>>35098912
That’s the problem, you’ve got the logic backwards.
You shouldn’t look for a girlfriend to improve your life; you should improve your life and then find a girlfriend.
Decent girls are rarely going to go for a loser with no friends (no offense intended).
Focus on improving your life.
Once you have an interesting life, with friends, hobbies, and activities, you’ll have nice pics to put on your profile.
Don’t get me wrong; I’m not trying to discourage you, I’m just being realistic.
You could try to find an amazing photo for your profile, sure.
But it probably won’t be enough...

>>35098934
Improve my life how then?

>>35098952
>Improve my life how then?
Find a good job, find a hobbie that girls think are interesting, such as dance, running, cycling or some form of art. Go to the gym every day, and study something useful.
Live an interesting life so that you have things to talk about, and your conversation is genuinely interesting.
You know how it is, you’ve met people like that, who can just keep talking and talking without it feeling forced or boring.
Imagine you are an attractive woman, Imagine that you interact with dozens, maybe hundreds of men every week. Would you be interested in yourself as you are right now?
So what’s the point of having an amazing photo on your profile if, when a girl asks you something, the only thing you can talk about is video games?

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>>35098912
don't use "dating" apps imo
>>35098952
this shit >>35099002 might sound like generic platitudes but it works
the strongest bonds/relationships are built on crazy shared experiences, which you won't get from fast-paced online dating slop
good relationships take care of themselves over the course of a "well-lived life" whatever that may mean to (You)
good luck

>>35099002
I have a good job also getting a hobby to just to talk to women os very performative. Woman can see that shit a mile away.

is this one of those threads which is a pre-written script or old posts made to look like multiple people talking to each other?

>>35099010
>don't use "dating" apps imo
Yep.
Its a waste
Literally 90% of attractive women use it solely for validation, they ghost everyone, and they even admit to it!

>>35099043
>I have a good job also getting a hobby to just to talk to women os very performative. Woman can see that shit a mile away.

Good.
At the very least, you’ve managed to achieve what I consider to be the hardest part: landing a good job.
However, you still need to be interesting to women, unless your job is so incredible that it’s interestingly enough on its own (for example, being a fighter jet pilot).
I, for instance, am a dance instructor, and I manage to connect with many women simply by asking them for a dance.
Your job is likely much better than mine, but mine also serves as an interesting hobby that provides a great opening for a conversation with a girl.
You seemingly have a good job, so now focus on making friends and finding a hobby that isn’t too "nerdy."
Girls don’t have an issue with nerdy interests, as long as that isn’t literally the only thing you know about.

>a hobby to just to talk to women

That’s not the point.
When I mentioned "hobbies," I meant to exclude those that women generally aren't interested in, I didn't mean that the sole purpose of a hobby has to be talking to women.
For example, one hobby I enjoy is collecting Warhammer miniatures.
I love them, but it’s not something most girls are into, so it’s not exactly an engaging topic to bring up in conversation.
Have a hobby that a girl might find interesting, or one that she can at least relate to.

Well gotta go.
I didn’t mean to discourage you or anything; I’m just stating the harsh reality that attractive women like interesting guys, and that it’s possible, albeit with some effort, to become one of them.
You’ve already taken care of the hardest part (having a good job), so good luck with the rest.