>we matched on a dating app and went out for a drink>it went well, we were making out at the end of the 1st date>for the 2nd date we went out and looked at some lights, then we went back to my place>more kissing and we undressed each other but didn't have sex because she was on her period>we set the 3rd date and she was going to come over to my place again>the day of, she cancels it with no other explanation>it's been 5 days now and she has not messaged me back or explained what's going on>she also deleted her bumble and either deleted or just unmatched me on hingeI decided to just leave her alone for a while but I'm not sure she's ever going to speak to me again. I don't know what I did wrong. I thought everything was going well and then she just drops off the face of the earth. Should I message her again or just let it go?
>>35091453Let it go and keep it rolling.Sorry it happened to you, but hey it just happens like this sometimes. At least you got a naked makeout.
Yeah you are ghosted, it doesnt even matter how many times you went out, what you did or how much she enjoyed the dates.You shouldn't contact her. That's just modern dating and what you can expect from women, especially on the apps.
On to the next one, playaIf you REALLY want to backseat retroactive quarterback the situation though, you should have still been sexually dominant when "she was on her period" and got naked. You should have nutted in her mouth or ass. Had you done that, she would be coming back.
>>35091453You are assuming that couples automatically get together unless there is an overwhelming reason not to. Exactly the opposite is true - the norm is for any random two people NOT to connect unless something extraordinary happensShe gave it a chance. She gave it two chances. Magic didn't happen.
>>35093033why make out with someone if theres no magic?
>>35093264She's a husk of a person and just going through the motions; intimacy means nothing to her. She just used you for validation and now she wants a new toy.
>>35091453Happens. Doesn't really matter why. Maybe she found someone else, maybe she simply didn't like you enough. Whatever. Don't cry over it, on to the next.>>35091765Have to agree with this guy. Did you cum? You were naked with her after all, it would be weird if you didn't lol... but maybe not in her mouth, some women don't like to eat cum.
>>35093264What's so special about making out?
>>35093905Depends on the person. To some people it's a handshake and to others a declaration of true love.
>>35091453> I don't know what I did wrongshes a woman, they are bird brained, why do you assume you did something wrong? >Should I message her againno. The fact that you are worried about a girl is a telling sign though, your energy is bad. You have to be like "im the prize"
>>35091453The other guy managed to schedule in sex before you did. You might hear from her in a couple months. Tough break.
>>35091453You outted yourself as insufficiently masculine/capable for refusing period sex. Here's the breakdown:1. Period sex is easy. Throw a towel over the bed, lay her ass on it, fuck like normal, shower together after, wash the towel. It's actually nice, most women feel tighter during their period and normal people enjoy showers.2. By refusing, you made her feel insecure/undesirableWomen are really skiddish dont fuck up so hilariously close to the finish line next time.
>>35094029This is true.I personally love sucking face and slobbering with a girl, but not every girl likes it. I've had some women that let me fuck them and cum on their faces but didn't like kissing beyond brief pecks on the lips.Honestly probably has a lot to do with how much the girl is into yo.
>>35093905its not something you should do with people you do not like and are not attracted to. thats deranged.
>>35093264Maybe she didn't know how to say No
>>35095483In my experience when the woman is a horrible kisser the sex will be shit. Have you ever kissed a hard tonguer? I dated this woman once and she liked stiffening her tounge and fucking my mouth with it. Absolutely disgusting. She had bad breath and a stinky vagina too, to the point where I wondered if she had some sort of stank fetish.>>35096243Being sexually attracted to someone doesn't require "magic". You can be sexually attracted to many women, there's nothing "magical" about it.Still, the more you are attracted to the woman the better the kiss is, obviously.
