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I can feel myself slipping
I need a big change in my life
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>>24447927
Change into a girl
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>>24447927
>>24447935
nigga you zesty
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>>24447935
why would that benefit me
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>>24447949
You wanted a big change didn't you?
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>>24447973
why do you do it
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>>24447927
We are not your therapist.
>>24447935
The grooming used to be more discreet, but now my enemies openly try to influence vulnerable people into detrimental behaviour. They don’t even attempt to hide their evil deeds anymore.
>>24447940
Tyrone is right.
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>>24447977
nigga I'm neither black nor white I'm some other shit
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>>24447973
yeah but i like being a guy
>>24447977
slayer?
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>>24447976
Just helping OP feel better

>>24447996
How do you know that you won't like being a girl more?
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>>24448045
suspicious answer
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>>24448047
Truthful answer
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>>24448092
suspicious user
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>>24447985
A specimen so impure that he can only describe his heritage, lineage and ancestry as “some other shit”. All I can do is pity the poor soul.
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>>24448104
native americans haven't been the greatest at maintaining purity, dog
I pity your ignorance and hope you find it in yourself to bless others with the benefit of the doubt in the future
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>>24448045
not suited for it, at all. like many others
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>>24447927
What's on your mind?
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>>24448327
Just feel like Ive put myself in a hole with no way out.
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do this
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>>24448468
is growing my hair out and dying it pink required?
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>>24448497
that would be hot, yeah
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>>24448538
now you're sounding like the other guy
what is it with you people?
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>>24448418
What does it mean to get out?
What would it take to get out?
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>>24448611
Don't know, that's why I feel I need a change.
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>>24448567
but wouldnt that be the big change you are looking for?
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do you like the song Keep Slipping Away by American noise rock band A Place To Bury Strangers
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>>24448641
I don't think I want that change. I don't see a benefit to that
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>>24448636
I'll take it a step back.
What can you point to in your life, specifically, that makes you feel like you're stuck in a hole?
What, manifestly, do you feel needs to change, (if it can change)?
(You don't have to answer itt, just can you answer these questions to yourself?)
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>>24448671
All I do every day is go to work then come home. I find comfort in the routine but I feel like I need to break out of my own life, I guess.
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>>24447927
are you fit(enough)?
are u educated?
do u have the job you want?
do you have goals?
have you set new goals?
how long has it been since you had a goal?

im also currently in a semi-rut myself with goals, just not working towards all of them like i feel like i should be
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>>24448696
I'm lean/skinny
I'm currently doing a paid internship for college
Nope
Just to progress through life
Not really
Never felt like I had one to begin with.
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>>24448685
>I feel like I need to break out of my own life
Can you find a word to describe what you would want to change (add or remove)?

I'm really drilling down on this because one cannot expect to achieve any goal that one has not defined. Something specific to move towards, or away from, or both. You may have to guess, and that guess may be wrong initially, but you always have the freedom to update it later. But a well-though-out best-guess usually gets people moving in close to the right direction. If that makes sense.
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>>24448685
>I find comfort in the routine
im a major routine autist and can relate to this too but have found ways to incorporate things into that routine
reading/studying and exercise mostly
studying history has been huge for me

>>24448725
>lean/skinny
do you exercise or just naturally thin? or both (lol)
what field of work is your intership in?
>no goals
if you want to make a change you'll need to figure out a goal to achieve
even if its not a big deal, like a project or something you can skill up in and get better at
do you have anything like that you might be interest in?
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>>24448685
how about you just take a vacation from your job and have a vacation somewhere.
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>>24448794
I guess it would be "cycle"?
>>24448886
I've been trying to do new things, but nothing feels right.

I'm mostly naturally skinny
It's a manufacturing company. I've been increasing production rates.
I just feel aimless, even with a degree program.
>>24448962
money
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>>24447927
>I need a big change in my life
try doing meth
that oughta mix things up a bit
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>>24449005
you could reduce your work hours and spend more time on your hobbies?
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If you are slipping then just wake up.
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>>24448663
hard, unbeneficial changes in your life can force you to better yourself to adapt to them though, maybe you should just try it
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>>24450747
you think THAT change is worth it??



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