleep tonight? I have to be ready for her sake.
Japan will be nice with "you"
I think your story is fake because States in the US have a waiting period where you get the marriage license before the wedding and outside of the United States the wedding ceremony happens after the signing of the paperwork. Shitpost more
>>35081325The state we went to didn't. I don't care if you believe me. Thanks for reading. It felt good to summarize it.
>>35080888>my beautiful, perfect, loving, strikingly intelligent, shockingly emotionally mature, curious, intricate and adoring wife is dead, and replaced now with a babbling psychopath who is unintentionally cruel, childishChrist sake get over yourself, a bitch who does nothing all day but take drugs and fap to shoddily written slop and probably can't even finish so proceeds to sex on le "sex swing" and remain unsatiated because bitch can't finish couldn't be anything further than "strikingly intelligent" and "shockingly emotionally mature". You are both childish from the start.>malignant narcissist momYeah ok go ahead and blame le mom instead of fixing the actual issues in the family. Clearly something's up but no it's ok just continue larping as a human sex toy to pretend there aren't any
>>35081391Eh. I won't deny it. It was fun being childish again for a while. She kinda blew herself up doing a healthcare thing for a while.Believe me... the girl can finish. She just 22 and sexed up. Mom was defo dirty. All her kids messed up. I'm gonna stop short at details, but icky stuff.The incredulous people are not helping me sleep, but it is validating my experience that it beggars belief.
>>35081325Just ignore op. She's having an episode and telling tall tales.
>>35081444>I'm gonna stop short at details,Probably gonna need them to figure out what's actually wrong but yeah you do you
>>35081476Ok. I'll bite. She breastfed them all until age 8 and probably diddled them. My wife remembers a lot of her talking about adult things and asking her to sit certain ways. Details are hazy. Abused children are often hypersexual (ask me how I know).Her core delusion is that she was a pizza legend and trafficked, but her parents are schlubs.
>>35081493If she's that batshit insane I'm inclined to believe her. This whole situation is retarded, your involvement included. She was destined to break down in some way from how fucked up her parents are.
>>35081499That's a valid perspective. If not for the ridiculous amount of cannabis and the correlation to the severity of her insanity, I might feel the same way.I don't dispute my role. All I can say is it has been nice believing in it.
>>35081493No idea what a pizza legend is (cheese pizza?)So her mom was a shit and she has zero model of how to actually live in a decent way since the main models failed to set any exampleOh I see, so she thinks she was cheese pizza by her parents, but you think her parents are incapable of pulling off such an operation. Well, law might get involved if we dealing with cheese pizzas
>>35081514We got law involved quick, before she was visibly bonkers, and nothing became of it. Total delusion. If it was as big as she said, her parents would be straight gone, fleeing. Instead they are trying to help.
>>35081542Well then, what needs to happen is to separate what actually happened with what's misrepresented. Maybe some things happened in the past but have been grossly misinterpreted or the gravity of it exaggerated
>>35081511The cannabis and/or other drugs definitely accelerated it. As delusional as it sounds, once she's stable, bring her to Narcotics Anonymous. I know weed is BARELY a drug but she needs more support than just her spouse or family, and for someone that far gone and broken, religion can help.
>>35081556Correct. Her brain is getting better at that, but she's still not all the way there yet. They've stabilized her on meds and she's about 80% lucid now. For now. They let her out once and she went right back to maximum in my custody, Its been pretty damn awful. Hopefully it sticks this time.
>>35081560She'll never go for it. Nonreligious reformed from crazy religious. Couldn't hurt to suggest it tho.
>>35081573Makes sense, unfortunately. She can still go and just play along with the religious bits. There are books, usually more geared towards Alcoholics Anonymous, that talk about using their steps and process while maintaining a secular worldview. >>35081391It's usually accomplished with/caused by BPD or other mental lelness, but multi-orgasmic women do exist. Their refractory period isn't like ours.
>>35081568Right but I mean none of this "details hazy" stuff because that is a ripe gap to spawn false memories and blow small things out of proportion
>>35081589Honestly, I think she'll just stop. Even in her absolute peak of madness, she decided she wanted nothing more to do with it.God, the sex was immaculate.
>>35081598Exactly. Mom was public about the weird breastfeeding thing long before my wife showed any signs or even tried to avoid her. They used to hang out and be semi-reasonable, but she never wanted to do anything that wasn't in public because mom masks. I think it was minor, but didn't feel like it to my wife, which is valid. Her brain filled in the gap between action and her outrage with a surprisingly believable narrative.
>>35081589No dude you just got scammed. An orgasm is a discrete and finite event. They conflate arousal with orgasm. Not to say they aren't hornier, they probably are especially when you're permanently blue balled into it without a release
>>35081605She can say that now, but the craving to numb whatever was eating at her is still there. It's a form of community, if nothing else. This could potentially backfire if other women comment on your age gap, etc. Good luck anon. I assume you meant stop weed and not stop fucking?
Cool story bro! Nice flex! You sound based!
>>35081640Yes. The weed. Even when she was all-out crazypants she was still trying to get me to fuck. It was really unnerving.
>>35081649I hope one of you is sterile, that's the last post I'll make.
>>35080888>She's started having digestive issues in the mornings now, and gets relief from hot baths...She has CHS a rare but serious condition caused by over use of cannabis. You need to get her to stop or she will be in a world of pain.
>>35080888You're a moron. I met a man in jail just like you: dated a drug addicted schizo. He was there for DV charges because the dumb schizo bitch fell under the wiles of an old, bitter and jealous feminist who coached her on filing restraining orders and oretending to be a victim of abuse.That old man was a bitch, too. Crying, complaining, a complete narcissist. Fuck you, Matt.>>35080926And there it is: YOUR tolerance of drug use and party lifestyle bullshit did this to her, she is your ward and as the man you're in charge.Enjoy being a tard wrangler.You're probably as much a bit h as Matt since you did not confront the guy in the parking lot and just ran away, but then again marijuana is a female drug that shrinks your balls.
>>35081605Yeah, and just like Matt, you won't stfu about your sex and your kinks, as if anyone else wants to hear about it. That's not the foundation of a relationship.I really dislike you.
