Overall, I would totally date another autistic women because I like their eccentricities and I like how most of them are into anime and video games and I like how most of them have the hots for monsters.
I'm bisexual but I've never dated a man because I lean more into heterosexuality and because heterosexual women are FAR more common than gay men overall.
So ... what have your experiences with autistic dating been like?
>In b4 "Explain that gif."
That's one of the endings of the game Eversion. Basically, that's what dating an autistic woman feels like. It's like ... she's a monster ... but you're a monster also.
https://youtu.be/sQr5vmzihNE?si=lfzywE5MZCtqxgNs

>>24478752
Correction: The OP image is a JPG, not a gif. Sorry.

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Any time I feel tempted to date, I remind myself of this.

>>24478875
>I'm not interested in caring about people.
Don't you think that maybe you could lift yourself up by lifting other autistic people up? Don't you think that it would be a fulfilling experience being with a woman who is as nerdy and as autistic as you are?
Trust me man, my ex-girlfriend broke my heart, but our romance was so good while it lasted that I regret nothing. That's the thing about heartbreak. It hurts LESS than never trying and being alone forever. It's like ... I'm still sad that she left me but I'm still overjoyed that I got to experience 4 years of monstrous love with another "fucktard". I love my autistic brothers also.

>>24479331

Any relationship of mine would undoubtedly be an extremely destructive relationship with someone just as toxic, hateful, and fucked up as me. How would that be a good thing?

Also, autistic people are just as evil as normies are. Autistic people are still people, after all. We're still evil at heart, just like all people are. That's why I try my best to not have any friends and not talk to anyone. I know what human nature is and I know that it's not a pretty thing.

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>>24478752
youre a normie compared to me im a real nigga autist im 26 this year never kissed
get real

>>24479387
>We're still evil at heart, just like all people are.
Don't be emo.
>That's why I try my best to not have any friends and not talk to anyone. I know what human nature is and I know that it's not a pretty thing.
You'll grow out of this boi.

>>24479403
>youre a normie compared to me
Tell that to all the people who bullied me because they thought that I was a "nerd" and a "retarded faggot". Don't give up. I'm saying this because I LOVE my autistic brothers and sisters. The more I learn about the brutality towards autistic people in the world, the more I understand why autistic brotherhood and sisterhood are nessesary.

>>24479498
God I wish I’m 45 and the isolation is only getting worse

>>24479511
>toxic controlled culture that’s basically the Stanford prison experiment gone wrong

They’re as popular as turds in a pool. Everyone hates their guts. Also, they are THE belligerent. Iran is not making friends or winning approval by attacking Arab neighbors, but it doesn’t really hurt their image either. People understand that these are the countries from which the attacks originate.
But Israel…Israel represents a public image bonanza. Jews bully EVERYONE and ruthlessly. They cannot fail in laying in with everything they have.
I definitely know Jews hate me and seek the destruction of every aspect of my life. They’re largely succeeded. I’ve also learned that almost all people are like those in the Stanford prison experiments where people will happily torture strangers if it pleases authority figures. And so, to fix this situation, Jews must be eviscerated along with all their power structures. We must get to a place where people no longer believe they are winning the establishment’s approval by inflicting pain and suffering on anyone Jews target. The only way I can see this happening is via an ecumenical devastation of this tribe. They must be humbled and brought low. They must be exposed to the very same things to which they subject others.
I want the same thing for Jews that they want for me. And I’m hardly alone.

>>24479498

>You'll grow out of this boi.

That's what everyone has told me since childhood. But it definitely hasn't happened; in fact, the opposite has happened. I'm 31 now and my misanthropy and nihilism are more extreme now than ever.

>>24479531
Well ... sometimes you can learn from someone who is younger than you.
Maybe you've just taken a wrong turn gramps.

>>24479540
Umm... what?

Nobody likes your posts. Perhaps try >>/lgbt/
They love to self-diagnose autism/bipolar/depression/etc over there.

>>24479544
>misanthropy
Well ... some humans can be troublesome ... but the best things in life come out of people too. Some autistic people are breathtakingly beautiful. For example, some autistic women have just the right combination of nerd cuteness, feminine grace and thiccness. Some autistic men are bashful gentleman who admire Link and Luke Skywalker because ... well ... the world would unironically be a better place if more men were noblemen like Link or Luke Skywalker. Also, humanity invented the computer that you are using right now.
Also, people who sink into the deepest depths of misanthropy usually become either theocratic Republicans or else they become extreme vegan environmentalists. Neither of those groups are especially pleasant.
Basically, if you start hating people in general then you'll either turn into Donald Trump or else you'll turn into Ingrid Newkirk. Neither would be good.
>nihilism
Well ... everyone believes in something. You must believe that life is worth living or else you wouldn't be here right now. The fact that you are still here is proof that you haven't totally lost hope.
Remember Cinderella? Fairy Godmother showed up because Cinderella had ALMOST lost all hope but still had just a wee bit of hope left in her.
>In b4 "Why are you using fairy tales as a source of wisdom?"
That's literally what they are for.

>>24480172
Dude, fuck off. I was diagnosed by a professional and I've been abused by my own family because of my autism. I am a total nerd who likes autistic stuff.

>>24480288
Wow that's really telling that you thought I was talking about you and not the people on /lgbt/.. REAL telling...

... but seriously guys. I understand why a lot of autistic people speak entirely in harsh, cynical language. The world has tortured us. The world has beaten us down ... but life has taught me that your life will be SO much more beautiful if you DON'T let the hate consume you.
TRUE STORY: When I was a kid, my mother and sister subjected me to extreme emotional abuse and my sister subjected me to physical abuse as well. I get that boys are stronger than girls, but I wasn't legally ALLOWED to hit back and that's what put her in a position of power over me. That's how abuse of boys by girls typically works. Eventually, I decided "That's it! I'm sick of fucking NORMIE girls!" I want to date an Aspie girl instead! I created a Wrong Planet account when I was 18 and I tried to explain myself to the other Wrong Planet users, but they were really mean to me. At that point, my life felt pitch-dark because it felt as though the normies were tormenting me and it felt like the autistic community had betrayed me of top of that.

Continued...
Because of that, I wasn't interested in dating at all when I was 19/20 years old and I hated all women intensely during this time. During this time, I read the Unabomber Manifesto because I was so mad at human civilization that I wanted it all to crumble.
Then, when I was 20, I met a new friend. She was an autistic woman who was into furry art. Although I hated women at the time, I decided to make an exception for her. Also, around this time, I was really into online Flash games and I especially loved the game Sky Serpents by Nitrome. It's a game where you have to slay these flying serpents. I showed the game to my female friend and she didn't like it because she felt bad for the Sky Serpents and she didn't want to hurt them. That made me think "Wow! This woman is nerdy! ...and cute! I guess there are a lot of autistic people who feel bad for dragons and don't want to slay them eh?" Later, when I was 22, I decided to just let myself fall in love with her. Our romance only lasted 4 years, but it was the best thing ever while it lasted.
I used to feel deeply cynical and depressed, but a very special lady helped me out of that. She left me 4 years later, but it was all so wonderful while it lasted. Life is worth living guys.
Dear Autistic Women: You have the power to heal autistic men. I'm not saying that you HAVE to heal us (I'm not forcing a woman into anything.) but you COULD heal us magically if you wanted to do that. You do have that amazing power and it's your choice whether or not you want to use it.

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>>24480272

Honestly, I just fucking hate this miserable world and everyone in it. I mean, I try my best to not have any friends and not talk to anyone, but, even when I base my life around avoiding other people as much as I possibly can, I still hate them with every fiber of my being - and, with each passing day, that hatred only grows more and more extreme. For my entire life, I've been pushed around, taken advantage of, and viewed as easy prey. Just for once, I'd like to be the one that people are afraid of.

When I look at the disturbed individuals responsible for mass shootings, I see a lot of myself in them, which is a truly terrifying thought. I really fear that I have the potential to do something truly horrible. I don't want to be a mass shooter, but I honestly feel myself going down that path more and more each day.

>>24481430
>Honestly, I just fucking hate this miserable world and everyone in it. I mean, I try my best to not have any friends and not talk to anyone, but, even when I base my life around avoiding other people as much as I possibly can, I still hate them with every fiber of my being - and, with each passing day, that hatred only grows more and more extreme.
Holy fuck man. Are you going to become ANOTHER autistic male suicide? I get that the system subjects autistic males to extreme torture but we need to work together. In the past, racial groups banded together for their rights, women banded together for their rights ... and now autistic men must band together because too many of us and surrendering to suicide. You will only make everything worse for yourself if you isolate yourself from your brothers. Me and my friends have so much fun together man. You seriously don't want that? Well ... you know what to do if you find the pain of life unbearable in the future. If you ever find yourself pointing your gun at your head with your finger on the trigger, remember that autistic brotherhood is something to live for. This will give you a reason to put the gun down.
>For my entire life, I've been pushed around, taken advantage of, and viewed as easy prey.
I know what it's like to be tortured and bullied man ... but I also know what tender love feels like. I've felt the agony but I've also seen how beautiful things can be. When you do find love, you will appreciate it and cherish it because you have felt pain before. Life has taught me that torment leads to a sense of gratitude. People who have never experienced true agony, cruelty or hopelessness often lack the ability to truly appreciate things like gentleness, love and compassion.

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>>24481430
>Just for once, I'd like to be the one that people are afraid of.
Don't do it man. Do you see what is happening here? The world is cruel and the cruelty is infecting you and transforming you. This path that you are on will literally kill you.
"He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster."
- Friedrich Nietzsche
>When I look at the disturbed individuals responsible for mass shootings, I see a lot of myself in them, which is a truly terrifying thought.
Put an end to this repeating tragedy instead of being absorbed into it.
>I really fear that I have the potential to do something truly horrible.
PLEASE don't.
Is there a psychiatrist that you could talk to brother?
>I don't want to be a mass shooter, but I honestly feel myself going down that path more and more each day.
STOP
PREVENT YOUR DEATH!
GO NO FARTHER.

>>24481626
>>24481659

You have the ability to feel things like joy and pleasure and love. You have the ability to have fun. You have the ability to connect with other people. I do not. I am only capable of feeling negative emotions and I am not capable of forming any kind of relationships with other people. All of the things that supposedly make life worth living are things that I am completely incapable of.

I've talked to countless psychiatrists since early childhood. None of them have ever done me the slightest bit of good. Neither has anything from big pharma.

Believe me guys. I understand an autistic man's pain. When I was in grade 2, I made a friend named Chris and he was an Aspie just like me ... but there was a lot of tension between us because I thought that I had to be more like the normal kids at school. Meanwhile, Chris was a fun guy with a genuine love of nerdy fun but he was completely unwilling to learn social skills and he rarely went outside and overall my struggle to be more like the normal kids was something seemingly beyond his understanding. In a broader sense, my entire life has been this eternal battle because part of me wants to be normal ... and part of me genuinely misses the fun that I used to have with Chris in his basement. It's a constant war within my soul. I understand the pain ... but I choose to turn this pain into brotherhood ... because the only alternative is taking the only life that I will ever have.
Chris, if you are reading this, PLEASE come back to me. I'm sorry that I hurt you. We are still together in my dreams. This makes me look forward to sleeping. In dreams I walk with you brother.

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>>24481822
This sounds like you are dangerously close to becoming another tragedy.
Just ... please don't take your own life okay. If you ever want to cry or talk about your experiences in more detail then you can.

Yes. I had a melt down and went missing for a while when I found out my girlfriend was pregnant

>>24482006
What happened next? Did she abort?
If you end up having a child, do NOT let that child be fatherless. Kids need fathers.

Anyways, I have to go to work again soon but don't give up guys. I know from experience that autistic men can be smart and cute gentleman in a lot of cases. The best autistic woman that I ever met was a likable nerd woman.
Don't give up brothers and sisters. The more I get tormented unfairly, the more I see beauty in the other autistic folk. Don't let your pain fester into suicide or violence or cruelty. Your pain gives you a reason to love those who have also suffered. That's how you convert your pain into something that will enhance your life. Don't destroy your life even more.

>>24478750
you whole understanding of autistic behavior is nothing but a collection of sterotypes.
probably half the reason you struggle so much with having autism is because you cling onto shit that isn't even caused by your autism because u think its part of your disorder when its not really.
not all autistic people are some sorta quirky preddit sheldon cooper chungus chris chan abdl retard.
I get you probably think this way because of your neglectful mother meaning the only people you could relate to about autism were characters and online personalities that function more as caricatures than actually being representative of autists but u gotta learn to let that shit go.
you act like the autism equivalent of one of those black ppl that has internalized that they HAVE to act like a retarded nigger and therefore utterly abandoned their own free will

>>24482808
wanna be friends?

>>24483193
>wanna be friends?
Yes. <3

>>24478750
DOWN WITH AUTISM UP WITH DOWN SYNDROME

YOU KILL US EBERY DAY 6OU TAKE AWAY OUT R4SOURCED THAT ARR KRANT FOR UD YOU YAOR EBERYTHING FROM US I HATR YOU FUGKING SUTHOSTIC PIEFED OF SJKT SO MUCH

FUCK YO

>>24483651
STOP LYING LIKE THAT U DONT GARE U FUCKINY THIEF

I want to tell another funny story. When I was a little kid, I liked to go to the local museum. Then, then was was 25 years old, I took my then-girlfriend to the museum because I wanted her to see it. At one point, we went to the reptile exhibit. In the reptile exhibit, she learned about how male crocodiles bellow to attract females. My gf pressed a button to hear the sound of a crocodile bellow and then she said "Oh hubba-hubba!" It sounded like she was actually turned on but the sound of the crocodile bellow. I'm not sure if she was actually turned on but she sounded a bit turned on and that was funny to me.
My point is that autistic women are full of funny little quirks like that. Dating autistic women is worth it guys! It can be hard at times but I've tried it and I regret nothing!

>>24483675
furry girls are so hot

>>24484081
>furry girls are so hot
Yes.
It's too bad I can't post them on this site aside from /b/.

>>24484104
you have discord?

>>24484120
>you have discord?
No.

I'm bumping this thread again because I want to send more messages of hope and love to my autistic brothers and sisters.
When I was a teenager, I was desperately trying to be normal and so I kept trying to imagine the thought processes of a normal person. This was incredibly stressful. Have you ever experienced that? When I was a teenager, a lot of kids who were far more mean than me had a lot of smug confidence and I couldn't find a way to replicate that. Have you ever experienced that? When I was a teenager, I tried to explain my problems and my thoughts to my mother but she kept cutting me off mid-sentence and she kept trying to trivialize the immense pain and fear that I was feeling. Have you ever experienced that?
I'm just talking about all of this because I want to reach out to people who have suffered just as I have suffered.
It's going to be okay. My teenage years were mind rape psychological horror and I felt like I was going crazy trying to make good choices in a cruel world that I could not fully understand. Today, I am still alive. Life is meaningful because I now have the courage to reach out to my brothers and sisters. The friendly people on DeviantArt have helped me too.
Feel free to discuss your pain, autistic brothers and sisters. Autistic group hug!

>>24478750
Brother you neec to get over this
You're autistic?
So am I
Big fucking deal
Lock in and live your damn life in whatever way you need in order to handle your struggles

>>24485579
>Brother you neec to get over this
I've suffered immensely in my life and other autistic men out there are suffering as well ... AND ... my experiences with the mainstream autism websites (like Wrong Planet and the autism subreddits) have taught me that those sites are full of Uncle Toms who will cause you more pain instead of helping you to make the pain go away.
Get over it? No.
>Lock in and live your damn life in whatever way you need in order to handle your struggles
So ... you are saying that I can't talk about what hurts? I can't talk about what is confusing? I can't talk about what feels humiliating? I'm trying to reach out, because I want to know if anyone else has suffered in the same way as I have suffered. Is that really so bad?
I have severe anxiety issues bro. My fingers look like shit because I've been biting them so much. I have difficulty mimicking a normal facial expression and my mother always talks about this. I've been to therapy and I've been on medication and I'm still trapped in a vicious cycle of stress and humiliation. I'm trying to reach out to my autistic brothers and sisters because my gut instinct tells me that this might finally make my inner pain go away.

>>24485695
I'm not saying you should just ignore your problems or that you need to keep them bottled up
I'm saying that the way you're going about this is not helping you
You'te just reliving your pain over and over and looking around for people to help you feel like this is normal and okay
It doesn't matter if it's normal, and it's not helping you so it's not okay
You need to focus on doing what makes things better for you, not this nonsense

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>>24485579
Also, I know from experience that the anti-autistic hate in society can sometimes pit autistic boys against one another like a monkey knife fight. When I was a teenager, there were a few instances when I was cruel towards other autistic boys due to my own hatred of myself. This is the most sickening thing that comes out of the normie-controlled social/political/economic system that we live in. Autistic boys are pressured to bully one another.
No I will not stop talking about the horrors that I experienced back when I was a kid and I was trying my hardest to transform myself into an extroverted normie. No I will not stop talking about how bad things are. No I will not stop talking about the beauty of autistic men and women.

>>24485821
You are ignoring me and using what you misunderstood about me as an excuse to keep ranting on about something that you want to get off your chest when it doesn't actually have anything to do with what I'm telling you

>>24485801
>You need to focus on doing what makes things better for you, not this nonsense
I try to do this. Sometimes the memories "erupt up" though. Plus, other autistic boys might be out there suffering just as I used to suffer.
Also, back in 2024 there was this one time when I was talking to this autistic boy who was 17 at the time. He said to me "One time I revealed that I was autistic to some other people and then they beat me up with baseball bats."
Shit is still awful. Autistic brotherhood/sisterhood is the solution I think.

>>24485835
>brotherhood
I refuse to be lumped into a collectivist mindset

>>24485981
I'm not trying to be a cult leader mac.
What's next? Are you going to argue that it's "collectivist" when black men call each other "brother"? What about when feminists call each other "sister"? Is that somehow dystopian?
Autistic men are also a social group that is hated unfairly by mainstream society. I'm just saying that we should operate just as any other progressive social movement operates.
Why are you against me using the same tactics that the Civil Rights Movement uses?

Also, I made this thread because this whole site is full of depressed and suicidal men who have given up on love even though love is a beautiful thing.
One of the happiest moments in my whole life was when I was 23. Me and my then-girlfriend went to the theater and watched Inside Out (the first one) together. We sat next to one another and I put my arm around her during the sad parts.
I'm autistic but she was autistic also, which might be why she accepted me.
Dating autistic women works brothers! It might not last forever but the happy memories last forever! That makes it all worth it!

Basically, what I do on this board is I talk about the agony of being autistic (because the agony is real) but I also talk about the beauty which makes life worth living despite the horrors.
For example, back when I was 18, me and my friend Chris used to watch episodes of Sonic X together. That was great. We were friends and friends do stuff like that together.
>In b4 "LOL You are a typical autistic Sonic fan!"
Well ... Chris was the one who was a Sonic fan. I mostly just watched the show with him to enjoy his company. I've never been a big Sonic fan but I try to be respectful if the Sonic fandom, since so many of them are autistic men.
I miss Chris so much guys. ;_;

>>24486087
Who the fuck said anything about a cult
>Why are you against me using the same tactics that the Civil Rights Movement uses?
You know where that got us

>>24486811
>You know where that got us
So ... you're a conservative? Is that it?
Whatever dude. Conservatism is for normies. Also, black people can be autistic too.
I get that leftism (in its current form) doesn't care about autistic men enough but right-wing politics is not the solution. The real solution is to put pressure on the left until the left aknowledges our suffering.
Right-wing politics can never be good for autistic people because right-wingers want to bring back to "good old days" ... back when autistic people were lobotomized or locked up in asylums.
I also want to point out that conservatives are responsible for creating the "Autistic men are cringe fat neckbeard atheists with fedora hats!" stereotype.
>In b4 "Some autistic people are conservative!"
Yeah ... kinda like how some women are Islamists.

>>24486976
>Also, black people can be autistic too.
So you think I'm just a racist
>Right-wing politics can never be good for autistic people because right-wingers want to bring back to "good old days" ... back when autistic people were lobotomized or locked up in asylums
Alright, you no longer have the right to be taken seriously on any political topic

>>24487050
>So you think I'm just a racist
Well ... your argument is basically "Autistic pride is bad because other minorities shouldn't be proud of who they are either."

>>24487170
That's not what I meant, but while we're at it, those minorities shouldn't be proud of who they are. What'd they do to be worthy of feeling proud? Be born into a smaller demographic? That's meaningless. Just like how everyone who wasn't has no reason to be proud of that either.
You have things in common with others, and that is fine to be happy with. But you are yourself, only yourself, and will only ever be yourself. Every single other person on the planet has something in common with me that not everyone else has. We are not pieces of some grand collective, we are individuals that are connected through a massive web of relations. I don't want to treat one relation like it's special when it isn't. I won't treat you as my brother just because you expect me to based on a particular trait we have in common. I will treat you as my brother when you prove yourself worthy of my trust and respect.

>>24486976
>Right-wing politics can never be good for autistic people because right-wingers want to bring back to "good old days" ... back when autistic people were lobotomized or locked up in asylums.
Don't forget that the Nazis euthanized people with autism and other conditions they considered "burdensome to society." These types of people will never really be your ally. They ultimately want a homogenous society and there's no room for non-neurotypicals in that. You may not be their immediate target but you will be eventually if they win.

>>24488677
You still think Nazis are right wing?

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>>24488661
>What'd they do to be worthy of feeling proud?
First of all, it's okay for anyone to be proud of who they are. Self-hatred leads to suicide.
Second, some racial minorities are autistic, just like me.
>We are not pieces of some grand collective
We are being tortured by the same system though.
I grew up surrounded by anti-autistic hate. I've felt the great torment. The flashbacks still haunt me.
Come on man. Haven't you been tortured because of your autism? If you haven't been tortured then this doesn't mean that the anti-autistic system doesn't exist. It just means that you are more of a house nigga as opposed to a field nigga like me. Don't trivialize my pain just because you are one of the lucky ones.
>I don't want to treat one relation like it's special when it isn't.
My autism is the main reason why I was subjected to torture when I was younger.
Anyways, now I think that I understand your stance. You are one of those "Identity politics is bad!" libertarian types. Well ... you might not see yourself as being part of the "autistic collective" but society will always see you as a part of the "autistic collective". You might as well embrace it like I do.

>>24488677
A+ brother.

>>24488726
>You still think Nazis are right wing?
Conservapedia user detected.

>>24489357
>lame thread
Don't judge an autistic man until you've experienced his pain mother fucker.

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>>24489747
I did experience the pain interacting with them lol

>>24489795
How's your weight doing

>>24489801
what kinda random question is that
that's not how you start a convo I'm still same weight I'll see if I'm gonna start gym soon cause it's summer

>>24489795
>"Normies are the real victims!"
No.

>>24489816
Show

>>24489886
Get a room you lovebirds. lol

>>24489868
I'm not a normie but autistic people are annoying to deal with and draining I don't like them same with mentally ill faggots
>>24489886
show what

>>24489976
>I'm not a normie
You definitely talk like one.
>same with mentally ill faggots
Aren't you the guy who pressured me to show my penis over and over in the Autistic Self-Defense Thread?
>show what
He wants to see your dicky.

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>>24490028
>You definitely talk like one.
Nuh uh I mean if that's what you think of me I guess
>Aren't you the guy who pressured me to show my penis over and over in the Autistic Self-Defense Thread?
buddy kys
>He wants to see your dicky.
no I'm doing that, that's haram I ain't showing my penis to anyone

>>24490064
Frieren my beloved

>>24490064
>buddy kys
Calm down man.
Penises are wonders of evolution. The purpose of a penis is to get women pregnant so that they can give birth and make milk. There's nothing wrong with seeing beauty in penises. Also, when I was 17 years old I learned from experience that homophobia can have nasty consequences. That was 2009. Homophobia has even nastier consequences these days. I get that you live in a homophobic country but homophobia is bad for your life if you are Canadian.
>no I'm doing that, that's haram I ain't showing my penis to anyone
Maybe he wants to see your body then. Like ... maybe he wants to see how hairy and muscular you are.