I don't get this kind of service
if you're a man who can't find himself a gf, you're by definition lacking and unattractive (bc preselection).
how is this going to help. how do they ensure you'll be matched with a woman who will want to have sex / a relationship with you
do they import a 3rd worlder? find an ugly woman/single mom? is it just a scam otherwise?

or is this for men who know how & can date, but can't be arsed because too busy? I can't really picture it. chasing pussy is a rewarding activity that successful men I know enjoy very much
or is it like a long term escort thing?

>>35093271
From my understanding, it's like a dating site in that it has a pool of people that paid into the system, and then you pay money to an old white lady that tries to find someone in that pool that she think's you'd be a good match with.
No trafficking involved, but definitely a high likelyhood of paying well upwards of $5000 for the chance at a few blind dates.
I really doubt any women are that desperate though.

>>35093246
I can only see undesirable people doing shit like this. It goes completely against the natural order of things.
As a man you must chase because women are insecure and they want to be sure you're at least attracted to them, and to show that to her you must chase.

>>35093292
>>35093281
>>35093271

Hey incels
He asked for input by people who have experience with those services. Not your dumbass.

>>35093281
>but definitely a high likelyhood of paying well upwards of $5000 for the chance at a few blind dates
So this is probably a scam perpetrated by the old lady and the women you're going on "dates" with. They're obviously in cahoots. Or, the women are fat/old/single moms/ugly as fuck or all the above.

>>35093298
I'm not an incel idiot. I'm going out with different women pretty much every week. You're the incel here resorting to "matchmaking services". How fucking pathetic is that.

>>35093298
And you know how I go on so many dates? I ask women out. Have you ever tried it? No woman will ever give you undeniable signals of interest bro, they have doubts about you just like you should have doubts about them, that's what dating is for, to see if there's chemistry, if there are any major dealbreakers, etc...

Resorting to a "service" just to get a date is beyond pathetic. There's nothing special about a date. A good amount of single women will have coffee with you if you're at least presentable and well-mannered.

>>35093308
Op here, um, evidently no. So...

>>35093315
What the fuck is stopping you?

You don't even need to go outside. Create a halfway decent profile on a dating app and talk to every match.

Here's how you get a date:
>exchange a few words about some bullshit info on her profile as a vibe check
>ask her out for coffe within 2-3 days

That's it. If you're not a fucking idiot and can talk like a person you will have a decent chat-to-date conversion rate.
If you only get likes from fat or fugly women ask them out anyway, their self-esteem is in the dumps you can even get easy sex out of them (if you manage to get hard obviously).

All you need is 1-2 dates to get the hang of things. Then you'll see that there's nothing otherworldly about dating and women. Women are just people, and most of them are very flawed and not even worth your time, but that's another conversation.

>>35093345
I did, generally they ghost me on the very very very rare ocassion that they match with me. They really do not want to go out on a date with me. But maybe a matchmaker will be able to do better for me.

>>35093345
I have gone on 4 dates in my life though, but pretty much always they have said they don't want to keep going out with me, except for one that I kinda selfsabotaged on because my dog was dying and I had to spend time with her more.

>>35093359
>>35093365
I can sense the self-loathing and insecurity in you. That's not attractive to women. Stop lying to yourself, you are not doing enough. You are not talking to enough women. You are not asking them out. Stop lying.

>but maybe a matchmaker will be able to do better for me
No, they won't. Get this stupid idea out of your head.

>except for one that I kinda selfsabotaged
You self-sabotage all the time, not just with this one woman. You don't have the balls to ask women out because you're insecure and afraid of the outcome, that's self-sabotage, it permeates your life and stops you from getting women.

>>35093365
Ur dog is sucking cocks in hell!

>>35093375
I am self-loathing and I do self-sabotage, but is that really a reason to say that I can't find a woman to be okay with me or even to cause me to be less self-loathing?
Where am I supposed to ask women out? I have been basically cordoned off from women for more than half of my life, and certainly pushed away from social groups with women for nearly my entire life. I don't know practically any women, and practically no women know me. It's impossible for me to overcome that on my own, and I'm certainly not the only one. Though my case may be a little extreme.

>>35093377
If the afterlife exists, then my dog is in literal paradise right now, calling her a saint is frankly giving too much credit to saints that have had their piety exagerated. That's just a fact.

>>35093394
>Where am I supposed to ask women out?
I told you, dating apps. Don't make fucking excuses, they work. Or go to a bar and buy a lonely old hag a drink.

>I have been basically cordoned off from women for more than half of my life, and certainly pushed away from social groups with women for nearly my entire life
Wahh wahh wahh, wahh wahh wahhh
That's what you sound like. Yuck dude. I already hate you and I don't even know you. Understand that this self loathing is incredibly annoying. Having self-esteem is hard enough for women, now imagine if they have to deal with a sourpuss like you on top of that. Yuck.
Get theraphy if you need to, but you MUST sort that shit out.

>Though my case may be a little extreme.
Are you obese? If so lose weight or find other fat women on the apps, they're dime a dozen on these apps, they're like a fucking plague.

>>35093407
Dating apps don't work for me. Next question.
Yeah that is exactly what I sound like. Sometimes. If women hate that then... that's just not going away.
Therapy is expensive, but so is a matchmaker. Just saying.
I'm not obese, I'm actually underweight.

>>35093414
I also don't drink.
It's fine if a future partner drinks but ideally not to excess.

>>35093414
>Next question
No next question. I've given you all the help I can give. Gl out there.

>>35093281
Right but why pay $5000 for something you can get for free in a couple of hours by just touching grass and talking to people