I live in a fuckass town that's about 50k people and culture around here consists of drinking alcohol. I'm tired of going to bars and smelling like smoke while meeting people that provide nothing but gossip.I want to go out and meet girls, everyone is scattered all around the country. I'm willing to go alone anywhere and talk up to someone but there's no fucking place. I've been going to the cinema by myself and I know it's not the best place for meeting new people but what can you do.We have some coffee shops, restaurants, cinemas (as previously mentioned) and a severe lack of third places.I'm thinking of going to a bigger city by train just for fun but have no idea where (could have that figured out quick). What should I look for? Also any tips for being approached by people? I am attractive and people tend to tell me their problems for some reason so I may seem as a trustworthy person. I have also been fixing my "social appearance" by having a slight smile and having a more open body language.I don't know if I can really meet anybody in a outfit shop or mall perhaps? I'm a uni student and I don't really fit in with people outside of like 2 friends that are older than me, one of which I go to gym with.
>>35082533I live in a town of 30k.Girls here like guys with lifted trucks and quadbikes.
>>35082533>Also any tips for being approached by people?Dumbest most feminine thing to attempt. There is nothing you can do to get people to approach you. If you want to talk to people then grab your balls and approach them.
>>3508253350k? Wow. My hometown had about 8k. Next town over has 17k. Making friends with a girl who went to the local university a half an hour away and getting in on some of those parties helped me meet people. >I'm a uni student If you can't meet anyone at school you're sure as shit not going to meet them at a movie theater or the mall. Your best option is sitting right in front of you and you're not using it because you "don't really fit in"?
>>35083346People are either uninterested or have preset groups, their way of thinking is very childish as they follow the rule of "you are friends with X and we dislike X, so we won't be friends with you".I actually went to one of those university "parties" and people were very shy and had no real interests. It's hard making friends here.As a matter of fact idgaf about having lots of friends all that much, I just want a girlfriend that will be respectful, loyal and trustworthy.
