my ex and i were together for 4 years before she cheated on me. its been about 9 months since then. we live together still, but there have been several weeks/months where she has been either staying with her mom or the guy she cheated on me with. recently she came back to living with me full-time again after her relationship ended. i havent looked for a new place to live since i really like my apartment and how close it is to my job. also moving is a bitch. and i also admit its nice having the company despite it being my cheating ex. we have reverted back to our old ways of living together: watching tv, eating food and a few times we've had sex. this has made the situation in her mind salvageable. she's hoping we can be together again, but im not ready to officially say "yes, im willing to give our relationship another chance."what do bros? its nice having stability in my life again and not worrying about being single or facing rejection from potential future partners. ive been on tinder since the breakup and the dating scene is fucking daunting now. i was on tinder 10 years ago and it was a way better atmosphere. it makes getting back with your cheating ex the more desirable option. also when her mom dies shes getting a million bucks and i really wanna own a home one day. anyone else just suck it up and stuck with what you knew?
>>35093983She'll cheat again, especially if you take her back because it shows her that there are no consequences to cheating.
>>35093989that is something i would have to accept happening again, but she could've actually learned her lesson and will be faithful from now on. either way it would be in the back of my mind
>>35093983>we live together still>there have been several weeks/months where she has been...staying...(with) the guy she cheated on me with>she came back to living with me full-time again after her relationship ended>but she could've actually learned her lesson
>>35094036is it so hard to believe? she says im the best boyfriend is the best she's ever had. the guy she cheated on me with is an unemployed bum who still lives at home
>>35093983sick of NTR fetishists using this board to post their retarded made up bullshit
>>35093983>also when her mom dies shes getting a million bucks and i really wanna own a home one day. Maybe, if your trust levels are enough that you can gold digIf you want kids leave, otherwise stay and gold dig and be comfy neet
>>35093983Relationships do survive cheating sometimes. But rebuilding trust takes a lot of work, from both people. I don't get much sense that either of you are putting much effort into this.
>>35094203It's mostly Indian contractors hired by gookmoot to post "guaranteed replies" threads to make it look like this website is still valuable and relevant.
>>35093983Once a cheater, always a cheater
>>35094207at this point whoever i end up with im probably also going to marry and have kids with, im in my 30s so anyone i date who hasnt had kids yet is looking to have them, which im fine with.>>35094263her mom forgave her dad for cheating on her, so i know its possible. my dad also got caught cheating on his long-term girlfriend last year and they're still together. The work part is the part I don't know how to start. Do i just forgive and hope for a brighter future? what behavior should i see that makes it obvious that she's trying too? perhaps we should start seeing a couple's counselor together.
>>35094381break the cycle of infidelity and leave the thing
>>35094031>but she could've actually learned her lesson and will be faithful from now onbro...>she says im the best boyfriend is the best she's ever hadthe best boyfriend who lets her still live with him after she cheated on him.
>>35094655shes on the lease so unless i leave or she leaves i cant stop her from living here
>>35094134(You)women usually say the opposite of what they really mean.
>>35093983cuck cope>>35094031more cuck cope>>35094134cuck cope premium
Yes always
You sound spineless and lazy. You won't leave your cheating ex because it's convenient? And you want to give her a chance AGAIN because it's convenient? What is your fucking endgoal here? If you want an easy fwb who may one day bring you the clap, you keep doing you. But what the fuck is wrong with you thinking this is a possible relationship anymore?Did she not hurt you? How are you just casually living with this cunt? I can't fathom this. Do you just not care that you share a place with an utter traitor? What's wrong with you?? Are you pussy whipped?I think of exes like this: out of the millions of people in this earth who you DON'T know and HAVEN'T MET, and can only wonder "could this person love me?", the only ones who you can be SURE don't fucking love you are cheating lying exes. They demonstrated it before. They will do it again. Do not forget this, unless you want to repeat history. Which it sounds like you do because what the fuck. There is NOTHING good that will come of you hanging around this whore anymore. When are you gonna learn, the fifth time? The eigth? Are you fucking learning impaired? Honestly, OP. What is your malfunction. Also you are not getting a cent of her mom's money, you delusional retard. As soon as mom croaks she is leaving your ass to "travel the world." Goddamn you are a fucking complacent retard. Get what you deserve I guess.
>>35094272no i just come back every few months and ask the same round of questions really. i really just wait around for a post like >>35096054 to remind me that i shouldn't get back with my ex after all lolololsometimes a nigga just needs reassurance when hes alone in the world. i have no friends to tell this stuff to
