I've got an update. Don't know if the people who replied to my original post would still be online but hope at least some of them are.For those who didn't get to read it:https://archived.moe/b/thread/949112907/Some people in the thread convinced me to grow some balls and finally ask her out which I did, unsurprisingly getting a rejection. She cried and said that she knew for ages but didn't want to break my heart. I asked her whether we could still be best friends.Now you'd assume that things right there. But as I mentioned in my last post, I had a blind date set up.Now, on that day, around 6 hours prior to the date, she was at my door. She said something about helping me pick out clothes for the date to make a good first impression, I figured that'd help me get over loving her for the past 8 years somewhat.She's always been pretty emotional, she was helping me pick out clothes and stuff, sitting on my bed and when I came back wearing the clothes she was crying yet again. I came closer to comfort her as I had a habit of doing and before I realized it, she was kissing me. Asking me to not leave her, that she was sorry.I cancelled the date of course, I was having sex with my crush of 8 years that day. Now my sister is naturally quite angry with me (She set up the blind date with one of her friends) more so because she didn't like my best friend anyway always telling me that I should stop crushing and that she wasn't good for me.I'm very happy, she comes over almost every other day as she always did and now we have been having going on proper dates and having sex, I'm falling for her more and more as I see her dressing up for me and stuff.But I don't understand her. Why would she lie about not liking me back when she had a clear chance to do when I asked her out, why did she risk our friendship in the first place rejecting me in the first place if she liked me after all? I don't understand women.
>>949865160She probably had some other guy she was more interested in but, it fell through so, she defaulted to you.
>>949865471She always went back to the same guy before now, you would know that if you read the last post
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>>949865700Self important faggot. Fuck you.
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She was probably startled by your proposition, confused not sure you still liked her even though you gave off vibes, probably played out both scenarios in her head for acceptance vs rejection. She imposed on you 6 hours prior to your date because she knew she screwed up and had to sabotage your date. Just don't think about it bro, you're having good times now
>>949865160>>I asked her whether we could still be best friends.mistake number one.>>I had a blind date set up.mistake number two.>>She said something about helping me pick out clothes for the date to make a good first impressionshe thinks you are a hopeless dork.>>I figured that'd help me get over loving her for the past 8 years somewhat.it wont. where is your common sense?>>she was kissing me. Asking me to not leave her, that she was sorry.if she fucked some other guy dont do it. tell her to leave because she rejected you. have some self respect.>>I cancelled the date of coursemistake number three.>>my best friend knock off the bullshit. you want sex from her.>>Why would she lie about not liking me back when she had a clear chance to do when I asked her out, why did she risk our friendship in the first place rejecting me in the first place if she liked me after all? I don't understand women.she probably wasnt lying. you were just not her first choice. always remember that. keep trust to a minimum. good luck though anon.
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>>949865160Get couple therapy, seems like your ship could sink in the future tho. Better check.
>>949865160>>949865471>>949865700Women don't have their own thoughts. OP.Only men can create a new original thought without having to shallow-copy from their surroundings.Think of them as something closer to human clones with feelings and no capabilities of their own.They effectively stay 3-4 year olds mentally their entire lives.This is also why they always prioritize feelings over logic even though that's the wrong move 90+% of the time.
