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I'm white, almost 29, okay job and I don't feel like having kids desu. Almost all of my friends around my age are already expecting a child or are preparing for one, my parents are almost always trying to nudge me to already have one. I finally got the financial freedom and balance of work/life to basically do whatever I want and I don't want to lose it right now. Loneliness isn't scary since I've never needed much company anyway. The whole marriage and kids shit sounds so tedious and unappealing desu, I've lived with a gf once and it was really shit, can't imagine a marriage.
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You are the surplus population.
You produce nothing of value.
Please die, so that the resources you would otherwise waste can be used by those more worthy than you.
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Have a child by surrogacy and raise it yourself
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>>24428015
They are already taking cash out of my wage so "worthy" people can raise their 5 kids, if people like me killed themselves, people like you won't receive their gibs

>"Have a child by surrogacy and raise it yourself"

Thats the thing tho, I don't feel like doing it, I grinded all the way to here just so I can immedietly start grinding again so that globohomo can have 1-2 more worker drones they can exploit? Fuck no.
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I've just finished watching this important documentary, "Birthgap". If you've been paying attention, we've gone from an overpopulation to an underpopulation crisis over the last 50 years. Replacement-level is @2.0 children per family. The stunning fact is this: of the women and families who HAVE children, the average number has remained the same, i.e. the number of 2, 3 and 4-children families all over the world is basically unchanged since 1974. What HAS changed, and changed DRASTICALLY in almost EVERY country, starting with South Korea and Japan, but including Europe, Latin America and even the US, is the rate of childless women. In most countries, 1 in 20 women of prime fertility age were childless in 1974. The number now is 1 in 3 to 1 in 5. Many of these women all over the world think they will delay having a child until their late 30s, but they are playing with Mother Nature. At 38, a woman has far fewer good eggs than at 24. So they end up waiting too long, and never have children at all. This is a very sobering video.
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>>24428014
that's fine, there is a gypsie family in your country who has already produced several times more children than you could ever have imagined doing yourself
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>>24428018
That's common knowledge for anybody who isn't sub-50 IQ.

>"that's fine, there is a gypsie family in your country who has already produced several times more children than you could ever have imagined doing yourself"

I know, all paid for from the hard working people and their children in the form of taxes.
It'll be really funny when all that is left is gypsies and the whole social security system collapses
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>>24428020
>It'll be really funny when all that is left is gypsies and the whole social security system collapses
I just want riots and multi-generational welfare recipients to be locked up in private prisons with manufacturing capabilities.
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>>24428014
I know this feeling. One by one my fren group got smaller and smaller until there was only me all by myself.
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>>24428022
I'm happy for them honestly, it's just the natural way of things for most people, I just hope they are happy as well and not doing it "because its the way it should be" like a lot of people do.
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>>24428014
Shouldn't it be "Janai desu" if you DON'T feel like having kids?
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>>24428024
4chan turns every "t b h" into "desu"
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>>24428014
na 30 sum gore dolu sushtata poziciq ama ne iskam deca shtot me e shube
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>>24428014
You're the person who's going to e crying in ten years that they can't find a woman who isn't divorced with kids or some washed up old whore.
You're also probably going to complain paying for schools and shit when you don't have any kids. That's the price losers like you pay for being allowed in our plane of existence.
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>>24428014
Do you have a cute Bulgarian sister I can marry/impregnate? Maybe that will take the pressure off of you and your parents will focus on their new grandkids.
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>>24428027
Projecting much? I already said I don't really give a fuck about companionship and such, the last thing I want is to get in a serious relationship with a woman, they're just fine when you're only fucking them.
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>>24428014
It's a subconscious switch that gets flipped off when you start perceiving the society around you as a form of a hostile occupation that has perverted the rules of nature. It's gonna flip back on whenever the society around you starts aligning with your internal value system.

All social animals have this switch and this is a commonly-known issue for zoos where the animals will just stop breeding for some reason. Also the male stray dogs that get abused tend to self-exclude from the genepool and just never breed, as they're too anxious to socialize even with their fellow dogs due to the psychological trauma. I think that I may have pulled this out of my ass in another false memory episode but I swear that I read something like this like a decade ago and it has kind of stuck with me since then.
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>>24428026
Meн нe мe e шyбe, пpocтo нe ми ce зaнимaвa тoчнo ceгa чecтнo кaзaнo и нe знaм дaли въoбщe щe ми ce зaнимaвa. He ми ce миcли дa cъм в cepиoзнa вpъзкa пaк, кaмo ли дeцa.
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>>24428014
The real meme everyone fell for is that having kids is hard and expensive and you have to change your whole life around and stop doing all the things you like to do.

Its not. Its fucking easy. I'm so glad I didn't listen to all these people telling me what a huge responsibility it is and how my life would be turned upside down by it. Kids are people, just like everyone else. Some are awesome and some are dumb niggers. Maybe your faggot kids made your life miserable because you are a dumb faggot and so you had dumb faggot kids. Like yeh if I was a dumb nigger, and my kids were dumb niggers, then yeah having kids would suck. But mine are cool as fuck.

I hope that makes sense.
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>>24428023
Oh they definitely don't think about stuff like that
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>>24428029
No projections. I'm married with kids. I've seen your type many times. Eventually you'll want to settle down and there won't be any women worth setting down with who will have you.
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>>24428032
>having kids is hard and expensive
Folks who say that are doomers and never worth listening to
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>>24428034
well hopefully your kids will figure something out huh?
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>>24428014
Life sucks
Don't have kids
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>>24428036
What exactly do they need to figure out? I've raised the to not be a whiny fucking loser like you. They'll be just fine
I mean come on. Do you really think we're stupid? You wouldn't have even made this post if you didn't feel like something was missing in your life. You're simply looking for people to verify your shitty choices.
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>>24428038
You're the one that's crying
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>>24428015
So tell us how niggers and jeets produce anything of value mass breeding :)
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>>24428034
Honestly its weird. The people who arent married or don't have kids don't really try to convince me that it's the better choice or whatever, they just live their lives. Married couples or ones with kids on the other hand, like 95% of them, always ask me when am I gonna get married and have kids, all the time. If you tell them anything they start going on about how its the best thing ever even though they look miserable as fuck, can't come to this or that because "have to take care of the kids" or something to do with their wife/husband or don't have money because they spend it all on things for their kids. Nothing against them but come on lol. Let people have kids or get married only if they want to, they're almost as bad as the homos
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>>24428015
You are cattle. You have no value because you are only capable of duplicating. Because you are a nobody, you will duplicate fellow nobodies.

The true human creates additions to the world, and makes it a better place. This concept is foreign to you because critical thinking is absent for you. You have as much to add to the world as a sheep. You will never create art, you will never understand concepts. You will pass through life as an ant for a corrupt system. If anyone should consider death, it should be you.
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>>24428041
To put it simply, your friends without kids don't know any better. Your friends with kids know how much purpose the y give you in life and they understand that they didn't truly know what love was until they had a child. They don't want you to miss out on it.
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>>24428175
You can always have another purpose that is not related to kids and does not involve other people, you know that right?

But I guess that's not for everybody.
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>>24428014
Have fun. You'll wake up one day, over a decade has passed and it's too late for a family. Get comfortable with dying alone.
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>>24428014
>blugaria
>yt
Okay cygan
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>>24428297
>Canada

Good morning saar
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>>24428265
As opposed to dying alone but having somebody bury you or dying in a retirement home. lmfao



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