How do I stop this mental loop? I've had nothing but trash experiences with women for various reasons. I don't think I'm blameless in any of my relationships nor do I blame them or hold resentment toward them but the gfs I've had all bordered on or were outright emotionally abusive and volatile as shit so it's made me hesitant to even try again.The few dates I've been on here and there don't go anywhere because I can see how similar they are to my exes and I don't pursue it further. What's the best way to "get over" my experiences when it's all I've witnessed?
>>35096610People are retarded when they are young, viciously and immaturely retarded and also selfish and needy or neglectful. When you date when you're 18 - 25 you need to understand a huge portion of people are retarded at this age. Never expect marriage tier maturity or even loyalty and this stage of the game. People are still learning how to give and take, how to reciprocate, how to actually love. A lot of people in that age group just think love is a emotion or a feeling and that's that, and once the feeling gets dull they either get pissy or they get abusive or they cheat or break up without trying to reignite a thing. The reason it's important to keep trying anyway is the possibility of meeting someone who is on your page, it's also vital life experience. You get to learn patterns, you learn how to have boundaries or respect them, you learn what to take seriously and what not to take so seriously. Eventually it leads you to the person you are meant to be with. Don't force yourself into anything, if you truly think you can't stomach a relationship again, take a break from it. Just don't shut yourself off from it forever
>>35096629>Never expect marriage tier maturity or even loyalty You are just promoting promiscuity and disloyalty fully expect loyalty and FaithfulnessDo you choose for me to be yours as I want you to be mine>I posted on r9k thinking you would see it>I do>You have to wait for meI love you with all my heart and I will wait as long as you need>I love you too. that makes me feel at ease>I promise it will be mike and maria at the beach someday, if your even still want to see my face. >I love you moreQ>That's good to hear love you,>Lots>You make things better >Even when you aren't here, you do so much >If it takes me being selfish because I want all of you then that's just how it will be >Exactly. I love you and I want to be the best for you >I do all those things naturally for you>I'm only yours,>I love only you>I love you, >I'm choosing you, doing the best to make that show>I want to spend every day at the beach with you Mike>Just as much as you do >I Love you more
If you stop trying you'd be stuck with nothing but bad experiences with your exes. They're girlfriends, you break up.>never expect There's a small percentage of people who are compactabe with you even in their youth. Agree that it's never expected your next date will good be but disagree that none could.>>35096675Wtf is this schizo?
