so im in my 20s and in my first real relationship (we are long distance unfortunately) but we met up recently and long story short we both had a great time together and one of the nights we got super drunk and she stayed with me in my hotel and things were escalating fast, tongue kissing and cuddling and shit, all of that. but its like i couldnt really control my dick? like sometimes it would get hard but sometimes it wouldnt, almost involuntary and randomly. keep in mind we were both super drunk and tired and we were falling in and out of sleep the entire night so that probably contributes to it but still. i remember at one point while we were sleeping i like half woke up and started humping her butt and my dick just wouldnt get hard even though it felt amazing and i wanted it to.i WAS slightly nervous because i hadnt even kissed a girl before and we were just tongue kissing right off the bat but still it wasnt super bad nervousness. is something wrong with me psychologically? do i have ED? is it just a combination of being super tired and drunk that made my dick not wanna go up or what?>inb4 gaydefinitely not and i wouldnt say i have a severe porn addiction, i mean i masturbate almost everyday but i hadnt really done it for a few days leading up to us meeting up and i always get a boner whenever we get all lovey over the phone so im really not sure
Generic performance anxiety. It happens at any age. You're probably fat too and forget to breathe and get outta breath. Should've eaten her out to get her excited and moaning to get you excited too or get her to suck your dick or something just get outta your head and take her like an animal and you should be fine. Imagine having to take off a condom because you went soft and didn't even nut. It's embarrassing and she's telling her friends about it but that's life there's nothing you can do except just get out of your head and worry less about trying to impress her and just making her feel good. You can only hope she has low self-esteem and thinks you couldn't get hard because she's also fat and ugly. Do not take medication for this, dude. It's just psychological and it happens to everyone. Don't become dependent on medication it'll fuck you over.
>>35085349>is it just a combination of being super tired and drunk that made my dick not wanna go up or what?Probably, yes.
