Did any one of you manage to go from a virgin to someone in a good relationship as an adult.
>>25055944Church ig? You can't meet women in a mosque so we are kinda fucked over here
>>25055944Make friends.Feel like I'm talking to a child or a retard.
>>25055946Okay, how to make friends?
Theatre/dance course
>>25055946I had childhood friends but not in touch with them now and my engineering class is also full of virgins.
>>25055946>just go to the friend place and get friends
>>25055944Dont look for a relationship. Look for a wife.
>>25055947They're going to tell you something stupid that they have never done and would never do, like a board game club, salsa dancing classes, or "volunteering." The real answer is make a time machine, go back to high school and college, and hang onto those friends for dear life. That's what they did. They still hang out with their high school friends.
>>25055944Well I can give you this much advice.You can't rape a prostitute into friendship, then marriage.Speaking for a friend.My first love is still in prison for robbing a WW2 vet at gunpoint.
>>25055944Why the fuck so many of you feel compelled to treat this site like your private diary and or personal support group?nigga we are not your friends and this aint your personal blog
Normies never tell you this directly but the way you get a gf is by befriending lots of people, and eventually you will be at some event where a mutual female friend of someone will fall for you I’ve heard of people soloing it with dating apps or cold approaches but those sound like grim mode if you’re already not that extroverted
>>25055952People make friends in adulthood through work. People don't stay friends with high school friends. I hardly know anyone like that
>>25055944You don't. The way you get laid as an average looking guy is by having friends that have single women friends.
>>25055946I hate each and every one of you motherfuckers though
>germanyIn america people were losing their virginity at 17, getting girls teen pregnant and married in the 70sBoomers on their second marriage in the 90s freaked out, they didn't want their daughter from their second marriagegetting preggo so the anti-teen pregnancy craze hit millennials like a truck.So you ended up with now-45yo women on SSRIS and birth control and men who were told to just 'man up'. The ones who did are losers.
In order of success rateAirport hotel bars Book storesCoffee shopsMalls
>>25055944Join groups aligned to your interests, bathe, get your hair cut, put an effort into the clothes you wear and go to the gym to lift 3-4 times a week. Talk to them like any other person. You'll hit it off with some, others you won't. Stop putting the foids on a pedestal and sperging out - they're just people. Put even the slightest amount of effort into cultivating an offline personality and your appearance and it's really not hard. You autists probably know all of this already because it's not that difficult to understand.
>>25055944Stay away from women they are awful and will ruin your life.
>>25055956hence why you are posting on an incel board
>>25055952ThisI was locked out of social life in my youth due to my appearance and voice, the most I had were conditional "friends" with whom I could only have limited interaction. Some of the most common shit I would hear from them at that time was "move to a different city". Even though moving to a different city doesn't magically give you a starter package of friends and somehow those people never had to move anywhere to have a party rich social life.
>>25055944Over 50% of relationships start online now, then meet in school, then through friends with almost no one meeting randomly at bars or whatever anymore. Since you dont have friends and obviously aren’t still in school, your only option is online. Your dating app profile needs to have a picture of you with your abs showing in an appropriate location like the beach, a picture of you with a giy or two that you are taller and hotter than, a couple of pictures of you in instagram travel hotspots like japan or paris, and a couple of thirst traps like dogs or sleeves rolled up. Your bio should say something like you are looking for someone special to travel and try restaurants with. Then you have to match with several thousand women to find a few dozen that want to go out on a date, which will turn into one actually wanting to be your gf. Its as simple as that
>>25055955Dude, everyone in this country is a socially anxious and maladapted spaz, young and old, and that’s why SSRI’s are at the level they are
>>25055947Make money. Everyone will suddenly be your friend. Until money runs out.
>>25055961>Join groups aligned to your interestsLike what? From sports i only like MMA, I doubt I'll meet women there.
>>25055952thisthere is a hack, thoughmove into a different citybetter yet, move into a completely different countrysuddenly you have an excuse for not having friends (people are otherwise extremely suspicious of people without friends)and people will be eager to show you around and invite you to stuff
>>25055965You need to be good looking for online dating, being average doesn't cut it.
>>25055947Try a hobby, nigger.Like literally pick any activity done in group by the multiple social groups in your area.There are sport groups, there are reading groups, there are cooking groups, pet groups, etc.Pick one and try to have first and foremost
>>25055969Making friends in a different country is not an easy task, cultural differences play a role. You are right about the suspicious part though, it won't look strange.
My first wife was a girl I knew from high school. Was a kissless virgin fag at 27 when I started dating her. Just started chatting with her on fb. My second wife I met on an internet dating site. Don't use q young people hookup dating site. Use one you have to pay a monthly fee.
>>25055944Prostitutes
>>25055970You dont need to be above average in terms of facial handsomeness to get dates online, or even above average height or wealth but you can’t be fat and have to learn how to play the game. The best way is to find a shorter and uglier guy than you and get pictures with him so girls think you are taller and hotter than you are
>>25055944Try to get a job where a lot of young women work
>>25055968are you small?my friend does BJJ and he's kinda a small guy, he gets paired up with the new girls sometimes to show them the ropeshe ends up rolling around getting sweaty with girls in tight spandex for an hour but never pulls a number because he's too much of a spaz to talk after class
>>25055969Lol I did mention that. Maaaybe the "different country" shit works when you're young in a college setting, but either way it would be incredibly humiliating to shell out a shitton of money and put so much energy just to get a fraction of what normies get for free. It's like when I was locked out of even buying fucking weed in my youth with all my "friends" refusing to give me the appropriate contacts and directing me to either go to a shady corner and risk getting stabbed, robbed or busted in a police sting, or to go to Czechia or the Netherlands while they do what they please.
>>25055944the odds are against you. most women will have vastly more experience than you (and most other men, don't get me wrong) and likely won't want to "show you the ropes". this and many other reasons is why allowing women to do whatever they want is bad. biology and preference can't be beaten with laws and words.
>>25055947> how to make friendsMaybe Stop being an insufferable giant faggot?
Same question.Modern women don't want average or mid income. They want hot and rich.t. 30 year old virgin.
>>25055952/threadA bunch of Millennials, Boomers, and GenX n niggers stuck in 1980 and totally out of touch with reality will come along and explain that life is just like The Sims game. They think you can simply walk into a bar (they talk about bars; they are stereotypical) at 20 30 as a total stranger and strike up a conversation with a group of strangers, just like that, like back on the playground when you were 8. To them, it’s that simple: the "just go outside, bro" meme.You summed it up perfectly: social circles are formed during your school years, not in the job market. For most people, the people at work you think are "friends" are just colleagues. If they have your number saved, the company name is likely listed next to it; once your respective contracts end, you’ll naturally drift apart. You aren't and never were friends; you were just colleagues who happened to share the same space every day. The same applies to any shared environment in adulthood (adulthood = over, except for women). And obviously, no social life means no women. Add to that the glass ceilings like being a virgin at an older age, being short, homebody, 0 social life, no family, not to mention the fact that they’ve likely been with 500 000 guys before you anyway. It’s just over, OP. Move on. Go comfymaxxing, buy a 77 inch OLED TV and wait for Witcher 4, Cyberpunk 2 or something similar. Focus on your own comfort while waiting for death, because there’s nothing out there for you. This isn't about demoralizing you; it’s just the PURE reality. Normies will sell you false hope they are the ones demoralizing you, They’re the same people who tell you to "just travel,only to leave you to get heightpilled by TravelChad at airport and sitting alone in a hotel room like a cuck.
>>25055947Same question.After you finish high school, you are forever alone basically with no prospects ever to make any friends.This is especially worse for those who were made friends and were not the ones initiating first contact. So, they lack the friend making skill.
>>25055944A chateau.
>>25055952>>25055983These two people are right, once I lost those friends, I no longer can make anymore friends, everyone lives in their own circles or world.>>25055971Check my flag nigger, groups like those don't exist where I live, only sports group and each got their own circle made from hs>>25055980Maybe but otherwise, I wouldn't be here with you
>>25055944Become rich and wait for slavic Gold Diggers to spawn out of thin air.
>>25055982It’s actually a structural issue, but normies want you to believe your lack of a social life is down to your personality, like that 1m95 Chad telling you it’s your personality that’s the reason you don’t have a woman. In reality, a Chad is a Chad thanks to genetics, and the normies talking about personality while having a social life are usually incredibly bland; they simply managed to maintain their social lives from school days onwards through a stroke of luck.
>>25055944>What's the best way to meet womenmoney, politically speaking
>>25055968No, but you'll meet people - people have sisters, friends, friends of girlfriends etc. And look beyond sports - music clubs, comedy clubs, political groups. Fuck I can't tell you how many foids I got involved with through university politics back in the day.
>>25055985Friendship happens by proximity there's no other way. Get a job, make sure you know the number and age of your colleagues before joining.Too young and they will exclude you from their circle.Too old and they'll be miserable X-ers who don't want to go out
>>25055944Forgetaboutit, don't waste your time...Evacuate in an orderly fashion...
>>25055944Become a Jehovah's witness
>>25055990I already work remotely
>>25055952I met all of my friends at work or playing team fortress 2
>>25055987If you look at the average text conversation of a normie couple, it's incredibly bland and boring. You don't get relationships through "people skills" like it's a dialogue tree in a cRPG, they just happen spontaneously. My family would often berate me that I'm "boring" meanwhile I've known guys in school and around with shittons of girls that had basically no personality, no interests and the fact that they had lots of girls was basically the only thing everyone knew about them.
Workplace for sure
>>25055987You can make friends at your job because of proximity...supposedly. I know people who supposedly did just that. Japancucks have already figured out this problem because the boss forces his employees to go out with him and drink after work.
Strip club, or in my case was from high school when I was still goofing around, go to uni dress better, make some jokes etc. just know to be entertaining and groom yourself >>25055954
>>25055944You kinda just lose interest at one point and being alone stops bothering you.
>>25055993That's retarded. The job market is shit and it's impossible to find jobs but you still have to pick between a lottery ticket to make friends at another job or work from home and be friendless forever.The older you are the harder it gets also staying alone erodes what little social skills you have left.
>>25055944Create something meaningful and become somebody they desire.No amount of social conditioning will make a girl want a loser, you have to become something they actually want.Example because of your pic related. George hernandez created epic: the musical. He now dates tayla sindel who looks a bit like your pic related and auditioned for the role of penelope, but got casted as circe. Working on the play together got them closer together.I'm not expecting you to write a musical, but again best advice is to either create or become something desirable.
>>25055944>as an average guy>with no friendsThe average person has friends anon, if you have none you are very far from average.Good luck.
>>25055999incel retard copeone day you'll be 50 realize you wasted your entire life and jump from a bridge (Bolojan will smile from heaven because that's one less pension paid)
>>25056003>incel retard cope
>>25056001shut up fuck up boomer
>>25055944if you want a woman you shouldnt spend hours on selfhelp nonsense or gym or even get money all of that can help but is relatively irrelevant and timewasting. To get women simply get a network get friends acquantinces play the gay and fake social game and expand and women will come. if you dont have a network and social capital its kind of over for you unless you find a timid niche introvert girl but rare and hard to do so. Funny x network x looks is the holy trinity of sex, everything else is a subdivision of one of the three
>>25056002yeah he's a social pariah and a maladjusted manchild who failed to launch4chan destroys brains people thing this absolute miserable lifestyle is the norm damn
>>25056002this. Even I with full on aspergers and neuroticism and kind of racist in public can muster to have atleast 4 situationships at any given time some evolve some fall apart but regardless you need to rotate
>>25055944become an atheist brother
>>25055944Go to someplace that you like.If you like reading, go to the library.If you like the park, go there.If you have a dog, go to a dog park.This is how you can meet people like you.If you're at the museum, and a girl talks to you, don't screw it up. Love at first sight is fake and gay, just talk and be friendly, even if she's a 5/10 don't hit on her, just befriend her. Having a friend, that is a girl, gives you a chance to learn. If 1 girl thinks that you are an ok guy, then other girls will trust her judgement. Once you are "approved" by one girl, it spreads through the girl-hive, that you are a good guy. Soon you will have 2 or 3 friends that are girls. eventually one will like you more that the others. resist. it's a test.don't screw up. just be friends, get to know them. don't chase girls, make them chase you. you can't get a girlfriend if you don't have girl friends.
>>25055944Look kid. You’re just gonna have to buy a 2004 E-350, a balaclava, and an air mattress. This is the only solution. Trying to play the social game isn’t your thing and it isn’t gonna work. You have police incompetence and abysmal rape clear rates on your side! Godspeed, anon.
>>25055995"personality" to women just means how hot you are
>>25056007>Get job with IDF straight out of Harvard>Bomb some kids from air conditioned Las Vegas kike farm>Use "experience" to get a job at any company in any field>Get your banker father to buy you a shiksa>She screws around, but you don't care because you unleash your evil Jewish tension up some 12 year old goy-boy rectum>Cap off kikebender day by shitposting on kike-kontrolled websiteGo to Tel Aviv. It's safe there now, right?
>>25055944Post a job advert for a waitress, beauty therapist, secretary etc. Arrange for somewhere to hold interviews, here in the UK you can get access to offices at the job centre. Then just hit on all the attractive bitches who show up.Me and a mate used to do this all the time, we had an actual business (a bar), but there were no jobs. We banged a ton of stupid slags desperate for a job and who thought they were going to get to the front of the queue by tonguing the bosses sweaty arsehole. We tag teamed some, others we got to fuck other bitches for our pleasure. Fun times.
>>25055944Met my gf of 3 years at work. Be very careful because I tried to with another girl.before her at the same place and almost got fired for it. I was 10 years dry at that point and was getting lonely. I will say something happened with tinder/dating apps cuz I was at least able to match and go on dates before 2020
>>25055944Thats a jewess in the OP anon
>>25055944>What's the best way to meet women as an average guy with no friends? brothel
>>25055944so many brown and tranny virgins on here it's unbelievable, even the ugliest white guy doesn't have these problems
>>25056018I don't want a brown girlfriend
>>25055949STEM is not good. But it's not the end of the world. STEM programs produce cubicle workers. STEM intentionally avoids Arts, Humanities... literally anything that girls might be interest in. YOU have to learn something that Girls like, pronto. Girls aren't into that shit. (I'm a scientist, but I'm also an artist)
>>25056019you are brown and you would take a dead nigger girlfriend if you could, but even she would reject you
>>25055954glowies are scared shitless of poltards fucking on the board
>>25055944First become extremely wealthy
>>25056020he needs to move to another class while he's still young and talk to women, once you hit 30 as a recluse suicide is the only way out
>>25056000It's kinda stupid to rely on work to find friends, those same "friends" would betray you at the drop of a hat to get a promotion, this is precisely why I work remotely and the work isn't even based here, I would prefer to make friends purely for the sake of friendship which the modern world, esp ours kinda lacks
Some women do like engineers. pic related
Don't tell everyone that the holocaust never happened lol. I did this back in 2011. I still kept a lot of friends but..people talk.
>>25056020Man I wish I realized this before joining the physics major. I ended up switching to chemistry. There are more girls even in that one. Plus the unemployment for physics majors is pretty insane. No one needs ya.
>>25055955Get a mail wife from Mali
