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if you ask someone a question and they answer with hostility/anger,
does your respect for them increase or decrease?
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It depends on what kind of question I asked.
If it was a "fun" question or an intentional bait question, then I might feel like if I got somebody angry at them, they're just acting like I would've expected them to.
If it was a sincere question, then it would depend not so much on the feeling expressed, but rather on how they respond towards my question.
If it's a direct response, addressing the issue I brought up, and pointing out why they feel differently from the way I do, or why they think what I asked relies on a flawed set of premises or is ill-framed, or otherwise does not actually ask something they believe they can answer in a fair way, then my respect may remain the same or even increase.
If they flat out refuse to engage with the main question, and either attack the subject-matter or me directly, then I might feel like they are not demonstrating anything that would make me respect them more.
If it were a persistent behavior or pattern, or if I felt as though the person were very deliberately trying to target me or outright try to attack the subject-matter without even engaging in tne question that I made, then I would probably believe that my time would probaly be better spent elsewhere.
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Oh yeah, by the way, are you the Leaf who often talks about Beauty and the Beast and other Disney Renaissance animated films?
If you are, I've wanted to say that you honestly sound like a good fellow, but I think being here takes more of a toll on you than what you get back from being here.
If I were you, I'd just take a break for a few days every now and then, watch old funny movies or something, and come back when you feel free from stress.
I probably don't have to say this, but stress builds up. It affects people in many ways: mood, sleep cycles, eating, and eventually your skin and your body chemicals.
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>>24578673


The Great Mouse Detective is when Disney got good again, not Beauty and the Beast, but I'd say The Fox and the Hound would have been when Disney got good again if it weren't for The Black Cauldron being the worst Disney movie

The Rescuers and The Black Cauldron are the only throwaways because The Aristocats, Robin Hood, and Winnie the Pooh & Tigger Too aren't
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>>24578605
Probably decrease.
I made jokes about a guy's sister on a boat to him and he laughed it off. Said later she's dead when I took it a bit too far. Didn't make me feel bad. Just corrected me. Made me a bit of a better person.
That is what tough and good sounds like. He worked hard, so did I.
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>>24578605
normally that means you've challenged some sort of core belief and they dont like that which is a very normal reaction for most people who are not self aware or enlightened
its fine with me as long as they arent directly attacking me but even then sometimes they do and its up to me to not take that same tone
even on 4chan
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>>24578605
Depends if they respond with a pure heart or dirty pilpul and narcissism
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>>24578651
>>24578673

didn't ask



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