What's it like bottoming for the first time /b/?I'll be doing it for the first time soon, but kind of anxious. Is it true it's normal to feel like shit after your first time (i.e. 'bottom shame') and your self confidence crashes, especially if you run into the top again?If you were bi, did it mess up your orientation (did you prefer men more than women after that or vice versa)?
>>954795619wasn't very memorable for me, but I think it was for my nigger
looks fun
>>954795619>the first timeThe first time hurt and didnt realy work cuz he was too big and I was ignorant about how to prepare. Make sure you are familiar with your anus and anal sex and know how to take time to open up with lots of lube before getting mounted >bottom shamemaybe a little? more like concern of oh fuck does this mean im gay? but I quickly got over it. my lust for women remains unabated and I am now proud of my secret skills and charms that get men so hot and bothered they want to fuck me.
>>954796399You're getting me hot and bothered right now.
>>954796563NGL it can be one of the more sublime experiences you will have. I have def cum from being railed- hands free. I have learned from experience that I prefer smaller dick 5-7inches for fucking becuase he can really let go and pound you good without being afraid of being hurt. I taken much bigger ones but you have to be careful.The best is when you can feel their balls slapping against your taint...I love that.
>>954796867how often hands free? also how easy is it?
>>954796399Thanks, I've got a dildo I practice on.Its up to the top but do you prefer doggy or missionary? I'm guessing Cowgirl(sp) is probably not for beginners.
First time I got fucked, I was 16 and I spent a long time training with lube, dildos and fingers and it still wasn't enough for it to not hurt. The more you do it, the less it hurts and you'll feel less embarrassed to do it.
>>954797067>how often hands free?personally? been fucked by dozens of men and probably came only a handful of times. But thats ok because post-nut regret is a thing and its best to avoid...otherwise you find yourself looking in the mirror and seeing yourself dressed in panties and thigh highs getting railed by a man 3 times older than you...and you have to be ok with that lol. >also how easy is it?hard to say- a lot of variables involved- your vibe with the Top, your level of arousal, drugs/alcohol, how your body responds etc....I have cum very quickly- like 30 seconds after he fit his big cock but also have cum after being railed for 2hrs straight in every which way from sunday...im probably not the best guy to ask as I can cum just from thought or just from touching my nipples too...so im sensitive. Its best f you have played with yourself before and even made yourself cum from a dildo so you know more about what you are doing and what to look for...
Your first time will be awkward and quick. Probably more painful than it has to be. Just know there's really no such thing as too much lube and it's fine to ask for more. Learn how to prepare yourself properly and relax.
>>954795619>pozzed with nigger aids
>>954797361>you prefer doggy or missionary? I'm guessing Cowgirl(sp) is probably not for beginners.Actually- cowgirl is great for beginners because you can sit on him and control the entry go as slow as you need. Sometimes tops arent considerate or listen to you fully and are too horned up and go to fast at first. I like both doggy and missionary a lot. both have merits- Doggy makes you feel so slutty and penetration is deeper...but missionary makes you (me anyways) feel super vulnerable and feminine when a big man lays on top of you and you wrap you legs around him and he pumps you hard...and collapses on top of when hes done. So, I always try to start with doggy and end woth missionary
>>954797412>post-nut regretDoes it get lesser the more you do it? Or does it still hit hard?
It’ll hurt more than you think. I used dildos and stuff to prep but it wasn’t enough. The nigger I picked was built like a coke can. He came over, I tried my best to suck him off, then he bent me over and as soon as he stuck it in, I was praying he would cum quick. After about 5 minutes of getting my asshole blown out, I tapped out and told him to just cum in my mouth. Couldn’t hold a fart in the rest of the day…LUBE UP!
>>954797842>Does it get lesser the more you do it?Def less over time. I did have to power thru when I inadvertently came while being fucked and he was no where near to being done- I saw myself in the mirror in my panties and thighs, saw how much this guy was turned on by me and realized that yeah- part of me is a cute little semon demon in panties and came full circle to being proud of my skills and charms and became fully aroused again before he finally finished. There is no shame in having sex and exploring life.
>>954797376Was the guy bigger than average?
>>954796399>oh fuck does this mean im gay?Yes. Yes it does. At best, bi
>>954800494hey everyone, i am gay!
>>954797735>Sometimes tops arent considerateit's important to understand that this is the case 100% of the time with niggersniggers don't care if you're uncomfortable or in pain or, frankly, whether you live or dieunderstand that once a nigger is in your ass, it is what it is until he finishes, prison style
>>954795619sauce
im still uncomfortable even practicing with a dildo which i do infrequently... completely terrified of giving myself a gross butthole or hemerrhoids or somethingi enjoy playing with my p spot more just by using my finger than with a dildo which i think is because im pretty tight and its hard to relax into itthe idea of actually getting fucked is super hot, but i know if i tried it i wouldnt be able to handle it let alone enjoy it
>>954795619ease into it by sucking dick first, it's what I did
Niggers and poop are the same thing
>>954795619That's how aids is made
>>954802870Never know until you try
Let them spitroast you so your attention is split between mouth and ass
My first time was with a guy pretty average-sized. I had used toys a bit prior, so I straddled him without too much prep, and his hips spasmed in pleasure as soon as it was in, which made him hit me hard, and it hurt, and then he got soft not long after, and I wiped away a little blood after. Terrible experience.I gradually got into using toys much more regularly on my own, and the next time I was finally going to bottom (little over a year ago), I prepped considerably, riding a toy the say prior, cleaning out, wearing a plug to see him, and I was terrified it was going to hurt since he was bigger… but it felt heavenly and I was in disbelief how much I enjoyed it, and I’ve been getting railed semi regularly ever since, but I’m also at the point where I can ride big toys harder than I’d ever have dared to before, so I’ve probably got things back there conditioned pretty welp now.Every time I’ve tried to top for anal, no matter how much prep I try to put into it, they always tell me it hurts and to take or our after a couple minutes. But I think they’re just not hardly ever playing with their holes solo to get them broken in.
I only bottomed for trannies and it got better after the first time. Try a dildo with lots of lube first. I will say it felt really good with a sexy asian girl who was about 6 inches. Really hot, asked where I wanted her to come and took it in my mouth
>>954795619how does one find a suitable partner? most gay dudes i have met have been kind of scummy. i became way more sympathetic to women for their complaints about men after.
>>954809174Sniffles worked for me.He was pretty thick, not that long, but honestly didn’t hurt at all. Used a good amount of lube
>>954795619>If you were bi, did it mess up your orientationFor me yes, I wasn't into women for a while. But could have been new toy syndrome.
It’s pure pleasure especially if you have a big cock in your mouth while you give up your cherry
I recommend going with a clean older black man that's respectful of your boundariesMy first time was with a mixed white man and he didn't respect anything I told him and because of that I only bottom for black men
>>954796399Only gay if you're attracted to men only, this is a fetish
I'm used to it now, but I had an almost ptsd fucked up feeling after I got fucked for time. I felt some form of it for a bunch of hookups after the first, definitely loss of confidence. Always was just attracted to girls and I still only like the dick and feeling dominated by a man. It's like I'm going against my natural wiring when I do it. I've run into guys in the street who have fucked me and it is crazy awkward. I would recommend a small dick for beginners. Big dicks in your ass can be bad for your health.
why does it have to be gay fml
It messed me up the first time because there I was in missionary position, shaved, spread with my legs around the top and making embarassing noises, in your mind its something you only associate with a woman doing.
Oh yes, important question; does it take a while to stop 'leaking' after that?
On my way to get fucked in the ass by niggers right now
>>954795619Enjoy your AIDS!
>>954795619>you were bi, did it mess up your orientationI was definitely into women less after that for a while, a few other bi guys I know had the same experience after their first gay sex. It’s like a mental block’s lifted.
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>>954812787your slutty ass looks great full of cock
I definitely love Black cock
>>954795619Scared the living shit out of me the first time because it was only semi-consensual. Once I accepted it was happening I actually found myself getting really turned on and once I came I knew this was going to be a regular thing.
>>954823544Dubs logged throte clogged
>>954823528I wish I was the white guy
