I have recently learned that my wife was not a virgin when we got together, but instead she fucked another man about a year or two before starting a relationship with me. We were already good friends at that point.This has completely destroyed any attraction that I feel for her. I never had sex with anyone else. We have two young children and bought an apartment together. All i can think about when I touch her is her fucking with another man.How do I save my marriage?
>>949838344Come on, man... Having one dude before you then settling with you and having two kids with you usually means she loves you. There's a reason she left him and has chosen you. Cheer up, man. There are relationships which survive and get stronger with actual cheating happening. I don't want to dismiss your feelings or anything, get a therapist if you really don't know how to cope with it, but it's not like she was a turboslut or anything and you are just the "I'm ready to settle down" option.
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>>949838344Damn wait til she figures out she had kids with a retard kek. It didnt ever occur to you to fucking ask her about this instead of just autistically assuming whatever you wanted to be true?
>>949838344An hero anon,
The response is obvious. OP needs to go out and have sex with hundreds of men.
Its normal, its even very healthy, for people to have other relationships before finding the right one. People need to experience wrong/bad relationships to figure out what the right relationship is to them. Most people who stick to their first one usually end up regreting it later when they realise there is much better options out there, but they where too blinded by the exitement of a first love to see all that was wrong about that first person.The problem here is not her, it's you. You have issues. You should try to figure out what they are and try to fix it. Do you have some sort of rejection sensibility? Or some deep core insecurities? Maybe you some sort of fetish that was killed by the thought of not being first?
