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What's it like dating a girl with borderline personality disorder (BPD)? I feel like my last ex had BPD but shes not been diagnosed.
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>What's it like dating a girl
anyone wanna answer just this part for me?
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It's borderline insane having to deal with the ups and downs and shit you didn't even know what triggers them. So exhausting. I got chewed out for about two hours for watching The Hobbit without her even though she said she didn't want to see it. I was at loss for words I didn't even know that was supposed to be a thing we were hyped for the movie sucked. One time she got mad at me and I laughed at her because she was being a cunt so she slapped me and ran out of the house then got mad at me because I didn't chase her. She told me men are supposed to chase the woman after a woman storms off after an argument. Everytime I went out to hang out with a friend she was constantly calling me accusing me of cheating on her when I was literally just sitting down drinking and talking with the bros. Hanging out with friends was so difficult I ended up having people give up hanging out with me. I had to wrestle knives from her after she threatened suicide I stripped the knife from her shook her a bit to calm her down and I called her fucking crazy. That bitch was going completely berserk it was like a demon possessing her I had no clue how to react, she's lucky I didn't slap her. She later told people I choked her when that happened even though I've never hit a woman my entire life. It was a genuinely frightening experience. One day she stopped talking out of the nowhere only to find out she was fucking some 50 year old chomo, he was some loser who pretended he was still 18. Generally an all around faggot poser who looked like he didn't bathe, but what do I know this bitch was a whore. Sex was good, but not worth the trouble or heartbreak. Stay as far away as possible from woman with BPD. Another crush I had in high school was the same age as me and had three husbands by the time she was 28 and she pistol whipped her 3rd husband and shot near his feet in front of her children, she had BPD. Unknowingly dated a compulsive liar in college. I attract crazy people.
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>it was like a demon possessing her
Because it was.
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You're right. Fuck me I was stupid for staying with that demon.

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My crush:
https://www.wavy.com/news/no-bond-for-newport-news-police-recruit-charged-in-alleged-assault/
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she will be intensely jealous of any interaction you have with another female, while she is already talking to (if not actively fucking) other guys; not even your waitress is safe, so you'd better not look or smile at her when you take a BPD girl out to eat
she will go from idealizing you and saying that you are the best, the most wonderful, etc. to saying that you're a piece of shit and she never loved you
you will not have disagreements, you will have fights, and they will often involve her locking herself in the bathroom and self harming and threatening suicide; this will happen if you, for example, express discomfort with her secretiveness with her phone (she's sexting other guys)
if you break down the bathroom door to stop her from killing or cutting herself, she will call 911 and have you arrested for domestic; she will then bail you out, and you'll have animalistic sex with her, and then the cycle will start all over again
it's not possible to make her understand, on an intellectual level, how you feel; if you make an argument from emotion, she might feel a strong emotive empathy for you, but it will be short lived; she cannot have an intellectual, articulable idea of your state of mind, your feelings, your thoughts, your personhood, etc.
you'll never really be able to figure out who she is, because she really isn't anybody; she has no solid, stable personality and set of behaviors like most people, she's ruled by her disease, she's a chameleon
she will give you the best sex of your life (as she has given to many men before you and will give to many men after you, and may be giving to other men the same day), and she will make you feel like a god, and then she will try to destroy you
the best thing to do once they have another victim on the line (any one of their many male "friends") is to achieve radical acceptance of her as a person and the impending failure of your relationship, because if you try to break up with her, she will cut herself
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and threaten suicide and call the cops again; the best thing is to give her as little emotional reaction as possible. not fight with her, not break up with her, but make her realize it's time to move on to her next victim
when she tells him about you, she will tell him that you were controlling, abusive, that you raped her, etc.
enjoy!



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