The first real woman I ever had a relationship with was a raging acucullophiliac. Its a very uncommon fetish/kink, so actually knowing what it is does not matter. Long story short I ended up becoming obsessed with it, despite and I do not know what to do. I do not want this fetish/kink, but but because the first woman I ever had a proper romantic relationship with was so obsessed with it, it has been burned into my head. What is worse is that I am reminded of it every time I look at my own body and it has made me physically disgusted with myself. Additionally, it is very difficult for me to find women who are not acucullophiliacs to be sexually attractive, and considering how rare women who are open about being into this fetish are it would be very difficult for me to get with a woman who is into it. I was able to briefly date another woman who did have an interest but that relationship didn't last long.
>>35084363Your attraction to women with that fetish is called meta-attraction. You like it that they find a specific part of you attractive - or how they made you feel - not the specific fetish itself.Just open your dating pool to include women who are interested in your other qualities - women with specific fixations that you meet the criteria for. If their attraction to those qualities is on the same level, it will probably feel the same for you.Best of luck, bud.
>>35084589>Just open your dating pool to include women who are interested in your other qualities - women with specific fixations that you meet the criteria for. If their attraction to those qualities is on the same level, it will probably feel the same for you.I have tried and it just isn't the same. I am hoping that I will be able to get over it eventually but its a constant issue for me.
Just date Jewish women
