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>gets on a dating site
>matched with this girl
>says distance is a bit far
>offers to just be friends
What does that mean?
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>>35091413
It means she is letting you down easy. And she is a saint to do so. Distance sucks in a relationship. My last ex lived 45 minutes away but expected me to make that trip 4-5 times a week bare minimum. I wasn't getting any sleep, I was neglecting my dog. Fuck that. If she lives more than 20 minutes away it's not worth it unless you are both ok with only seeing each other once a week.
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>>35091413
What kind of Cyberpunk2077-ass gun is that??
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>>35091862
the gangster kind
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>>35091849
> Distance sucks in a relationship. My last ex lived 45 minutes away but expected me to make that trip 4-5 times a week bare minimum.
LMAO my first relationship was between NYC and Boston which is a 4 hour trip, and the next one after that was LA to Boston.
Are you not able to be alone?
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>>35091849
45 minutes is less than most people's commutes
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>>35091413
it means she's not attracted to you
the reason given doesn't matter, women generally won't tell men this directly to their face, and rightfully so (risky)

do:
cut contact if you're afraid or catching oneitis for her
ask her if she has single friends she can introduce you to (sometimes it works!)


don't:
argue that [whatever distance] isn't that far and you can make it work, you'll look stupid because you can't get the message. AND will force her to make up other bs reasons, which she'll resent you for
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>>35092831
That's not an evil building.
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>>35092831
this advice sucks.

It means she thinks she can do better and is saving you in case she can't. Do not ask her if she has any single friends. Do just be her friend and hang out because she might eventually introduce you to her single friends. This is better than getting insta-blocked for being selfish. If you actually become friends with her, then you probably can joke about that sort of thing so you don't seem desperate. Good women don't want to introduce desperate guys to their female friends. Being friends with people, even with women, is good for meeting more people and having more experiences that'll probably make you more pleasant to be around. If she doesn't actually want to be friends/go on platonic dates, just block her. ez. and btw if you're talking to social women, it will be a problem if you don't actually have any irl male friends. the biggest red flag to women is when men aren't friends with other men, or when they friends with terrible people.
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whatever you do, do not message this woman more than she messages you. do not catch feelings for her, and don't think of her as a romantic interest. if you guys ever actually hang out, make it clear that you know it's not a date. >>35091849
this anon is kind of right. some people have busier lives than others and probably just want to date someone who lives close by.
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>>35093872
>the biggest red flag to women is when men aren't friends with other men
uuuurrrgggghhhh I hate normie women so much
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>>35091413
Means nothing. Some random hoe many miles away, a meaningless "match" on a dating app, why do you care?
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>>35093882
Me too
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>>35093872
>gets friendzoned
>accepts and waits
that's not how women work
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>>35093879
Narc slander attempt thread.
M sees through this garbage.
She wrote me a letter and has dine much more recently. Over rides all this shit



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