Why is it that I feel less attracted to a girl when she responds femininely?Like, the little things they do when they want your interest like raising their pitch, touching, tilt their head, messaging at night.I guess I'm unattracted to neediness but this sort if thing is what ALL women do when they like a guy because it's their idea of flirting...
>>35096073>Why is it that I feel less attracted to a girl when she responds femininely?Because you're gay.
>>35096073>I guess I'm unattracted to neediness but this sort if thing is what ALL women do when they like a guy because it's their idea of flirting...it's not just a cerebral thing, the things you mention (raising their pitch, etc) are largely reflexivethey don't really have a conscious IDEA of flirting when they do those thingsnot sure if that helps you think about it differently
if you just don't like it because it's overwhelming or annoying, that's fine, i wouldn't overthink itbut it might be hard to find a girl who doesn't express herself that way when she's attracted to you, or who acts more simply/platonically when you're just talking or whatever
>>35096073Probably coz they're being all indirect and time wasting instead of just being straight and cutting to the chase. Tell em to cut the crap and that you're taken and not into them or sthn.
>>35096073You just are not compatible with her. Compatible is matching and complimenting traits
>>35096226>simply/platonically when you're just talking or whateverThis would be the complimenting trait if applicable
>>35096073You're annoyed because your brain realized that they are showing signs of attraction without giving you the reward, therefore you interpret it as wanting attention without giving anything back. That's a parasitic attitude from them. And that's why you're being off-put.You're smart enough to understand this in your conscious brain, but not smart enough to see that this is happening to you subconsciously. I am here to help you see that.It is quite annoying. Maybe it is an autistic trait, but I too am annoyed when someone comes across as disingenuous. Like lady, why are you doing all those things? Just tell me you want me. But she won't. Because women love to take resources from men and give nothing in return. this time it's your attention, your time, your feeling.
>>35096073As someone said earlier, it's because you're gay, and in denial about it. So long as a woman behaves more or less like a man, you can trick yourself into thinking that you're attracted to her. But as soon as she does something that requires you to acknowledge that she really is female, you immediately get the ick. You'll be a lot happier once you admit this to yourself.
Maria ,>when someone comes across as disingenuous. You know i know your reason and how you feel, you are not disingenuous. >Just tell me you want me.You already have many times in your way.> Because women love to take resources from men and give nothing in returnWrong, you know this cause/effect is just a brick you chose to stack on your wall>its your attention, your time, your feeling I love you, and I would do anything to keep you safe. No one is strong all the time, including you. You can only be resilient for so long, let me get inside your head and comfort you. I know that when it comes to emotions you need my time and care, my attention and loveI'm not cold, I would hold you and care for you. You have your emotional needs too. It's not something that should be forced, it's a given.You deserve that comfort whenever you need itCrave it, want it. WheneverWhatever it is you need I'll do my best to give it to you if you need reassurance I'll give you thatI love you, remember that
>touching>messaging at nightThese are masculine signs of interest. It's reasonable to be turned off when a woman pursues you like a man.
>>35096073Because you are feminine, and opposites attract.
>>35096433>>35096434Making each other happy and feel full is what matters.
>>35096073I like it a lot
you gay boy
try men>im no-you are.
