When it comes to dating, I have always felt like my choices are well... stagnant. I live in a city of about 40k people. I was talking to my friend who lives in New York City and he said that my city is likely completely ass for using online dating apps if I don't set my radius for like 50+ miles. I set my radius for the dating app to be like 50 miles and the cities in range total about 150k people. My friend said "Dude, what the fuck are you? A hill billy? There are like no people where you live." So just how fucked am I? All my life I believed I was basically living in a city. But it seems people from "real cities" like New York City or LA think cities with my population might as well be some podunk shithole. Which maybe it is. Am I actually a rural person and just never fucking knew it?As for dating in lower population areas, how do rural people or even places with lower populations even do it? If online dating is truly cursed for me, what even are my options? I feel like people from really big cities with millions of people are basically using cheat codes for dating.
Try it and if you don't find any good matches then yeah move or sthn
>>35093948people who live in cities dont form connections or roots or have any real meaning in their lives. depending what your are looking for that can be a good or bad thing. dating in a city means you can probably meet lots of girls but nothing will last. im talking one day, a week, maybe a month. if you are looking for a wife then dating a city is bad.
