I did it again. I ghosted a girl on a dating app and intentionally made her lose interest. She was initially very keen to go on a date then I decided to drop her for no good reason. It’s not like I’m a man of many options, I’m not but why do I behave as so whenever I get the opportunity once in a blue moon? I am pushing 30. This is fucking embarrassing bros. What the fuck is wrong with me? Two months later I’m obsessing over her going insane stalking all of her socials on the daily. This has been a cycle I’ve been going through ever since I was in my teens. What is wrong with me????
>>35093152you're an avoidant. Get therapy
You crave control and certainty too much that it is damaging your ability to live life. But first ask yourself; do you actually want a gf or do you just like the idea of having a gf?
>>35093194Painfully accurate image. How to stop being this pathetic? I'm not OP though.
>>35093194Also not op, but this image is accurate, and I feel personally called out.Except for the desperation part, I don't necessarily need sex, but I do desperately need moral validation. I am very horny though.
>>35093152>decided to drop her for no good reason. The reason is probably you're scared of getting rejected so you just reject first so you shield yourself from any chances of getting rejected. But with that you also shield yourself from any chances of getting accepted and any chances of positive feelings reciprocated. So you just end up wasting your own time pretending to date and find a partner whilst having zero intention of actually doing so.
