I added this girl on snapchat last friday, and shes kind of mid but we ball. She went to the ye concert rly drunk so I ask her to send. she sent in the bathroom mid concert. we talked the next few days but she takes hours to reply. we have good calls but they always end short since she has to sleep or something at 11. yesterday I told her theres no school for me tmr so lets do something. she seemed excited to do something. today, she sits on her ass while I center my day around maybe going to the mall or something with her. I end up doing nothing, now wondering how to clutch this without being too needyhelp me out I js want to have a girl for the holidays
>>35091335play hot and cold. don't be consistent. if she takes 2 hours to reply, you take 3 hours to reply. if she sleeps at 11, you have a friends hangout at 10 everyday. show her your worth. show her that you can do without her. show her that you have other women.
>>35091335>>35093706But as she start going close to you, love bomb her and then next day pull away. hold it for three or two days.
>>35091335>I added this girl on snapchat last fridayNgl, I NEVER use Snapchat to talk to women. I've NEVER gotten a date or a lay from Snapchat. There's something about the app that doesn't transfer to real life. I prefer to get a girl's number or insta and go from there.>she sent in the bathroom mid concertGood, means at least she's interested. Although concerts are a red flag, do you wanna just bone this girl or do you want something more long term?>yesterday I told her theres no school for me tmr so lets do something. she seemed excited to do something. today, she sits on her ass while I center my day around maybe going to the mall or something with herI'm assuming you're an American like me. School was closed yesterday for Veteran's Day. I can't tell by the way you wrote this, did you guys go out and she sat on her ass or did you plan and she never agreed on a time to meet?>I end up doing nothing, now wondering how to clutch this without being too needyMy policy with dating, is that it's supposed to be easy. If it's hard you're barking up the wrong tree. She probably lost/or is losing interest. My advice is to text her some direct message and try to lock down a time if she is flaky or hesitant, you have your answer.
