It feels very unnatural to me, only one time in my life have I given a second chance to a woman and it ended with breaking up again because I couldn't change her for who she is without her input. I feel like it's just limerence and nostalgia and a severe lack of sexual partners. Every time I got a new girlfriend I realized how much the last one was not worth it, there's just no point in grieving over someone who's history. Like Yoko Ono is still grieving over her husband that died in the 80s, it's absolutely insane to me because first three weeks are the worst of moving on and I'm doing everything to move on from that, how the fuck do you dedicate your entire life to grieving over someone? There's so many other people for you and yet you want the old one back despite the fact that you two broke up for a reason. I don't know maybe I'm just more mature than majority of people and can see things clearly but it's so insane to me, it's like moving countries for a girl where you have no future in.
>>35088861Thats your story. Enjoy
Pussy got men acting unwise.
>>35089145More so retard Narcing out
>>35088861Women only come back to fuck you over. The end is the end don't go back.
>>35088861The only way that can happen is if you refuse to feel the pain, and continually maintain hope by looking at pictures of them. It's a terrible idea.
>>35088861Because it means the really did love them.
>>35089597Yup. Never got better, the space where they are missing always hurts
>>35089625stop spamming Mike or whoever you are. Just go talk to Maria, visit her.
>>35089790I made a comment relevent to the threadHow about you stop chasing and spamming me.
>>35089914I'm not chasing you. It's annoying seeing you write about Maria and Colton for the umpteenth time
>>35089935Seriously, it's been how many years now? Get over yourself man.
>>35090341Right? How many years chasing and tantruming at me. Give it up man
>>35088861>I feel like it's just limerence and nostalgia and a severe lack of sexual partners.Yes, it's usually a combination of memories for the good times and a lack of better options. Especially if you break up after a long relationship and you've aged out of getting younger options.Ego has a lot to do with it too, at least in my case. I thought my ex GF of 8 years would have just as hard of a time with our breakup, turns out she had a guy from work "on the bench" for a little while and started dating him like a month after I moved out. It hurts and it makes you feel like you're worthless if you can just be discarded and replaced so fast.>Every time I got a new girlfriend I realized how much the last one was not worth it, there's just no point in grieving over someone who's history. Look at Chad Thundercock and the Dating Pool of Endless Options over here.>Like Yoko Ono is still grieving over her husband that died in the 80sHard to trade up over one of the biggest celebrities of all timeYou're not more mature OP, you just have options and are a bit of a manwhore who lost his ability to pair bond. Most guys don't and aren't. If anything OP, you come across as emotionally stunted and dare I say shallow.
