How do I not attract the mentally ill women>From a goth woman that stalked me for 7 months even though she was fucking several other dudes whilst stalking me>A former boss at work that accused me of assaulting her because I rejected her (she had been through 3 different boyfriends whilst I worked there, and "they were all narcissists")>Dated a Christian girl for 3 months. But she had a whole bunch of religious trauma from several churches and became spiteful when I called her out on still attending church and enabling the shit that happened there. So I dipped out>She would also just mirror my likes and interests to a T... But then change it to whoever else was round her.Bonus points that she told me "god told me to ask you out"And super bonus points that her mum got heat stroke one time and blamed it on demon'sWell now I had some chubby alt girl who bought me coffee at the gym and found my Instagram and followed me.>She just posts about all the guys DMing herAfter today's gym interaction I was just like "no, she isn't for me"I guess I feel defeated. I'm 27 and still a virgin. Would Fool around with the Christian girl but she'd have these moments where she felt guilty and wouldn't want to reciprocate as well
Are you giving off vulnerable vibes or something? Giving these women some sort of indication you are someone who could be easily taken advantage of?
By pursuing non-mentally ill ones instead of waiting for them to pursue you
>>35094171I usually give everyone at least a chance to speak. Good people that I have met have told me that they thought I was scary looking or felt too intimidated to initially talk to me. So I try and give people at least a chance. I heard this advice long ago of "try to be the person you want to see in others". And it worked for a period of time>Some people I talk to do have their quirks. But they're good people, one guy at my gym is heavily aspire. But he showed me how to do a muscle up>And others, particularly the goth girl. I wish I never said hi to her. I was just being polite. Until she threatened to "stalk me and make my life a living hell if I did anything to upset her", then she asked me out on a date a week later. Then it all kicked off because she invited me back to hers at the end of the date, gave her a one handed hug and said I'd see her at the gym. It's a long story
