Anyone have any advice? There’s a shit ton of lonely betas out there who are looking for a push over the edge into becoming traps. How do you help them take the plunge?
>>949801789The sissy phenomenon is merely attention/affirmation starved subs.Just call them good girls and use/abuse their holes and you can mold them however you want
>>949801860this is probably your best bet. Positive reinforcement is a start, then you can get into hypno tracks and all that goodness
>>949801860Anon, this is not correct. This phenomenon exists in the main because of (1) trannies and (2) betas failing with women, internalizing self-loathing and rejection, and becoming sexually submissive and feminine themselves in response to this self-loathing and rejection — sort of like living toys for real men to abuse.
>>949802080>betas failing with womennot OP, but you're probably right. I suck with the ladies and I developed a feminization kink.
>>949801860Indeed, the prostate is a called "the bitch switch" for a reason.t. I'm a pathetic little sissy whore
>>949802181not OP, but how did your switch get flipped?
>>949802206My first girl friend said she wanted to try something and put her finger up my ass. 3 weeks later, she was pegging me while I was wearing her shuttles outfit, makeup and a wig.Shit was cash
>>949802274niceI get off on the idea of a woman, preferable an older one, putting me in makeup to show me how pretty I can be. Can't do it now cause too old and won't post picrel cause latex Andy
>>949802080>(1) trannies and (2) betas failing with women, internalizing self-loathing and rejection,Leading to/caused by: Being attention and affirmation starved. But yeah that's a more detailed assessment
>>949802331It's worth the experience. Its not terribly hard to find women out there who are into it. Most recently I had a fling with a girl who had a transwoman fetish....so on our second date I was on all fours, dressed like a slut and being called a good girl. Unfortunately we had to split, but we were going to get breast forms for me and she was going to teach me how to walk in heels...
>>949802274>>949802331It's odd wanting your ass pounded but not really being into feminization
>>949802444>It's worth the experience. Its not terribly hard to find women out there who are into it. Sadly I am way too old for it, think unc about to become peepaw old.Also, have you thought about getting breast forms for the hell of it?
>>949802494Is rather play with another's real ones but I've heard sissies say good things about em
>>949802548mind you if you get them you'll probably go from sissy to full on drag queen. Queens are still hot IMO.But I've pretty much aged out of being a sissy, but the right age to be daddy lol
>>949802476Eh, I'm queer, so I'm always down for a good milking or ass pounding every without getting dressed up for it. My wife is into pegging so we do it on average once a month>>949802494Don't let your dreams be dreams. Just go to a pro. It will be very rewarding.And no, I never got around to it. My wife is bi but we havent had any luck finding a third person to play with. I (half-joking) told her "if you want i can dress up and you can fuck me" and she's slowly coming around on the idea. So I'd want forms for that.
>>949802605That's makes a strange amount of sense, and I'm not sure why lol.>But I've pretty much aged out of being a sissy, but the right age to be daddy lolFunny how that happens as people get older
>>949802674Perhaps odd was the wrong word, or perhaps I'm just in the sissy closet lol. I have the entirely wrong build for it after all.>And no, I never got around to it. My wife is bi but we havent had any luck finding a third person to play with. I (half-joking) told her "if you want i can dress up and you can fuck me" and she's slowly coming around on the idea. So I'd want forms for that.I may steal that idea as an experiment
>>949802677>That's makes a strange amount of sense, and I'm not sure why lol.for me it just sounds like a natural progression. Breast forms would lead to other forms of padding, more wigs and going all the way
>>949802677honestly hate the geriatric fucks that throw on their wifes lingerie and try to act like sissies. get your pruney ass out of here, no one is into faggy grandpas with 60 years of repressed feelings
>>949802605I would totally do drag. That would be so much fun.And you could go from being a sissy to being a cougar....>>949802733Do it. Just do it. And you can find guides on how to dress for your body type online
>>949802833The progression I get, but when does a sissy become a drag queen precisely is what I'm not sure about.If they pass really well? When it's about the looks as much or more than the mindset?
>>949802863Haha yeah those types do give off an ick. I'm also into abdl aka another fetish/kink a lot of people age out of
>>949802869>Do it. Just do it. And you can find guides on how to dress for your body type onlineTrue true, other issue is I'm not my wife's [female] type. I'm 6'3" built like a barn and got giant feet lol. We did dabble with a third but she got real jealous, admittedly I was having too much fun with our guest
>>949802877When it's about the looks as much or more than the mindset?I think it's a little of both, going all out and not even looking one bit like a boy coupled with the more aggressive attitude. But don't source me I'm a massive closed case
>>949802951Fair enough, should poll drag queens and see if any also identify as sissies.BRB writing up a research grant proposal
>>949802899>ab/dl Man, am I glad i never got into that. Talk about a lifestyle choice...And I have a little sympathy for the old dudes because you know it was something they've been holding for 50 years...but at a certain point you need to man up and be a sissy when you're young
>>949801789OP here. I’ll chime in with a tip that I already know. You have to be willing to think outside of the box when it comes to breaking their resistance. They’re not resisting because they do not enjoy being feminized (pretty obvious), they’re resisting because they’re trying to hang onto a sliver of their masculinity. To be clear, they can still resist long after they’ve engaged in all sort of extremely degrading shit. How can you still think of yourself as a man when you fucked yourself on livestream with a black dildo while smoothly shaven and wearing panties? Well, it’s not a logical thing. It’s about their psychological needs. Anyway, back to thinking outside the box. It’s too easy to fall into this trap where you feel like you always need to be degrading them, but that’s going to get mixed results at best (but it probably does work with some people). 1/3
>>949802987Haha indeed, it do be unfortunate often. But then other times you get to go full degen in a soaked diaper and a plugged butt *shrug*In their defense, a few decades ago that behavior could have gotten them killed. Just trying to make up for lost time!
>>949801789But let’s say you have someone who’s on-the-fence. If all you do is degrade, in a sense you’re adding fuel to their resistance. You’re going to make them more defiant by insulting what’s left of their masculine ego. So instead, use a mixture of degradation and flattery, with the caveat that the flattery is highly specific. You can find these pockets of resistance when they get bratty with you. When they get bratty, they may be revealing shreds of their masculine ego that you can target. I’ll give an example because that’s probably the easiest way to explain the rest of this. One time I had a sub on Kik who I was exchanging pics with. At one point I sent him a picture of my cock next to a stick of deodorant for comparison. After I did that, he made some sort of snide, know-it-all comment about how showing the label on the deodorant was sort of tacky or in bad taste. 2/3
>>949802986I could see someone doing this as part of a sociology/queer studies thesis. Mind you we would have to finally define what a sissy is
>>949801789This was a super clear sign of resistance. It was a super irrelevant thing to say, and I reacted by punishing him, making him slap his own balls five times each. In hindsight, I think this is a point where some targeted flattery could’ve been useful. He’s trying to prop up his own intelligence by criticizing a “mistake” I made. In a way, this wasn’t even “bratty” because he wasn’t speaking as a feminine, sassy diva, who was giving me grief over something like a bad hairstyle or whatever. He was being a pedantic nerd and stepping out of his role. What should I have done? Maybe at that point, it would’ve been better to punish him in the moment, but then once the scene was over, to send him a message that flattered his intelligence a little bit, telling him that when I was sissifying him, what I was doing was putting him in his place sexually, not intellectually. I could’ve told him that I found him to be an intelligent person, but that fundamentally wasn’t the point of why he needs to become a toy for real men. Being realistic, I think I probably would’ve gotten better results with this approach. Shortly after that first scene, this person stopped responding to my messages. I needed something to ~temporarily~ keep him on my hook — a show of qualified respect maybe could’ve done it. 3/3
>>949802947> 6'3"Tall queen. I'm jealous. I'm 5'9" so I'm average-ish for a guy but tall for a chick. I'm lucky in that even though I'm 35 I still look young. I really want to have my makeup professionally done to see how close to passing i could be....minus the beard...
>>949802987>but at a certain point you need to man up and be a sissy when you're youngyeah, being a sissy is a young person's thing. Still, old farts can turn being the sissy into helping a sissy be all they can be.I just get off on the idea of calling my sissy a good boy as they slowly femme out until the day I whisper in their ear 'good girl'
>>949803058Yep yep, would probly be the follow up question or part of the asking. Would rather have self identified sissies define it anyways
>>949803080sorry for posting Andy Latex, but sissy makeup reveals are hot IMO
>>949803058I'd be very interested in participating in/reading this.>>949803137Hot. Having had that experience with a woman leading it....mmm...I'm getting all worked up thinking about earning my "good girl">>949803323No apologies needed, I'll check out more of their stuff...and yes. It's such a thrilling experience
>>949801789Sissy sub here. My master met me when I was a virgin and wanted to explore my bi side. I was in college and had deep feelings of inadequacy. After being with him a few times and positive encouragement from him about my oral skills I realized it was easy for me to please men. This was coupled with the fact that my penis was small and I was naturally submissive/shy. It was easy for him to bring out my more feminine qualities during intimacy and push me further into fetishes I had already explored in my youth like crossdressing. He went from an older guy I occasionally hooked up with to someone I felt entirely submissive to. He created an environment which I (willingly) would feel vulnerable in and would be an open book about my thoughts and feelings (e.g. when we first met he had me strip naked in his living room while he remained clothed and proceeded to have a 45 min convo) and then it was natural to behave more and more like a girl/sissy around him. He eventually paid for my laser hair removal, bought chastity toys and anal toys for me. He would have complete control over me over text when I wasn't with him and after I graduated I moved in with him.
>>949803080Thanks lol, bit counter productive for my kinks. Perhaps one day I'll become the amazionian mommy dommy I've wanted for myself
>>949803804So getting you to open up about your thoughts and feelings made you feel more feminine and submissive to him, interesting. Were there any specific sexual practices he had you do that increased your devotion to him?
>>949803804Sounds like a fun time
>>949803464>I'll check out more of their stuffjust a heads up a lot of his stuff is either cringe or tries to establish a lore, why I was hesitant to post it
>>949804012It was the first time I out loud said to someone what I actually was thinking about myself and my desires so it was liberating and it made me more attached. In my mind that gave him power.Beyond training in the bedroom, being naked or later in skimpy lingerie in his house helped a lot. Made me feel exposed and vulnerable (I'm allowed to wear more clothes now, but only women's clothes). He used to have me wear a butt plug to class and to text him pictures as proof that I still had it in. Shortly after graduating he had a small dinner party with a few friends and I was the servant for the night. He basically directed me entirely, I was (and am) completely submissive to him and rely on his direction and being told how to serve him (and on occasion others he invites in).
>>949804110sounds like you hit the jackpot and found a kinky yet caring relationship right out of Sunstone
>>949804182Yeah I got really lucky. I had been messaging lots of guys but for whatever reason we clicked well over email and I worked up just enough courage to actually meet him. Life has not been the same since
>>949804228he sounds like the kind of dom I would want to be with a sissy. Forceful but caring and using feminization as a freeing mechanism
>>949804110What effect did wearing the butt plug have on you (physical and mental)?
>>949802372>Being attention and affirmation starvedAnon you just pulled me out of the abyss at the last moment. I bought the traditional femboy garb recently and I've been posting in the twink/femboy/faggot threads (and on other sites) for a couple days now, and getting attention/affirmation feels great. But the only reason it feels good is because I'm chronically starved of it IRL. This is a problem that is solvable without being a whore and posting my body online, and can also be solved by starting to go to the gym and getting a haircut. Genuinely thank you
>>949804300>I bought the traditional femboy garb recently and I've been posting in the twink/femboy/faggot threads (and on other sites) for a couple days nowLet’s see some of them slut
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>>949804373Haha, good.
>>949804300>and can also be solved by starting to go to the gym and getting a haircut.HAHAHAHAHA
>>949804280Absolutely that. He is firm but not cruel. He knows what I need better than I do.>>949804286It kept me horny because of the feeling of it in my ass but I was also in chastity so it worked me up and I could only get release by seeing him to unlock me. I actually had a masturbation/porn addiction and putting me in chastity was my idea which he embraced. It helped me focus more on him and his needs before mine while keeping me in a state of being horny and needing him for relief.
>>949803804>I was in college and had deep feelings of inadequacy.Did your feelings about how you relate to the opposite sex have anything to do with you becoming a sissy sub?
>>949804438>He is firm but not cruel. He knows what I need better than I do.wish I could be that kinda dom for a sissy, but I'm too bashful and fucked up in the head lol>>949804418Incase draws some of the best femboys
>>949804300Hey good for you, I hope it works out for ya.
>>949804470Yes. I had never a gf or been kissed while my friends had. Most girls barely gave me attention. Multiple people in my life (including my mom) had asked if I was gay etc... that led me down the path of exploring my bisexuality. The funny thing is I had enjoyed crossdressing when I was young before I even knew I was gay or wanted to be a girl. >>949804493Well I hope you find someone that brings out the best dom in you.
>>949804540Anon you’ve been such a good girl for us. Do you think your master would be okay with you sharing some pics of yourself with us, perhaps in the skimpy lingerie you mentioned?
>>949804598Sorry but I only save myself for him and who he decides to share me with and he is the only one with pics of me.
I’m about to be mentally pushed over the edge into forced feminization by my financial dommeI am:>37 yo>submissive>kissless virgin>no meaning in life outside of serving this womanShe wants me to take photos of me bowing down to her while I’m wearing a bra and petticoat. I’m probably going to shave my legs, paint my nails, and grow my hair out long so I can put it in a pink bow. This is all just to entertain her.I’m not sure if she wants to put me on feminizing hormones or not. One step at a time. It would be nice to fill out a bra with real manboobs, I guess…Pic related is the girl feminizing me and robbing me blind (14k USD sent to her in 3 months). I don’t get anything in return, she just talks down to me and trains me to be obedient and loyal to her like a dog.So if you want to mentally break a straight guy, especially if he’s submissive to women, you will want to do so by being a beautiful dominant woman. Obviously.
>>949804696Thanks faggot
>>949804540>Well I hope you find someone that brings out the best dom in you.oh I found someone on here. Problem is this is /b/
>>949804691Then put him on the line ;)
>>949803882Do it! >>949804051Noted. Hopefully its fap worthy>>949804286Not the original person asked, but similar to what they said, it helps me be really present and aware. Also, I cum really easily from the stimulation, so having a plug in and trying to do anything usually has me shivering and moaning almost instantly
>>949804540Did he do anything specifically to try and alter your self-identity, such as hypno, affirmations, or the like, or was that not necessary?
>>949804794Seconded, if it’s a no it’s a no, but maybe he’s in a generous mood? You sound like such a good girl anon. We’d all love to you dolled up :)
>>949804349No. I'm one of the posters in the current faggot thread I'm not reposting it here>>949804419Black pillers say this shit and it always confuses me why. Is it cope because you're a fat retard loser and you aren't going to do anything about it, and this is the excuse you've built around that? Is it a desperate grooming attempt to make people fail? Are you a fed pushing a psyop, or someone who has fallen for it? I've kind of bought into the theory that blackpill ideology, especially pointed at young adults, is a psyop to demoralize the populace.
>>949805008>I'm one of the posters in the current faggot thread I'm not reposting it hereAnd we’re supposed to know that, how? Reposting it wouldn’t prove anything — for all we know, you’re just some anonymous saving and then reposting the image. What images are you even talking about?
>>949805062why are you using an em dash
>>949805092Because em dashes are awesome! Totally underrated punctuation, powerful punctuation, able to kick off an independent clause on their own, but you can also just put a word or a fragment if you like. Why are you changing the topic?
>the dream
>>949805201Hot. My wife and I have a squirting dildo and have done some breeding play before. Cant recommend it enough
>>949805153kys, you aren't supposed to be smart enough to notice the topic change. You have a point though, here is a reupload of a random guys pic
>>949805256I know I'm being a bit of a bitch, but missionary seems like such a good thing for the right sissy.
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>>949805367and now I feel like a sentimental old fart
>>949804696You're throwing away your life on a 6/10 ehoe? I need to start spinning up fake AI profiles of like mid women so nobody suspects they are AI to fleece retards like you. I can do a good femdom larp.
>>949805308I get more physically and emotionally out of doggystyle and riding. It was tough for me to do missionary because I'm always secretly worried that my wife isn't having fun...but it was fun to wrap my legs around her like she does to me in missionary
>>949804794>>949804918I'll have to ask his permission when he gets home. >>949804811No hypo or affirmations per say. He would just have me be very open to admitting what I wanted and how I felt. Like if he sensed I was holding back he would push me to admit my real thoughts, fantasies, etc... he had me admit out loud things that only existed in my head.
>>949805586I was raised to accept that missionary was the only position. i just like to think my partner would appreciate it for at least the first time
>>949801860As a sub CD I fully agree with this
>>949804438Do you still wear a chastity device?
>>949805735and you are such a brave, good girl to admit that.
>>949801789Take a bite out of the "plapping" textbook.There are peole who specifically spend their time trying to convince weak men to "plap", or slap their testicles with big black dildos, training them to ejaculate from just that.By doing that, the men will start expelling clearer and clearer semen, and over time, destroy their testicles, and become infertile.
>>949805821Thank you!
>>949805008go get that haircut instead of whining about getting no irl attention if it's so simple then, i believe in you champ!
>>949805750Most of the time yes. I've gotten used to how it feels and it helps me be a better sissy sub. The first few months of it were very hard tho.
Why not just try bambi sleep? It's a jewish brainwashing campaign, apparently highly effective.
>>949805844and such a polite sissy too ;)sorry if I'm weirding you out, figure you could a little praise
>>949805731Fair, it is really intimate. However, backshots are beautiful are heavenly and riding (with eye contact) will show you how slutty they can really be
>>949805886Do you and he go out in public together, on cute dates and such? And if so, what’s that like? What role do you think oral sex played in getting you to submit to him?
>>949805955Nah not weirded out. Tbh I can be pretty bratty
>>949805993yeah, guess I have to learn to toughen up and be willing to take control
>>949806016Yes but usually not in my fem form. But we do go out a couple times a week. Its nice and helps make our relationship more than just sex. Oral was a big part because on my knees sucking his dick was what we started doing at the beginning and was my first ever sexual experience. Oral now occurs 2-3 times a day.
>>949806093being bratty just means you're setting a limit and there is nothing wrong with that. It just means your partner needs to take their time with such a good girl like you
>>949806117Good for you guys, has he provided you with instructions on how to improve your skills at oral, and is it something you think that you’ve improved at?
>>949806212I prefer to be put in my place then praised lol. I love a sexually dominant top
>>949805871Haircut was a small offhand statement, but thank you ^^
>>949806285and that's alright too. A good top needs to know when to discipline a naughty sissy. but right now you are being a very, very good girl and you deserve to be rewarded.
>>949805939Can confirm, curate your content and use with caution
>>949805735Do you CD because it gets mens attention or does it inherently turn you on?
>>949806093How's your dom handle your bratty side?
>>949806285now, be a very good girl and let daddy show you the love you deserve
>>949805939I’m aware of Bambi Sleep. I’m going to use it as appropriate.
I broke myself through years of sissy porn and estrogen
>>949806595Both, I like to attention where online. Never been much for dressing nice as a guy but love to be dressed slutty>>949806614She can't cope well with it tbh, prefers when I'm meek and compliant. I tend to go for sexually aggressive/dominant men and they rarely fuck about so im usually put in my place with throat fucking and that makes me cock drunk.>>949806659Be my guest lol
>>949806919oh you're not broken sweetie, you're more of who you really are
>>949801789neg themsissies are highly susceptible to negging, very unlike womenstart by being complimentary, then gradually go into pointing out their flawsmake it obvious that people who fawn over them are just desperate in general, and that you could easily find other sissies or even women if you wantedthe trick is being subtle
>>949807445>Virgin hands typed this
>>949807574not at all, i'm just really good at manipulating peoplei lost my virginity at 17, and i've fucked plenty of timesit's not that great once you get used to it, but it's still fantastic the first few times with new pussy/bussy
>>949807939Only a virgin would say such bullshit but keeps going
>>949807002>>949807002>She can't cope well with it tbh, prefers when I'm meek and compliant. I tend to go for sexually aggressive/dominant men and they rarely fuck about so im usually put in my place with throat fucking and that makes me cock drunk.Unfortunate, but not unexpected. Hard to find a properly dominant woman.
>>949807445>neg them>sissies are highly susceptible to negging, very unlike womenHence why PUAs think it works lol
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>>949808909Sadly yes, takes zero effort to make her sub lol. Men are definitely better
>>949809052Indeed indeed, I've had a few femdom encounters that were legit and easy to sub too/with. But often it's a huge production to get into sub space.
>>949806115Same...but in the other direction. I have to keep working on letting go>>949808909They're out there, but you usually have to compromise and be a switch and dom them
>>949809387>They're out there, but you usually have to compromise and be a switch and dom themExactly, I think the issue is my wife's more of a service dom/top which is great obv but I'm not trying to top from the bottom usually.
Hi! I have always wanted to become a sissy slut. I just always get scared and don't fully commit. Any advice?
>>949809694Honestly, if you are truly up fot it, just do it. I used to flake out before meets but after a few it doesn't get to you much especially when you know you're in for a good time. However, having a wee drink helps, don't get wasted or end up stinking like a brewery. Weed could help but could also increase your overthinking which results in a flaking out but the best advice is just fucking do it
>>949806275The first time I serviced his cock he said I was pretty good for a first timer (I thank my porn obsession for that). One of the first toys he bought me was a dildo to practice with when he wasn't with me.
>>949809480I get accused of topping from the bottom a lot but it's like "how about you fuck me like the bitch in heat I am?"
>>949809974Did you practice with it like a good girl for him?
>>949810161Oh yeah, every day I was learning to suck it and would stick it to the wall of the shower and learn to deepthroat. My abilities definitely improved. When he first took my virginity actually he gifted me a self made mold of his penis that he made with one of those kits so that I could feel him in my ass when I wasn't with him. Now I just get the real thing daily unless he is away in which case I use the toys.
>>949810315He gave you a gift when he took your virginity? So was that a special occasion?
>>949810519Yes. I had obviously played with my ass before and been using my mom's vibrator for awhile but I wanted my first time to be special and he made sure it was.
>>949810144Haha yeah that's about what I'm looking for sometimes. Maybe I gotta go full power bottom (or bratty perhaps?) with her for a bit.
>>949810630Good for you. You’re a very lucky sissy girl to have such a caring master. Do you know if he’s willing to show us some of your pictures or videos yet?
>>949810688I usually get bratty when she's lacking on the dom side, the intention is to wind her up enough that she gets rough. Sometimes works, sometimes doesn't. Best experience so far is when she got into a good rhythm and i tried to adjust myself, she gripped my hair push my face into the bed and shouted "dont fucking move" while she piledrived my ass. That was the closest to hands free orgasm I've had with her
>>949809694Start small and communicate.>>949809480Indeed, I've only been with one woman that was really good and could take control. (The one with the transwoman fetish) my wife is great but when we met her idea of role play was calling me "daddy" while I spanked her. Still fun, but we've got a way to go together
>>949810817Yes very lucky. He won't be home until later this afternoon. But I'm done my chores for today so Im happy to keep answering questions in the meantime.
>>949810849Lucky >>949810144Same. Usually I'm foaming at the mouth by the time we get to pegging and I just want a cock inside me. The advice that she seemed to do the best with was "fuck me the way you want me to fuck you". That session, she did an awesome job controlling my hips, holding me in place and giving it to me with a good depth and rhythm. Shes awesome when she gets into it, its just a coin flip whether she'll be into it or kinda lazy
>>949810928Sounds good :) Has he given you a sissy name, or do you use your regular name around the house?
>>949811004>"fuck me the way you want me to fuck you"Damn, so simple I overlooked it. Saying this next session
>>949811085Yes, he usually calls me Chrissy instead of Chris when we are at home.
>>949810849Noice, will have to bring it up to her, have mentioned it before but not in a 'let's try this dynamic' kind of way. A lot of it is I'm not sure she's having her fun if I'm still calling the shots within the scene that I requested
>>949811142Cute
>>949811142CRISTOPHUH!
>>949811142How many men has he shared you with?
>>949811276About 5 others. He has two close male friends around his age that are a couple that we will sometimes have a foursome with. And then a male/female couple that he is friends with and I have blown him (the wife likes to watch). And then he recently has been inviting an intern from his work to join us.
>>949811430>>949811276And then there was like a random hook up we had while on vacation one time.
>>949801789>How do you help them take the plunge?pinkpilling, trans hypno, and bnwo porn. that's how my wife turned me into her estrogen filled cuckold slut.
>>949811430Lucky bitch, so envious
>>949811430How has your view of the opposite sex changed since you became a full time sissy?
>>949811659Yeah I realize I am very lucky. I hope you find your one someday. >>949811663I did find that I became a bit more uncomfortable around women, still intimidated to talk to them but not in a way that I would be viewed as sexually inadequate like before, just that I feel even more submissive then ever. Im still very envious of them I guess, which I've talked to about with my master because I want to be like them but feel like I'm not fully yet. Its complicated.
>>949811812Interesting, how does giving a man oral sex while his wife watches feel?
>>949812008Doing anything sexual in front of or with others is often a little intimidating for me. His wife is actually pretty nice so I do find it easy to talk to her vs others because she is very motherly and has two sons of her own so maybe she is soft with me as a result. Usually when we play with that couple I suck his cock while my master gives his cock to her and then they'll tag team her. I'll assist but I don't eat pussy nor does she want me to so Ill usually just suck a cock and put it back in her. She is verbal but usually just towards her husband. She sometimes does my make up or we get dressed together so she does help me feel girly. Of all the women I know/knew I do feel closest with her.
>>949812252She ever push your head down on husband's cock? Pretty hot maneuver imo
>>949812288Yes, or we'll suck it together or my master's
>>949812334Noice
>>949812252Do you feel any tension between your sissy lifestyle and when you used to present as more masculine? Do you feel you in a sense have two identities?
>>949811105Oh yeah, I dont mind telling her what I want, but I dont want to run the show when I'm supposed to being held down and fucked like the cock hungry slut I am.That said, I cant really complain, she's wonderful and is along for the ride with my kinks. It feels like we're on the same team in so many ways>>949811154Same, I try to tell my wife "this is the vibe I want"
>>949812468At first yes but less so now. I've been living as a sissy for over 6 years so its normal. I spend most of my time at home as a sissy, I do my chores as a sissy and service my master as a sissy. My life is pretty simple and I'm cared for. When leave the house Im still a fem, shy guy so it doesn't feel too different
>>949812610Nice. I want to a get a maid outfit for cleaning up my place
>>949812580Pretty much, when I dom her I'm modeling the kinda dom I want for myself. Maybe I gotta spell it out more or maybe she needs more practice. Not sure, obv I gotta hash it out with her, good to talk it out with anons for a bit of practice haha
>>949812672Go for it! I have a few maid outfits but mostly for roleplay. I usually just do my chores in my normal clothes (which are still girl clothes technically but not my maid outfit)
>>949812610Do you ever think of going back to anything resembling your pre-sissy life, or is the submissive sissy Chrissy here to stay?
>>949812737Not at all. I like my life. Like I said, I feel free to be me, Im taken care of sexually, emotionally, and financially. Im not sure close with my parents who live far away now and I never really had any close friends. So this lifestyle suits me. Chrissy is hear to stay and we've had talks about how to make things more permanent like surgery or hormones etc..
>>949812800Yeah why change anything haha.You even work a job or just cocks and chores?
>>949801789kill yourself fucking faggot
>>949812859In college I did have a part time job but now its all cock and chores hehe
>>949812724Any brands you recommend for maid outfits? I'd like something halfway decent. >>949812682Lol yes, there's no better way to prepare for getting laid like going on 4chan...We just moved and moved in together...so I'm preparing my anus
>>949812924Less about getting laid and more about articulation, not a one and done kinda convo after all
>>949812800Do you prefer more active or passive sex positions? For instance, do you prefer letting your master have you in missionary, or do you prefer pleasuring him in cowgirl?
>>949813016True. We read of lot of kink/sex therapy stuff. She's a therapist and her best friend is a kink/queer specializing sex therapist.
>>949813121Damn that's gotta make for some interesting dinner convos
>>949812924We usually just order off amazon so not sure of specific brand >>949813094I like both tbqh, depends on the moodWill be back in a little, have an errand
>>949813400As you were transitioning to the sissy lifestyle, was there a “learning curve” where your primary erogenous zone switched from your clitty to your sissy hole? Did learning to primarily receive pleasure from your hole have any psychological effects on you?
>>949813368Oh yeah, brunch is always lit lmao>>949813400Noted. I'll have to take my measurements
Bump
most betas subconsciously know they are beta and accept it eventually. You just gotta egg em on a little to speed up the process
>>949814692That’s very true
>>949814692Being a beta isn’t just a choice people can switch on and off. It usually has to do with their familiar background, relationship with their mother and father, etc. it’s more or less permanent, and once they begin to fail with the opposite sex, beta psychology starts to take hold.
>>949801789not much new, good sissy hypno out there. There needs to be a huge push for light, introductory sissy hypno, telling you you are a girl, to go shopping, to try panties on, a bra, stockings, etc... encouragement to dress up stuff like that. Women if they tried could find lots of sissies to dress up, peg, etc.. especially black women, they just don't know or are into it
>>949801789So back over 20 years ago, on my senior year I had a behind closed doors sissy. After we both graduated we moved into an apartment together. I use to make him wear lingerie whenever we was home. He even had to sit to pee. Anyways we went on for a couple of years like that. By the time we both moved out he was wearing women's clothes more outside of the home. Last year ran into a "female" at the gas station and it was my old roommate. He lives his life as a female now. When married to a guy.
>>949816978Congratulations on making that happen. Did you fuck him in the parking lot when you last saw him, and if not, why not?!
>>949815005Looking back at my life it was:-messed up/abusive family dynamics-better bond with my mother/grandmother-sister was the obvious favorite child-interest in costumes/dress up when I was little-bullying and social isolation from 2nd or 3rd grade into college-access to porn -Alternative sexual/romantic interests with no real understanding And all my kinks revolve around being accepted/cared for....Whew lad....
>>949816967Most of the hypno is kinda gross tbh
>>949817104Did you eventually flip into being a sissy or did you just stay a beta?
>>949817125its very low effort, rap over blacked porn for 8 minutes? yawn. There needs to be more woman talking or at least AI encouraging buying and dressing up in lingerie, pegging, getting a femdom gf, buttplug, chastity, etc.. go too hard with you want to be pissed on by a black gangbang and you scare them off. even less good videos of sissies getting dressed up and pegged or banged by a dude too, need more sissy porn videos too
>>949817125There’s some seriously high powered sissy hypno these days. Ten years ago, it wasn’t nearly as good. It’s almost like weed has gotten more powerful over time. The rise of Bambi Sleep and the associated Tik Toks is the best example of the increased potency I can think of. Now with AI, it’s only getting stronger. Many creators are already putting AI to excellent use, and as time goes, it’s only going to get better.
Hypnotube has some decent hypno stuff, but unless they're already over the edge it's not going to do a ton. Start like any other attempt to change someone's mind. Show them porn where the 'girl' is beautiful and passable trans. Start getting them interested in that. If they bite, start saying how much they turn you on, the idea of being with one of them, maybe even being one of them. Start showing them while you're hanging out, and if they're interested and getting turned on suggest masturbation sessions. Comment on how hot the sessions are and make a point to rub yourself out within their FOV while watching the porn. Get them interested. Once they're interested in you, start saying how pretty they are and encourage them to play with their nippples and thighs more, like the 'girls' in the video. Focus on the feminine aspect of masturbation, not just jorking it. Start sending them links to hypno stuff and talk about how it's really hot to imagine yourself as the feminine POV. Show them it's safe and okay to do that. Then start on the mutual masturbation, maybe say they're 'not doing it right' and start playing with their nipples. Make it a 'take turns' thing where you do stuff for them (but not too gay, right? ;) ) and they'll do stuff for you, escalating until you're masturbating in their face while they watch female POV blowjob on hypnotube and then just 'accidentally' push closer to their face. Should naturally go from there but same cycle: introduce something, show that it's safe, show them that they're similar to the people doing the act, then start slowly introducing the physical connection. Once the brain is there the body will follow.
>>949817264>Bambi SleepAll that hypno stuff is so cringe
>>949817274>Should naturally go from there but same cycle: introduce something, show that it's safe, show them that they're similar to the people doing the act, then start slowly introducing the physical connection. Once the brain is there the body will follow.The general principle you’re talking about is good. I think the scenarios you’re describing are a bit far fetched for most people, but idk what you and yours get up to.
>>949817409It’s less popular on here than it used to be, but it works. Not in some sort of mystical, reality-warping way. The person actually has to be compliant with it and, at least on some level, want it to work. However, if they give it a shot and find it to be a turn on on some level, it will start to alter their sexuality.
>>949817190Being a sissy is a kink for me. I explore it entirely through sex. IRL, I hit the gym, learned how to talk to women and developed hobbies that people think are cool and make money.That said I'm still queer and would love for a hot transwomen or femboy to breed my boipussy>>949817240Agreed, I love the encouragement and exploration aspect of it. Most sissy porn is pure humiliation/degradation which, while fun, isn't the flavor I want all the time. At the core of it, I want to be pretty and I need to be taught how to do that. >>949817264Not really my thing. Also I don't know if anyone believes that it's actually hypnotizing you and if it is...why tf would you actually want to do that?
Do people think the hypno stuff actually does anything? I used to do it a bunch but I never really felt anything. The “idea” of it was kinda hot but it can’t actually do anything
>>949817783>>949818268It can, but you actually have to watch/listen to actual hypno. Bambi Sleep (which just received a soft reboot with the slavedoll trainings) and the brainwashing/hypnosis sections of hypnotube will actually fuck your shit up if you let it.
>>949817503Nothing :) Just me randomly imagining a scenario that could work off the cuff. But yeah, general principle is sound. Scenarios are a bit wtfever. Admittedly distracted with having ollama write up some porn stories. They're good enough for a jork, but not good enough to post. But it'll write about WHATEVER kind of content you want, with the right model.
>>949818268She's hot! Who is that?>>949818326Not my idea of a good time...
>>949818326I watched all the Bambi stuff. I dunno if I’m just in that % that can’t get it. I mean there’s a bit of an adrenaline jump when someone says one of the triggers but I gotta imagine that’s just from apprehension
>>949818403Some loser (me)
>>949809005Cute feet sissy
>>949818429What was your favorite trigger Heart?
>>949818465Damn, girl, you're hot AF. How about we have my wife tie you up and I'll fuck you while she watches?
>>949818540Isn’t the point you are meant to forget then lol I feel like I can only think of Bambi Sleep right now cus I distinctly remember the loud finger snap after everytime>>949818613..well thank youI don’t think I’ve actually ever had a girl tie me up…
>>949817023No I didn't. But I did end up fucking him in front of his husband a few days later. We have been talking again and we do have dinner together. But yeah I probably won't be fucking him again unless his husband says it's all good to go again
>>949818764Dont worry, she's gentle...me on the hand...
>>949818764I think it’s okay to remember them when you’re not trancing out, and can we see some tongue and maybe some rolling eyes ;)
>>949819020Err this is a thread about how to train and break us, you’re not meant to say you’re gonna be rough until I’m already tied up.Duh
>>949819213I didnt say it...you did ;)Also, really nice rope work
>>949819129That’s specific, you know sarcastically rolling my eyes is my signature move when people try to break me?>>949819288Ha thanks I followed a guide and hid the messy knots at the back lmao
>>949819319Damn, that lip bite is so damn suuuuuuuubtle
>>949819319>That’s specific, you know sarcastically rolling my eyes is my signature move when people try to break me?Sure, but all of us <3 ahegao.
>>949819647 I dont. Ahegao is cringe
>>949819375Can’t give em too much, Thel think I’m into them when I’m just crossdressing for the memes>>949819647Nope! I don’t think I have one of them. If a guy ever got me to do that I’d never live it down lol
>>949819767Haha okay :)
>>949819767That's how I started crossdressing. For the lulz....also Victoria's secret has some really cute and soft matching bra and panties...
>>949819767>If a guy ever got me to do that I’d never live it down lolChallenge accepted
>>949809103How do you find them?
>>949809694>>949809965>>949810916Is it really that simple? This is really me.
>>949820983I wouldn't recommend leaning into substances as a way to calm your nerves. And yes, make plans with people you trust, talk to them about your concerns and if you get "that feeling" in your gut, leave. Also, you got pound cakes, girl. I'd love to glaze them for you
>>949820983Sub online, don’t meet. It’s way too dangerous until you truly get a connection with somebodyJust keep it fun and don’t push yourself
>>949813580Chastity was one of the hardest adjustments because I was legit addicted to masturbation at the time. So learning to put his pleasure before mine, because my basic instinct was to touch myself when horny took time. Eventually being fucked while in chastity long enough you learn to have a different type of orgasm. Its not exactly like jerking but a bit more rewarding because I felt a greater connection to another person while having it. Learning to recieve pleasure in that way definitely made me more submissive, its hard to really come back from that when you realize that's what your role is. Our first few months of dating and hooking up I was in denial and thought I could still be bi but taking a cock regularly like that coupled with chastity I realized that I wasn't only gay but also meant to be a submissive sissy girl.
>>949813635>Noted. I'll have to take my measurementsYeah Amazon is the best I find. Lots of variety. He lets me pick out whatever I want from there usually.
>>949821320This. Don't do anything with anyone you don't trust.Depending on where you live, you can also seek out a professional dominant through legal means
>>949820751The first good one was a domme I met up with via Craigslist personals (or was it doublelist?) The rest have been with my wife when we both manage to get into the right head space.
>>949821502Good stuff anon, might give chastity another try
>>949821502Your master is lucky to have a good girl like you serving him Chrissy :) Have you talked to him about sharing some content with us yet?
>>949822517Chastity is fun. I've only ever used it solo (as weird as that sounds) but it instantly puts me in a submissive, frustrated and needy headspace.It makes me realize that there's only one way I can cum and it's produced some incredible results from me even with just using a toy on myself. I'm dying to use it with a partner
Chastity is a gateway drug lol
>>949822669Suppose there's probly way better cages since last I checked, pervert tech moves fast.
>>949822517It helped having a key holder to keep be on track with it. If I had the key I would have broken fast.>>949822597After my errand he came home and I sucked his cock as per usual. I asked about sharing pics but he said he'd prefer not to right now. Sorry. I have a little more time now before he is ready for proper fuck session tonight, so just getting excited for that.
>>949822704Don’t get baited into the flat ones, they are dumb lol
I've wanted to be pushed over the edge for soooo long but never had a guy do it... Closest I got to it I got scared and kept deleting my accounts until I literally couldn't contact the poor guy anymore :(
>>949822830Haha, okay. Be a good girl tonight and have fun.
>>949820983>>949821320>>949821568Okay. This is good advice I think. I dunno. I feel like I should go in without thinking. I guess I am just confused and scared. Sadly, I do substances already
eblue (birchshopplace/sissymaidstore) has the sissy dresses and lingerie that is top notch if expensive, i've had many pieces from them came custom and took a little while but are great.
>>949818495
When I was younger I got feminized by an older man on discord, he managed to accomplish that by basically just giving me lots of compliments. I'd never really had any luck with women so eventually I started to associate feeling good about my appearance with him. He'd start making subtle suggestions pertaining to my appearance, like "you'd look so cute in a skirt" or something like that and I was so addicted to getting positive feedback that before I knew it I was dressing in slutty little outfits and sending him pictures. I didn't even consider myself gay/bi/whatever before that but through his manipulation I started finding older, masculine men very attractive.
>>949823756Thank you. Likely out of my price range, but damn they have everything
>>949823247Remade a disc: jamiesucksdicks cuz I'm bored rn
>>949822980Not to brag, but the next one I get is going to have to be custom...I'm too "thick" to fit comfortably in both of the ones I got on Amazon.
>>949822980Haha I know I gotta get a smallish one due to being much smaller flaccid, just couldn't get the fit right trying to 3d print ones to size
>>949822980>>949826394But luckily I ain't flat cage meme small, probly need the waist strap to have any long term success
>>949825985Make a Kik with the same name and I’ll message you
>>949822980I have a decent sized cock (6.5") and can fit in a flat cage fine, just make sure you get a correctly sized one very comfortably.
>>949827047Flaccid size is what matters. You got a micro peen when soft?
>>949822610Could try the cage timer websites, probly need a fancy dongle for that though
>>949827215About the size of half my thumb when flaccid, but it stays on when it gets hard
>>949801789For me it was stealing my hot (girl) friends’ panties/thongs/clothes. I wanted to imagine how their asses looked in them, started sharing pics, then wanted to take it further and get a wig with their hair color to match. The rest is history lol
>>949827434My dongle is very fancy. Ask your mother
>>949823247cute
>>949823247why ur dick blak?
>>949804300never go down that route. its a trap and porn addiction.
>>949801789Chastity cages are the way. make sure they don't cum and they will become yours. most will realize they're straight after the first time though.
>>949835252Well if you get em on estrogen before then their cock orgasms always feel denied so don’t have to worry about that. Don’t ask how I know…
>>949835252how do you convince a beta boy to let you lock them up in chastity?
>>949835895Who is that?
>>949836253That’s my attention starved, affirmation seeking butt