I hate when people say "we're doing x" or "we're doing y" without actually asking if you want to do said thing.This happens all the time at work, school, home, and other relationships, and I'm sick of it.It's also commonly used in a way where refusing it makes you seem like you're the one creating the problem, which I get is the point behind why it's used.Is there a polite way to break "Inclusive We" in a conversation and force them to ask you for what they want directly?
>>35096591If you actually have an objection just say so.
>>35096591>I agree our goal is X but if we do Y, then Z. So we should reconsider. How about W?or just say "no". It's not always used with the intention of stopping people from diaagreeing, it can be a collaborative tone.Also, you seem to have an issue of conflict avoidance. Just say what you want, argue for it. Learn to take space.
