it's like they immediately lose respect and attraction the moment you cry in front of them
>>35089341YepIf you fall for it, you lose.
>>35089352so are you supposed to never cry in front of them or what
>>35089341Depends on the girl. The one im seeing is 100% dom and loves that when its genuine
>>35089341Everything they do is a trap. The only winning move is not to play.
>>35089439>The one im seeing is 100% dom and loves that when its genuinesomebody tell him
>>35089341Yes it is. Women will constantly push you to be a beta feminine loser so that they can see if you fall for it. If you fall for it, she will lose respect and you're on a time limit to get back to normal or she will leave.When you win then it proves your masculinity.
Girls simply don’t think things through with clarity. When she tells you that she isn’t lying but doesn’t have the foresight or self awareness to know that she will be turned off by it.Understanding that a very large percentage of the population has very limited abilities for abstraction will help you deal with people a lot. They just can’t process hypotheticals to their logical ends.Remember that by definition 50% of the people you meet have an IQ of less than 100
>>35089341Women are very VERY rarely honest about what they want. Nor are they ever particularly accurate in reporting what it is that they actually want (because they often don't actually know what they want).You shouldn't take many of their "insights" into what you should become at their behest seriously.
>>35089478You are clearly butt hurt. Im good. I dont need your butt hurt
>>35089482Paranoid delusions >>35089569Reaching assumptive demoralizaion falss generalization
>>35089586>>35089575Go get pegged you fag, no one cares what you think
>>35089586snoyfag got his first ugly girlfriend that "doms" but in reality is cheating on him with other guys in her dms (he's okay with her having male friends<3) and is white knighting about it on 4chan
>>35089589>>35089645Triggered Butt hurt narc seething
>>35089654is narc your favorite word from tiktok?
>>35089586>Reaching assumptive demoralizaion falss generalizationIf women actually knew what they wanted, the average level of happiness with women would trend upwards as they obtained more autonomy and freedom in society. But the opposite is true.Women are not honest with themselves (or other women) about what they actually want.
>>35089658No, just based of your actions and once agaun narc tactics in arguing. Ad hominem falacyattacks another person’s character, motives, background or other personal attributes, rather than focusing on the argument at hand. It’s a distraction tactic meant to discredit the opposition and pull the attention away from the actual issue being debated.>>35089664You are talking about a completely different thing that doesnt prove what you said is correct. False analogyA false analogy, also known as a faulty analogy, weak analogy, or wrongful comparison, is a logical fallacy that occurs when an argument is based on misleading, superficial, or implausible comparisons. It’s important to recognize that not all analogies are inherently flawed, but in the case of a false analogy, the comparison being made is either irrelevant or dissimilar to the point being argued.
>>35089704Kys redditor
>>35089341They mean sensitive to HER, as in, you need to be more considerate of her emotions, thought, etc. This means pay more attention to her and what she is NOT telling you she cares about. If you often have to ask her to be honest, frank, forthright, or explain what she means... you're being insensitive.Instead you have to watch what she does, not what she says, so if she is looking at an expensive gift but says she'd never have somthing so expensive, he says this so that she converts you signal about not being materialistic, shallow, vain, or greedy. But if YOU just HAPPEN to BUY it for her (SHE DIDN'T ASK THO OK? OK?) well then she COULDN'T refuse a GIFT could she? Especially not one from her caring and considered an attentive husband who's so sensitive to her needs.Get it now? Modern women have been taught that duplicity is the norm. They will be two faced and upset you can't read their minds. If you do not appreciate such Treatment Be upfront about it And remind her every time she crosses that line. Setting such boundaries and barriers will help you weed out the people who are just using you. Good luck.
>>35089365This is what men think being sensitive means.What she wants is probably closer to non-autistic behavior. I don't think there's a good way to describe it. Something like the ability to get along with her normie friends while liking the social interaction. The ability to sorta guess what she wants based on her mood. Consideration of what she's feeling.It is stupid for her to ask. Some men do those things naturally. Some can't
>>35089717Nvm there not being a good way to describe it. Anon described it perfectly
>>35089710More ad hominem fallacyLame narc
>>35089717Circular reasoning. Depending on the result to prove the means when the means you brought up may not be relevant to the result.
>>35089895>>35089889Oh wow you're such a clever boy, you know what all the fallacies are called!
>>35089889>>35089895you're so redditsmart
>>35089365You are never supposed to cry in front of your wife or children period. Your role is to be the one thing in their miserable tumultuous lives that projects stability and strength when nothing else will. Cry in your beer at a bar, cry in your car, cry any fuckin where other than in front of them.
>>35089907Got to when dealing with narcs like you
>>35089929I dont even have a reddit account.
>>35089961You will divorce at 40 or hang at 52
>>35089365Yeah so this is a really good propaganda trick. People online convince you that no one is safe, which causes you to never have an authentic adult relationship in your life, stunting you and trapping you into an endless cycle of fear, hatred, and bad relationships. Why do they do this? For political influence and to drive consumer spending. Couples spend less money than singles when they share costs.
>>35090026>>35090021>>35090019Kys
>>35090034I definitely for sure promise i will after you do so dont keep me waiting buddy
>>35090036See but I'm not gonna kms. You will.We are not alike
>>35090043That doesnt work because im waiting for you to do it first because im a gentleman
>>35090066>gentlemanYou're a cuck who gets pegged and cheated on btw
>>35089717All of this relationship stuff seems so exhausting. Why do you guys put up with it? Pussy can't be that great.
>>35089341The only trap is caring what a bitch thinks if my girl left me I'd just laugh in her face. That's how u do it, stay cold nigga. I cried to kanye music over three times with my girl. And she likes it.
>>35090126We do it to weed out the ones who do that. When we find one that doesn't, we keep her.
>>35090078Never gotten cucked, cheated on, or pegged You really are throwing a tantrum. Calm your tits narc
>>35089341>it's like they immediately lose respect and attraction the moment you cry in front of themThis is an incel myth. It doesn't actually happen.
trust your instincts. that is all.
>>35090770You 100% did because you're not a real man
>>35090859lies
>>35090859It's a soiboy tranny myth that it's an incel myth
>>35089961Based>>35090026He'll die of alcoholism at 70, having never divorced or lost the love of his children.You will suicide in 5 years.
>>35089341No; those women suck.Misogyny mostly affects women, but sexism affects everyone more or less equally, I would say. These women are toxic pieces of shit that think the best thing for them is toxic masculinity. She wants you to be her hyper-aggressive pet bulldog. Don't fall for it.A good woman allows men to feel and doesn't lose attraction because he's "not manly" or whatever. That's bullshit. You don't stop dating women because they like video games and the occasional burger, do you? If no, then stop listening to these bitchest. woman
>>35090859It's not a myth. Sexism affects all of us. Feminism should acknowledge this>>35092446>Soiboy tranny mythLmao. Every community has its idiots and I do many every community of every type. But, no; I don't see my trans siblings saying this at all.See my response above for details. Also, please, please, please talk to people IRL and not on here. I am willing to bet you're chronically online. I really, and genuinely, hope you are able to work on that. Recommend therapy to help you get out and meet a variety of people.
>>35092684>I do manyI do mean*Really gotta work on my proofreading.
>>35089341>tells you what to doyes, this is a trapNEXT
>>35090026tranny tripfag thinks the bare minimum amount of effort required to be masculine is suicide inducing, shocker
>>35089439This sounds like toxic misunderstanding of BDSM...Everyone should be able to feel things, even people who are more sexually dominant and even people who have , hopefully mild, issues with being domineering. Compromise is a real thing and I notice it tends to fall on the sexually submissive partner... least in my case......But that doesn't mean it has to always be like that at all and in fact, I think it's a flaw that my partner is a little bit like that. We've been together for years now and it's been wonderful. But I do think that, though complimentary as it tends to be, I am working on being more assertive and my partner is working a little more on compromising. These things aren't set in stone and I don't think they, alone, decide how you engage with your sex life / flirtation.Maybe flirtation.I don't know. But thinking about it in black and white is a huge mistake.
>>35089341Yeah because they will hold it against you if you piss them off lol.Just tell them some shit about how you saved a bee from a spider web one time and it made you think about the poor children in [insert war here] and how unfair it all is.It makes you look extra compassionate as you saved a bee and also are concerned about the children dying via war. That's how you drown in pussy. Never tell a bitch about your real problems like how your dad left or something and you had no father figure growing up lmao.
>>35092684Kys
>>35091351Keep projecting. It helps flush you out>>35092455Opposite really>>35092702Wow really upset you to keep same fagging
>>35093248Oh it's you again!How was your pegging session with your dummy mommy, cuckboi?
>>35093273Tired of words. If you are going to bite. Bite.
>it's like they immediately lose respect and attraction the moment you cry in front of themNot true at all. Women love when you emote. They just dont love when you are being a bitch. Crying as you recount to her some super traumatic moment in your life will bring her closer to you as she gets off on the emotions and feels like your connection got deeper. If you cry in front of her because your sports team lost or because you are frusterated by your boss being mean to you or something then yeah. She is going to (correctly) lose respect for you because you are acting like a bitch.
>>35093498Ok drop your address
>>35093248It's samefagging, one word, newfag. And I'm not even doing it lol. You are just an absolute clown, we're all laughing at you. Keep the trip on, it'll let everyone know to immediately ignore any "advice" a social reject like you has to give out.
>>35093956Narc attempt at slander. Buzz off. You are pathetic
I like getting annaly railed.
>>35096289Not my trip fren
>>35089341YES. IT FUCKING DOES.I opened with my wife and he told me days later that she didn’t like me that way, that I was looking weak.Even years later she tells me she feels like the man in the relationship just because of that time.Never, ever, fucking open to a woman. They will never forget and will take advantage of that.
>>35096528Jesus, what did you tell her that was so bad?
Here's an example of what she means. Let's say she has a problem. Some coworker cancelled on her last minute, this is the third time, blah blah blah.When she tells you this, your simple male brain has a solution: Just ditch the friend.Do not tell her this. It comes across as you're not listening to her or you don't care about her feelings. Because immediately presenting a solution is male thinking. Let her talk shit about her friend for half an hour, then kiss her, tell her you understand her feelings, and very gently share your practical information disguised as reassurance.That's it. That's what she means about being sensitive. It only applies to her though, don't do it with other girls or she gets jealous.
>>35089341The problem is that they don't know what they're asking for.What they want is not sensitivity, they want to feel closer to you and feel like you have more mystery to you left, so they ask this dumb request of wanting you to be more sensitive and share more stuff, but they don't even know that that's not what they want, and they don't even know that they're doing it.99% of the time they'll recoil in disgust when you reveal you have normal human feelings and insecurities, so you better keep that shit to yourself and only share it with the boys or anonymously online.Women are ruthless when it comes to the image of a man, even my own mother makes fun of me if I was ever stupid enough to share a feeling with her. Don't fall for this, they are like kids who ask for things they don't know the consequences for yet.>>35089365If you're attractive enough and they have the propensity for it they'll like it even more. If you're not attractive enough they'll hate you for it or they'll tell you it's okay while secretly losing all admiration and attraction to you
>>35093998>You are patheticFinally something you're an expert in. As opposed to all of your other shitposts that amount to nothing more than "Nuh uh"
>>35096528You are making shit up because your narc ego is bruises because no one believes your incel narrative>>35096667Learn to read. Pushing slander makes you look pathetic to those who know me and dont listen to your garbage
>>35096867How was today's pegging session faget?
>>35096588I was having a shitty month and she noticed that I was in bad mood. So I finally opened and complained that I had too much on my plate to deal with. My family, the job, money, issues with the house, issues with her family. I was overwhelmed and just vented out that I feel frustated, overworked and I needed a short break of all this shit.She looked at me and told me that a lot of people had issues too but they just deal with it. Later she told me she found me weak that day that I couldnt handle all of that. That she also has her issues (only her family) and she is not complaining (she is).Then when we have some issue she tells me that maybe I should not be involved because she knows I cannot handle stuff and would it be better if she takes cares of the issue herself.Of course I say to her I will take care of stuff and I dont ever complain shit with her anymore and any issue with her family is her own shit now.Now I understand my father, he never opened to my mom but instead goes to bars and have some hookers around. I guess he talks about his problems outside the family so we dont see the “weakness” on him.
>>35089341The next time she's mad at you for something unreasonable and/or irrelevant, after stonewalling for a bit, get a little emotional and explain that you're having a hard time with work or whatever and it's tough for you to know what to do in this situation and you're sorry. She will start bawling and apologizing and want to cuddle and stuff, this makes the relationship stronger. I can't explain it.
>>35096877You tell me, mommy
