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My girlfriend is telling me she's breaking up with me.

She was married to another guy when we met. We were sleeping with each other and now she's cheated on me. Said she's leaving me with some guy who runs a fast food restaurant as a general manager in Missouri.

I don't know what to do I don't have it and me to continue. I have a particular illness that she knows about and still leaves me. She had a cancer scare where I promise to be with her no matter what.

I don't really have anything to lose at this point or any reason to go on.

I don't know how I can recover mostly mentally this bitch wasted a whole year of my life I thought I was going to have a family that I guess I don't have shit
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you fucked a homewrecking bitch retard, why are you surprised?
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>>35098835
I just wanted to be lied by someone and I didn't find anyone else to love me
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>>35098853
Loved* she has total borderline personality disorder and claims that she quit going to therapy and she's been spiraling like crazy
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Thank her for this later. She -only- took a year of your life. I'm sorry about your particular health condition. That makes all the more reason to thank this woman for breaking up with you.

My premonition is this is an attention/manipulation and she will try to crawl back in.
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>>35098856
You are a fool and you deserve everything caused by the fallout of this relationship.
You dated an unfaithful BPD woman who has hurt her Husband with her infidelity and stressful personality. All because you were weak willed and deluded yourself that you could ever feel love or a mimicked twisted version of it from a highly flawed evil woman.

You deserved what you tolerate you reap what you sow
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>>35098823
Murder or maul her, throw acid in her face or set her ablaze
She deserves that
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>>35098914
>blaming victim
Found npdemon
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>>35098914
According to her her husband was abusive physically emotionally and mentally and was a horrible drug addict and that that marriage was the entire fluke in that she was escaping the abusive situation now that she's shown me more of her I get the feeling this has been a routine thing for her
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>>35098963
Well according to her she takes a full STD test every 3 months so she's probably admitting to her doctor sexual promiscuity that she's not admitting to with me
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>>35098914
So why husband doesn't deserve to get fucked but op does?
Nice double standards, piece of narcissistic shit.
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>>35098973
Ewwwwww, are you sure you're missing out and much?
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>>35098966
I wouldn't believe a BPD demon for a second. Everything she says has an angle and she always will be the hero of her own story
Well that goes for all women but its more intensified with cluster b personality disorders.
>>35098979
Someone else's corruption isn't an excuse for your own. He provided no context for the husband and left it up to interpretation and that's how I interpreted it.
Now with that being said don't you have a session with a the(rapist) to attend to BPD whore?
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>>35099023
She's apparently one of these people who've been in and out of mental hospitals due to her BPD cycles. She's done well for a while and then burn her entire life down. There's a lot going on with her personal circumstances that I worry for a person she's with. She claims to have met some guy who's a GM at a fast food place.

The worst part about this is that I have a 9-15 month prognosis on my life. This bitch is pissing me off and she knows I have nothing to lose. She's still the good guy in this story.
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>>35099045
Well its obvious to abandon ship and never look back. She might see you as prey in the future but no matter how lonely you get you cannot fold again or its back to square one. Its best to just mentally recover by doing things you enjoy and don't treat the loneliness as a death sentence. And when you think you are suitable to move on just try again with another woman, But this time no homewrecking and definitely no cluster b personality disorders like BPD. And the off chance she does have it and hides it until later on you still have to abandon ship.
Sucks I know but its better than the alternatives
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>>35099045
Also the vague posting didn't help this thread either. If you said you have 9-15 months to live at the start I wouldn't have tore into as hard as I did initially. Its still immoral to get into relationships with women who are wedlocked but your illness making you operate on a now or never mentality I can at least understand why you did it.
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>>35099117
She didn't tell me she was married until a few times after we slept together and refered to her current husband as her ex husband
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>>35098823
So she was fucking you while she was married to someone else? Lmao what did you expect then, of course she ain't going to be loyal lmao dumbass



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