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>meet amazing woman, have been seeing her for 1.5 years, not in a defined relationship but headed there
>chemistry is great, makes me feel wanted, very affectionate
>she has male friend that has feelings for her, and is very jealous that we are seeing one another
>she had feelings for him years ago while in relationship that was hanging by a thread, soon realized his personality was not relationship material and has seen him only as a friend ever since
>she is seeing me next month and staying for two weeks
>she tells me that she will be going to meet with her friend for two nights at end of this month and will stay together in the same hotel room only because hotel rooms are expensive in the city they’re meeting in
>tell her that makes me feel very uncomfortable
>she says she has made it clear to him that nothing will happen between them, that she only sees him as a friend and that she sees me romantically
>still feel off about the whole thing so i tell her i cant tell her what to do but that if i have to protect myself i will
>she tells me i have never spoken to her like that before and that it sounds like i have already lost feelings for her
>tell her that isn’t the case, just that it makes me feel anxious
>tried to reassure me that she only wants a future with me, only ever wants to make me feel safe, would never hurt me and that she will not let him get in the way of us, offers to cancel the weekend with him if it makes me uneasy
>tell her if she does anything she must be honest about it, but that i will be done with her if she does anything with anyone else
>she says the same applies to me

Well? I don’t want to seem like the overly controlling type. Should I trust her and take her word for it or am I reading too much into this?
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>>35084451
>>she tells me that she will be going to meet with her friend for two nights at end of this month and will stay together in the same hotel room only because hotel rooms are expensive in the city they’re meeting in
HAHAHAHAA! It's over.
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I have faith in her

>I love you more
>I know you make things better for me, my goal is being with you I'll do my best to reach it
>We will get that soon, we will make it work
>Thank you, you're really sweet and I love you
>I know I want to do all these things for you, I do my best to prioritize you
>I won't lose you Mike I know that, I won't allow it
>You're the best, perfect for me
>I'm so lucky
>That's good to hear love you,
>Lots
>You make things better
>Even when you aren't here, you do so much
>If it takes me being selfish because I want all of you then that's just how it will be
>Exactly. I love you and I want to be the best for you
>I do all those things naturally for you
>I'm only yours,
>I love only you
>I love you,
>I'm choosing you, doing the best to make that show
>I want to spend every day at the beach with you Mike
>Just as much as you do
>I Love you more
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>>35084451
I honestly can not tell if you are trolling, or just hopeless.



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