Last night I was at a house party with a friend. She gets pretty drunk so I decide to stay a bit after the party ends. I try to make sure she eats something or drinks water, aka just trying to make sure she is okay. Meanwhile, she is trying to seduce me while drunk af. I try my best to avoid her advances until she falls asleep. I then proceed to let myself out and go home.She is a long time friend of mine so I felt like I couldn't give in to her advances, plus she was really drunk. Still, she is smoking hot and I feel like I let go of the easiest W ever. did I fuck up?
>>35087856That is rape.
I don't think she signalled her interest in you clearly enough. I recommend orbiting her for another 72 months before asking her out, just to be sure.
>>35087862I thought as much, I am glad I chose to not give in. I feel good about making the right choice now
>>35087856>>35087888Bro this is how 90% of people end up hooking up. Women don't have sex when they're drunk, they GET DRUNK TO HAVE SEX. So they can turn off that (already losing) high inhibition part of their brain that (correctly) tells them they're being a slut for having casual premarital sex. You missed out, and there's no coming back from it; since you rejected her, to protect her ego she's going to classify you as an undesirable anyway, you were actually below her league the whole time. Maybe she'll even start thinking you're actually gay. Only faggot beta male soi cucks like this >>35087862 and (You) buy into the whole "it's rape if she's drunk" things. If the Cornell 7 thing can teach you anything, it's that women decide drunk sex is rape only when they regret it after the fact. Just give them nothing to regret and you're fine. The frat president telling the slut she couldn't come back for another party screwed over those guys way more than any sex act they did.You fell for being the nice guy, and now instead of finishing inside of your friend, like all nice guys you finished last (and in your hand).
>>35087911Why would you give a woman such easy dirt on you with several witnesses on how inebriated she was? It's not worth it.
You should shoot your shot now that she's sobered up. You will fuck up if you don't do that.
>>35087961I mean it's ok to play it safe but for that matter why have sex with any woman? The Russell Brand case shows that any woman you had sex with can decide retroactively that it was rape at any time. For every guy that gets accused of "rape" when he has sex with a drunk chick, there are nine other guys going about their day with a smile because they got to nut after fucking a pussy and that was the end of it. Because unless she was genuinely black out, passed out unconscious, it's not actually rape to have sex with a girl when she's just drunk. >>35087968This is the only course available to OP if he still wants to make anything happen, but I personally think there's a 90% chance she'll say something along the lines of:>Wow anon I'm really flattered but I think I just had too much to drink the other night, I don't want to ruin what we already have so let's just stay friends, teehee!In her mind, getting drunk and getting all over OP was her ringing the dinner bell in front of her pussy. OP rejected it, and even if it was for logical reasons she's still going to feel insulted and hamsterwheel her way out of any genuine feelings she had for OP and reject him back while sober just to preserve her ego.Remember that women are actually stupid, they don't use reason to try to infer how things are going to go or how things might look to external observers, they act on emotions and in the moment. She could not logically make the connection that getting drunk and offering herself to OP put him in a dangerous position as a man in the big '26, not because she was inebriated but because she's a woman and women are retards.
>>35087856Also OP one thing that changes the equation, did you ever fucking tell her anything along the lines of >hey, I really like you, but let's do this later, you're too drunk right now, but I want to take you out when you're soberOr were you being a nonverbal sperg?
>>35087856>she is a long time friend of mine>she is smoking hot and I feel like I let go of the easiest W ever.>did I fuck up?First and foremost, you need to cut the shit. If you were truly content with mere friendship between yourself and this woman, you wouldn't be posting about this. You either want to fuck her or you don't. If you want to fuck her and either (a) haven't made that clear when you're both sober or (b) have been rejected by her yet continue to hang around, you're an orbiter. So which is it? My best piece of advice to you is that you acknowledge your rather tenuous position and work to get out of it. Simply put - either you date/fuck her or you cut contact.>>35088270This is real shit. Your odds are low, OP, but they're not zero. Time to nut up.
>>35087856just shoot your shot at this point, if you lose her as a friend so be it
>>35087856If she was drunk but you weren't, that would be rape.Just shoot your shot now bro nice she wants you
>>35088272I was being quite verbal imo, I was trying to difuse the situation by telling her that she's drunk and that she should just rest for now, etc. Keep in mind that she is a long time friend of mine, I think we've been friends for almos a decade by now. And while I do think she is hot, I don't really have feelings for her. I guess the best way I can describe her is as a best friend.
>>35088630I was drunk but not as drunk as her. Still felt weird, which is why I didn't do anything.
>>35089004then bring it up to her, if she tries confessing turn her down, but if she waves it off as a mistake you can also wave off the moment and forget about it and keep the friendship intact
>If she was drunk but you weren't, that would be rape.
depends, if you want to date her, there is still a chance, you know. she was already making advances.
>>35089022this. just talk to her about, tell her that she was really drunk last time and if she remembers what happened.
>>35087856This is why every time you go out, all the time, you need to be:1) dressed nicely2) clean in all areas3) groomed and smell good4) basically ready to kiss, fuck, and get suckedThat's how a modern man should be, literally all the time.I bet the reason you said no is because you felt inadequate in the moment. well, if you are always ready for fucking, you are never inadequate. Be ready next time.God i wish i could fuck her instead
>>35087862>tHis iS rAp3^this jealous nigger would 100% fuck her in your situation. They're just upset you had momentary access to willing pussy when they don't.
>>35089974I didn't fuck her because I have morals and proper consent is important to me, retard. It had nothing to do with me not being ready.
>>35090234I feel that plus like dude, the next day and the confusion and fear and having to text her to like make sure it's "all good" or whatever isn't really worth a wacky nut. U made the right choice.
>>35089974This is a fact I am always ready to fuck at any moment. If a girl sleeps with me at the very least I can smell good have hygiene and have my stamina on point so I can perform well.
>>35090318Based knower>>35090234It's okay, it's your life, you know your relationship with her better than we do, but all i know is that if it was me, and she started kissing on me and making me feel her bobs and vagene, i would.Channel your inner Indian saar, the foids are being taken by chads, last night it was you, another night it's someone else. And do you think the average male will say no? No he'll say yes, and i think you're a bit too paranoid in this regard. If she's a good friend and good person she wouldn't ruin your life, it would just be a hookup
>>35090234You didn't fuck her because you're a pussy-ass bitch and a beta male, and you're using "morals" as an excuse. Again, unless she's actually passed out unconscious, it's not rape. If you can fucking consent to search warrants and Miranda right while you're drunk, you can consent to sex while drunk, not to mention the bullshit double standard of only the woman's intoxication being taken into account.The overlapping area in the Venn diagram of "men who play it safe" and "men who fuck a lot" is infinitesimally small. Remember that next time and you might get your dick wet.>>35090303>the next day and the confusion and fear and having to text her to like make sure it's "all good" or whatever isn't really worth a wacky nutYou zoomers are so fucking cringe. You're too afraid of a rape accusation to have sex with a drunk chick yet your instincts would be to pWhat is this bullshit about "texting her the next day" anyway? Fucking wake up together, go get some coffee, enjoy the afterglow, talk like two humans. Asking these bullshit feminized male questions "are you alright? Did you feel safe?" is what gets you in trouble because you make her second-guess the experience instead of reinforcing that it was positive for both of you.Zoomers are so fucking cooked man, I wish I was 10 years younger and still had my youthful good looks, I'd absolutely be crushing.
>>35090303>>35090690Forgot to finish:You're too afraid of a rape accusation to have sex with a drunk chick yet your instincts would be to *put the thing you're worried about into writing for future incrimination after you do the deedThe zoomer hysteria over sex has me raging so hard I'm not even finishing sentences. Feminism really fucked you guys up, huh? It's like women as a collective confiscated the balls of every male under the age of 27
just put the dick in the vag bro
>>35089004>I guess the best way I can describe her is as a best friend.fwiw if you've been friends this good and for this long then I think there's a real possibility that could be a person you may enjoy spending your life with romantically tooThink about whether you really don't like her or the "omg but she's a long time friend!" thing is just overriding it and hiding your attraction, or you're merely hiding behind that as an excuse for your fear of your friendship going awry if "you two don't work out". (remember, if you don't take the risk and you each find a different partner, you will likely still drift apart from each other) Hard to say, you know, but there must be some kind of deeper chemistry/bond if you've been close this long, and you clearly care for her. Could you imagine waking up next to her for the rest of your life?I don't think you should cofnront her as >>35089022 said. You should think about this thoroughly and you should go out and do some fun stuff together like visiting a pub or something and if there's chemistry, let down your overthinking guard and go for it. Better than to be wondering "what if" 30 years from now.
>>35093808holy shit, I really wasn't expecting good advice after all the retarded virgins saying "you should've just gotten your dick wet" lmao.But yeah, maybe I should shift my view of her from “just a friend” to a potential romantic partner. We’ve always joked that if we’re both single by the time we’re 30, we should just get married, so the idea of us dating isn’t that odd.
>>35093932>holy shit, I really wasn't expecting good advice after all the retarded virgins saying "you should've just gotten your dick wet" lmao.Bro you are an actual fucking beta male that doesn't have the courage to fuck the chick he's orbiting even when she offers herself on a silver platter. No advice is going to help you.
>>35093808>go out and do some fun stuff together like visiting a pub or somethingOh, so you mean he should go somewhere with this girl where they can hang out, have a few drinks, and get intimate and close together? OH WAITDURRRRRRRRRRRR
>>35093953>offers herself on a silver platterIf a really drunk girl that's barely conscious is "offering herself on a silver platter" to you, then I have nothing more to say to you. Clearly arguing with such a retarted incel that wouldn't hesitate to rape someone is a waste of time.There is a reason why I don't need to be so desperate. I actually get laid without having to resort to such vile behavior. Can you say the same?
>>35094313>really drunk girl that's barely conscious >Meanwhile, she is trying to seduce me while drunk afSo which is it, faggotron? Was she all over you, trying to seduce you? Or was she barely awake? Both can't be true at once.>There is a reason why I don't need to be so desperate. I actually get laid without having to resort to such vile behavior. Can you say the same?There's no way a self-confessed orbiter is claiming to not be desperate. I must have entered bizarro world or something.
>>35087856OP. Don't listen to these retards. You did the right thing.
