>love drawing>love running and hitting the gym>do accounting in college>tfw too normie for artsy girls>tfw too artsy for athletic girls>tfw too lazy for career girlsI am in this weird in-between where I am not committed enough to the gym so I could land a gymgirl. At the same time I love drawing, anime and manga but I am too much of a normie and have a good physique so the weird fat arthoe/weeb girls also fall out of range. Who am I supposed to date? No girl is attracted to me.
>>35085965i feel kinda this way as well. i can say there are artsy girls who prefer guys in the normie range (ideally someone who's artsy but doesn't have an inherent lack of social skills) you would fit that definitely.
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That's fine you have a type of woman you prefer. $10 says you will end up with someone completely different than expected... and you'll be happy. >be me>prefer tall slim blue-eyed redheads, as tall and slim is elegant to me. >marry a 5-foot-0 LBFM latina.> curves, boobs, booty all larger than my tastes when young.>black hair, dark skin, black eyes.> still can't keep my hands off her 20 years and a bunch of kids later.
>>35085965OP, you absolute dumbfuck. All three fantasize about the gym bro who is a career professional.They couldn't give a shit about your hobbies they just want your chest and shoulders to be wider than your gut and they want to know you make good money.
>>35086133I disagree because that's literally me. However, the last woman I talked to questioned where my social life was. I work from home so yeah.
>>35086012> Just settle
>>35085965Cast a wide net often in the area where you know your type is. Fishing in the middle of a rain puddle will not yield the results you want.Relationships are lotteries. Too often people have a few bad experiences and then curse the world. You are not entitled to a good partner, you must earn it. Grind for it.Spend a lot of time reflecting on what you want and understanding if what you want would even want you or if you can become the person desirable to your ideal type. Research where these people congregate, spend time there.In the grind you will get burned, you will get burnt out, you will lose hope. You will need time off to recollect your thoughts and not permanently fall into despair. Remember your research, remember it's a number game. Keep trying.
>>35085965You don't date by "interest" because it's all shallow posturing in the end.>Who am I supposed to date? No girl is attracted to me.Ok so date the fugly girl that nobody else wants.
>>35085965loving manga and anime is not artsy it's loser nerd shit separate from arthoes
You could get any of them OP.Clearly very few people on this forum know but having hobbies, interests, and goals you’re working towards are exactly all you need to get a girl. Here’s how:At school, gym, art club, track event , public, talk to girls about anything neutral and in the process mention these areas of your life in conversation. If she asks a question, she’s on the hook. Keep it up and display yourself so she’ll know. Get her number and follow up next day. That’s it
