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I don't know how to be/act sexy because I never had a bf in school or experienced childhood love or sex or anything like that.

I think all guys want a girl who can act sexy when necessary but I literally can't. I was treated as asexual when I was in school by boys (cystic acne and i cut my own hair short so yeah) so while I know I'm not asexual, I don't feel sexual around men and likely would end up in a dead bedroom relationship if I had one. I'm attracted to men but I feel like I don't have any sexuality, sensuality, etc. just none, nada.
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>>35090803
Video cracked me up. Thanks for that.

Dont assume. Communicate and hope the one you do communicate with is honest.
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>>35090803
>I don't feel sexual around men and likely would end up in a dead bedroom relationship if I had one.
So, why are you so sure you're not asexual?
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>>35090845
I masturbate and feel strong attraction to men.

I also know it's bc I did 100% miss out on teen love. I know mostly men say that, but for me it's true.
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Just get a bf and have sex, done
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>>35090901
Can't, I was never treated as a sexual being and that remains fate
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>>35090969
my fate*
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So why are you asking for advice here? Attention whoring won't help, just fuck a nigger, be a coal burner and fuck off honestly. Can't get honestly worse than this, you're already garbage.
Let me guess, you also cut yourself?
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>>35090971
Just get some desperate incel then to have sex with, ez pz
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>>35091017
Not everyone is like you, people who cut themselves are cringe. I just wonder if I can ever have a happy relationship if I cannot feel sexual around men, only alone .
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>>35090803
oh boo hoo
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the next time some guy you think is cushee emits sexual energy at you just mirror his energy and body language that's perfectly seductive

all the girls you see that are so sexy such siren are well practiced from all the techniques they've learned doing the above
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I think you should probably also stop masturbating. It all comes down to scratching that itch. If you find a lot of satisfaction from doing it yourself, you are more against the idea of other doing it for you. Also, not everything in porn is real (I hope you know that), most men can't match the energy unless they are on pills. So, next time you get the itch, go to a club, find a guys, but don't expect what you see in porn. You just might be genuinely surprised.
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men are used to putting in most of the effort. Honestly all you need to do is to figuratively drop the handkerchief
honestly it is ridiculously easy to seduce men, the biggest risks for you are going for someone way out of your league or putting it on too strongly and him thinking you are a slut and won't be loyal
honestly, try getting a bit tipsy, I think this is what women normally do when they want a socially acceptable excuse to become more flirtatious
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>help I have this problem, btw I'm a girl teehee!
>ok here is obviously solution
>NOOO I CAN'T DO THAT, btw did I mention I'm a girl?

When are you fucking morons going to stop falling for the engagement b8 being posted by gookmoot's Mumbai minions?
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>>35091022
>>35090803
You need to consider that what makes you sexy is not other people but you. You're viewing this through the lens of how you appear to others rather than how you enoy yourself, how you show others you are interested. Considering how you want to appear on a stage is different from considering that the spotlight is on you, sort of thing. I don't think you feel self-concious but I think it's important for you to understand there is not a wrong way if it is an authentic expression of your sexual self. You need to focus on what is desire for you.
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>>35090803
As a virgin male, I think that most males agree that endearing and relatable for creating a sexual attraction, are far more important than acting "sexy" (slutty), well yes appearance does play a large role, but I highly doubt you'll end up in a dead bedroom. I bet my buns (not my butt but rather a batch of cinnamon buns) that all you have to do to make a male turned on is just by explaining this to him and by being yourself.
I, on the other hand, will be very unlikely to actually ever be able to bring a female to my bedroom.
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>>35091022
You'll get over it once you start doing it. Exposure therapy.
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>>35090803
Whether you like it or not, suck cock. Do it frequently and to the best of your ability. That should be enough, and ffs swallow.
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Like him. Enjoy his company. And let him see that you enjoy being with him.

There is nothing sexier.



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