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Anonymous
 No.35094073
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I am a male (21), and I thought I was bi and fell in love with another man (27).

We are in a long distance relationship and have never met in person.
He's so perfect, loving, and just fills me with mental ecstasy and he's pure bliss to my life. But after 9 months in I realized that I am actually only physically attracted to women. I don't enjoy gay sex, and I don't feel any physical desire towards him.


I talked to him about it and about the possibility of breaking up, and he was so destroyed ): just crying non-stop for days.

He still needs sex to be part of our relationship, and he genuinely believes that if I just put my mind to it and keep doing it with repetition and willpower, everything will work out.
I love him so much and hate seeing him hurt like this.

Part of me wants to sacrifice my own sexual fulfillment and keep trying for him, but I am scared that forcing myself is unsustainable and will only lead to a much more painful breakup years down the road
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Anonymous
 No.35094103
 No.35094103
>>35094073
Why did you do that in the first place if you weren't sure you were attracted to him? Either way sort your head out and either leave gracefully or stay.
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Anonymous
 No.35094109
 No.35094109
>>35094073
>keep doing it with repetition and willpower, everything will work out.
Jfc hahahahaahahah
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Real a$s niga random
 No.35094185
 No.35094185
>>35094073
If you want kids, leave, if you don't, stay, if you're not sure, leave
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Anonymous
 No.35094609
 No.35094609
>>35094073

REPETITION AND WILLPOWER is the key here, we're gonna keep your tight little zoomer boypussy stretched and buttered until you love it boi! PROGRESSIVE OVELOAD GAY SEX
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Anonymous
 No.35095495
 No.35095495
>>35094073
Take it in your ass you fag and shut up
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Anonymous
 No.35095669
 No.35095669
>>35094073
You must cultivate anal stoicism and discipline as your sensei has advised you, my young friend.
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Anonymous
 No.35096104
 No.35096104
>>35094103
i was too lonely when i entered this relationship
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Anonymous
 No.35096107
 No.35096107
>>35096104
and its technically my first relationship
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Anonymous
 No.35096163
 No.35096163
>>35094609
dont have sex with him if you dont enjoy it. a big part of the enjoyment of the whole thing is feeling that the other person is into it.

just be open with him, tell him you love him but in a non physical way. you can still be friends or some sort of relationship, that does not involve having sex with him.
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