>be me>24 year old blackanon>6'5, decent looking, never laid pipe before>still a virgin at 24 (technically)>last time was with sorority slut>couldn't get it up>now>work at a warehouse making $18.50/hr>match with a 42 year old white milf on facebook dating>she's divorced (technically still finalizing it) and has a 4 year old son>15+ year age gap>don't care, she's hot and has massive tits>start flirting with her>apparently she's always preferred younger men>tell her straight up I'm interested in something casual>she says sex is always on the table>holy shit>she actually seems into me>keeps calling me aggressive and assertive>says she likes that I take initiative>eventually get her number>set up a date for Friday (tomorrow) at 2 PM at some cafe>here's the problem>work Tuesday through Friday from 7:30 AM to 6 PM>have to use my UTO (unpaid time off) to leave early>only have about 17 hours left>already planning on quitting this warehouse job soon anyway>but burning 4 hours of UTO to meet some woman I barely know feels fucking stupid>especially when I could stay at work and make money>part of me wants to go because she's hot and I might finally lose my virginity>other part thinks I'm thinking with my dick and about to waste money and UTO>could always reschedule for a day I'm off>but what if I miss my chance, like we go out tomorrow but I don't fuck her idkwhat do, /adv/? should I burn the UTO and potentially lose my virginity or stay at work and collect my paycheck? also seriously, are those honey packs worth a damn? picrel is the milf in question. I'll only go if you guys say I should. I'm scared, I'm not satisfied with my life, I work a shitty job and I'm not ottermode yet. I'm poor and I have to go back to school to get my prerequisites. I'm not sure, I'll be able to get it up to satisfy her if I get the chance.
>>35095543bump
I would say it's not a great idea, because the odds of a successful date are not guaranteed at all when you are inexperienced, I've gone on many that went hilariously wrong even when the girl was initially into me.Also, I noticed that the more you go out of your way to make a date or some event happen with a woman, the more you kind of get punished with bad luck: things usually go best when I'm in my frame doing my routine and duties and just let things happen without pressing.
>>35095651I've noticed this too, but what should I do? Cancel or should I just proceed as planned, without trying to force things.
>>35095690You mentioned you're notnottermode yet, how much approximately do you have to go until you get there? That woukd improve things a lot, not just cause of looks but the self-esteem.
>>35095543Go for it, every black man is destined to have sex with a fat ugly undesirable white woman at some point, might as well get a twoofer and pop your cherry at the same time.
>>35095651>Also, I noticed that the more you go out of your way to make a date or some event happen with a woman, the more you kind of get punished with bad luck: things usually go best when I'm in my frame doing my routine and duties and just let things happen without pressing.Eyyyyyyyyyyy this man knows
>>35095701>>35095701It’ll take me realistically 3-5 months of agonizing brutal work to get there, I’m just so sore and defeated from this faggot ass warehouse job.
>>35095886The problem is, women can somehow sense it when you font feel confident in your body. Like dogs
>>35095922Really???
>>35095543>>especially when I could stay at work and make moneyWhat money, dumbass. 18,50 isn't money. You've got the kind of job thats lets you survive and thats it, but putting any more into it than you already have to is a terrible return on your investment.Going there and getting laid is a much better use for your time and energy as long as you've got enough cash to pay bills.
>>35096931> What money, dumbass. 18,50 isn't money. You've got the kind of job thats lets you survive and thats it, but putting any more into it than you already have to is a terrible return on your investmentYeah, I’m going back to school for nursing soon, but I’m stuck with this shitty job for right now. But, yeah I’ll go.
