How do you know if a friend is a lost cause and you shouldn’t waste any more time investing in your relationship with them?
just to be clear, you're asking for general signs, right?or are you thinking about a specific friend & contemplating whether to cut them off?if it's the latter you may want to write about your situation otherwise people can't judge
>>35096317Vagueposting zoomer retard
>>35096339Both.To give some context, in my early years I was a loner. However, I had this job (a couple months back) where I developed some good friends that I still keep in touch with even after I left. Recently though it’s been quite frustrating, since I would constantly ask them if they want to come out with me to get something to eat, but most of the time they just say that they’re busy. One particular individual is incredibly frustrating as yesterday we were meant to go out but he had to stay at home to collect his devices from the police (I know what you’re thinking and its not that, because he showed me a text message from the police saying the case was closed against him). This took the whole day and by the end of it he wasn’t even responding to my texts or calls, so I thought fuck it, this guy ain’t right and am thinking of just distancing myself away from him.Its just really disheartening when you put in all the effort to reach out, but your friends barely make the effort to reach out to you.
