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how do I find adult human women attractive again after years of them rejecting me?
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>>35095621
No porn for six months and nofap for a month at least. You will start lusting after women.
And if not, then just live with your attraction or get full blood panel.
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>>35095621
I can only speak on my own behalf but the way sexual attraction worked for me was
>13-16 Years old, everything made me hard. A single thought of a woman made me horny and something as small as a woman bending over or even groaning in mild pain from stubbing her toe set me off. Random boners every other day.

>Age 18 - 21 I wasn't set off so easily. I could only get hard from seeing naked women or imagery of sex, peak porn addiction era. Every image or video instantly turned me on

>Age 25 - 28 I went down the hentai rabbit hole as well as real porn. Only fetishes could get me going, regular vanilla imagery of nakedness stopped working. Sex IRL had to include my fetish to get me to orgasm.

>Age 28-30, total death of lust. Porn could not get me hard, hentai couldn't get me hard, my fetishes no longer worked. My sex drive felt extinct. Sometimes even mindless sex from women IRL stopped working as much

>Age 30+ The only way I can feel hard and aroused is if I am relaxed and I love the woman and we are physically intimate. Only loving sex can make me aroused

Not sure if that's how it's supposed to go for men but it's what happened to me. At some point the constant dopamine coomer shit gets old, stops working, even lust goes numb and the only thing left that revives sexual function is love
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>>35096287
Sometimes I think this would be nice because my libido is very high.



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