I’ve been married for ten years. I’m 40, she’s 36. We have two kids. Sexual issues started a long time ago infrequent sex, a lack of desire on her part, and a total lack of initiative. I kept trying to resolve the problem somehow, to reignite the spark. But recently, during another frank conversation (I’d clearly pestered her about it one too many times), she admitted she never really felt much desire for me. It was only occasional at first, and then it vanished completely.Looking back, I realize how blind and foolish I was. But the past can’t be changed. What’s done is done. When asked why she agreed to marry me in the first place, she says it’s because I’m handy around the house, kind, treat her well, and love and look after the kids.I’ve completely given up; I’ve lost the motivation to do anything. After all, no matter how you slice it, sex is one of the main driving forces for a man. The realization that my own wife doesn't want me is killing me.But about a month ago, I stumbled upon 4chan specifically the /pol/ board. My life has changed completely there’s still no sex, sure. But now I don’t need it. I post rants about "fucking jews," hurl insults at random hohols, nafoniggers and followers of western cargo-cultism who wander in, and share my oh-so-important opinions on the current political situation.Thank you, 4chan.
0/10 no tail
>>25075540She's got a dick, that's almost a tail.
>>25075541Based
>>25075539see a doctor ivanyou have low testosterone and low thyroid
>>25075539I've rejected so many marriage proposals because of this. I can see it in their eyes that they see me as the safe and kind option. What hurts is they are not wrong.
>>25075539just fuck hookers like a normal person instead of posting your life story here.
>>25075539If she didn't ask you yet to join SMO, it isn't so bad, russkibro
>>25075539try cuckolding. it helps a lot for some couples.
>>25075546I finished my contract in 2024, killed some piggers and mercs already. Was thinking about signing it again, but my "lovely" wife didnt let me
>>25075539You're fat and your dick is small. I've been with my wife for six years and we fuck until she hurts and even then some.
>>25075539Just have her take low doses of testosterone. Slip it into her drinks or food if you have to.
>>25075539you have to make her jealous. make her think you're talking to or even fucking younger hotter women and she will regret saying that to you. she will do anything to keep you. women are not that complicated. their brain is smaller and less denser. its scientifically proven they are retarded
>>25075548>never was attracted to you>doesn't want to fuck you>doesn't want you to leave and/or die so she can get money and fuck someone else eithersomething doesn't check out in this story cumrade
>>25075539She’s fucking someone else. I used to tell that to my hog when I started pumping some side piece.
>>25075539kill yourself blogger
>>25075552I respect your wrong opinion anon>>25075553Doubt
>>25075555And I respect your creative writing skills
>>25075539being serious for a second even the chads I know have ended up in dead bedrooms. women's sexuality seems to be based on excitement and novelty, and even chad gets too familiar and too safe. women straight up don't desire mens bodies the same way we desire theirs.
>>25075539You are Russian. Just dowloand telegram call an a escort. Fkng retard boomer. Fuck off
>>25075544>They want you as the safe and kind optionAmazing.The indian sees this obvious and basic thing as something bad.No wonder these insects are so subhuman
>>25075558I want to do it with a person I love. Not with a dirty prostitute
>>25075552Also this.>>25075539Your wife seems to have the equivalent of erectile dysfunction.It's cruel to hold her lack of hormones against her.Fuck an escort, she clearly still loves and cares for you
>>25075560She clearly still loves you. She just probably has hormone issues.When women don't realize they have hormone issues, they convince themselves that they were always like this. She is clearly wrong about never being sexually attracted to you.Because of she wasn't, she'd be disgusted by you and you'd notice as there's no in-between with women, they either like you or find you abhorrent.And when women are disgusted by their husband, they cheat
>>25075539kick her out and keep the kids
>>25075539Let me guess: you put it in (misionary), you fuck until you think she orgasms, you nut yourself?if the answer is yes you are doing it wrong, but after 10 years of marriage I don't think you would learn, so I won't bother explaining.
>>25075561Part of it is also probably that she is feeling old post wall and unsexy. Women get a lot of their sexual feelings from feeling desired or attractive in general not just by their partner. As they age they realize they are an old person stuck with another ugly old person and that is an internal ick.
>>25075539tl;dr didnt read kaine
>>25075539>muh wife doesn't love meare you even mongol?your ancestors stole women on horseback and you're crying about unrequited desire.GAYEEEE
>>25075539you are a man, you should initiate.I came to conclusion I tned to be unhappy about my wife because I expect her to be like me and she just isn't. Holding her to my internal standards causes me to be miserable. Accept her as she is and cherrish what you like about her, overlook some stuff she does that upsets you because you are not perfect either. She is your companion for life and there are many things you can't control, only thing you can do is how you react to it. I don't mean you should accept everything, there are obvious lines she shouldn't cross and that's when you take your stand, but after 10 years together you can be petty about small things you won't change, it's better to just accept them.you can't give up on wife with whom you have your 2 kids. Also get fit, nothing makes women desire you more than interested looks from other women.
>>25075568>nothing makes women desire you more than interested looks from other women.this is the secret she will feel sexy if other people find you attractive op
>>25075539If you want to end it, agree with her and say you have no desire for her either and you were just being polite. Watch the meltdown
>I can't have sex because hoholsGo die in the smo, retard.
>>25075571This nigga cant read!
Raise your kids and then find a new partner. That's just the natural course of things. I'm on wife 2 and sex and relationship is much better, though we're closing in on ten years and things have certainly slowed down. It's tough on kids to not have an everyday father. Enjoy your jackoff sessions.
>>25075539it's all on you anon. you should have been fucking her until she couldn't walk properly right from the start.i've been with my missus 34 years April just gone and we still fuck 5 or 6 times a week, with friday night being "fuck night" and is usually a seven-ten hour marathon.its probably too late, but you could try lifting your test levels, improving your cardio and general fitness and working on sexually satisfying her. or get divorce raped and try again.or shitpost, whatever.
>>25075539Has she started/stopped hormonal birth control recently? They really mess with their minds, especially what they find attractive
>>25075574>still fuck 5 or 6 times a week, with friday night being "fuck night" and is usually a seven-ten hour marathonThe fuck you guys eat in Australia? I will fucking die if I try the same
>>25075551/thread
Get her a BHC for Christmas.
>>25075576Roo meat
>>25075539>that imageI don’t play video games too often anymore but I’m 99% sure that character is a man.What is happening is that your wife’s gaydar is triggered and she doesn’t want to have sex with a guy that wants dick.
>>25075539who cares what she wantsuse her as a fuck doll as often as you canbend her over the couchfuck her in the assafter the divorce you'll wish you at least fucked her in the ass
>>25075539pay her for sex. or perform services for her in exchange for sex. give her an incentive to want sex with you.Women are perfectly capable of using sex to get what they want.By making her have sex because she wants to, you're forcing her to lie to herself.
>>25075552it means she is wise and lazy her live is already set up, she have man-servant and secured future>>25075539lace her food /drink with something that will make her turbo horny and then force youself on her ( much to gain, not much to lose)
>>25075539>I’m handy around the house, kind, treat her well, and love and look after the kidsI wish I could entirely project such a self image upon myself.
https://t.me/sashakon/14172Is there a further source to this copypasta?
>>25075551This is all you need to do, OP
>>25075539Try beating her
>>25075539I don't understand you, in Russia you can get broomed any time you want or don't want.
>>25075585Dont ruin the fun
>>25075576red meat medium rare, vegetables and fruit. one gram of pure nac/day. work hard, fuck harder.always do the opposite of what jews say.be the man you deserve to be anon.
>>25075588Yes, RussiaNot Ukraine nafoid bro. Im good
>>25075544>I've rejected so many marriage proposalsSure jeet, the cow rejected you?
Why not sign a contract and go to the front lines?
>>25075593Scroll up and read the thread retard
Too many unknowns OP. Can't tell if you're a failure or a man or if she's got nuts. Different problems have different solutions.
>>25075592Stop lusting after cows monki-anon
>>25075594I hope a drone turns you into ground beef.
>>25075539I was in the opposite boat. In my 40's I'd dread having to perform for my wife. Doing it myself was a thousand times better. Sometimes I'd pretend to cum, kiss her good night, then wash off her stink, and finish for real downstairs on the computer.
>>25075539kek wtf
>>25075574> seven to ten hours in a row of fuckingThat's a lot lol
>>25075539fake, pidors don't have internet
>>25075539>married for 10 years>has children>no sex>"But about a month ago, I stumbled upon 4chan specifically the /pol/ board. My life has changed completely"These demoralization threads get weaker and weaker.
>>25075559>The indian sees this obvious and basic thing as something bad.You of all people should understand. Bengali women are known to be massive whores. They only look for the safe option because they've been ruined by some player before. >No wonder these insects are so subhumanShould've really typed that out with your memeflag on
>>25075597Im was FPV operator, shill retard. I killed mercs and losers like you by hundredsLeave the thread, dont waste my time
Let this be a lesson to the bachelor:If you start a relationship for sex as core,It will end when sex becomes scarce few. There needs to be a stronger glue:Love of Jesus Christ and His Church. So when you meet a believer in your search,Put each other second and God first,And you will find someone who will lastThrough sickness and health, for best and worst.
>>25075539Daily beatings 3x per day will cure her sexual issue, thanks me later brother
>>25075539>she admitted she never really felt much desire for me. It was only occasional at first, and then it vanished completely.Lucky you, OP, that's exactly how I feel about my wife. Sex has become a chore for me while she still desires it as much as ever.
>>25075596doesn't your family decide who you marry? rejecting tons of proposals must damage your family's reputation.
>>25075539not going to read all that but maybe you should stop being gay, real men build empires, at least kill other empire leaders or die trying these
>>25075551I hate this aspect of women. We really do live in a broken, fucked up reality. I remember me and my high school sweetheart used to fuck like rabbits, never got bored, never lost the spark. Of course that didn't last because we got separated and she's a nymphomaniac, but still
>>25075608We are modernising anon. Family can bring you prospects but no longer force you>rejecting tons of proposals must damage your family's reputation.I do it with tact. Plus it's not like the proposals were anything great. I'd rather just stay single and Jack off.
>>25075604Go back there then, you'll make better fertilizer than a husband lol!
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>>25075539I know what your problem is. No offense Ivan, but you're a typical KEK.
>>25075574>with friday night being "fuck night" and is usually a seven-ten hour marathon. That genuinely sounds boring as fuck. I get bored of sex after 15 minutes. How do you keep entertained for so long? Even in the middle of fucking I'm just thinking about completely unrelated things.
>>25075539I have a current gf that very much desires me or at least desires a lot of kink / femdom. She took initiative from start lol
>>25075539>We have two kids. Sexual issues started a long time ago infrequent sex, a lack of desire on her partit's normal to not want sex anymore when you are n't wanting to make more babies. sex is for making babies.> sex is one of the main driving forces for a mansexual energy is, shooting it out of your dick isn't. you are addicted to doapmine and programmed wrong. you should have sex if you want to make a baby. else there's literally no point. > The realization that my own wife doesn't want me is killing me.she made two kids with you that means she wanted you. bro maybe you should grow the fuck up. you are 40 years old and still think with your dick. you already completed the objective here. two kids. that's what sex is for. also i don't understand what you think is so amazing about it. I personally got bored of putting it in after the 100th time.I diverd my sexual energy towards God
>>25075598IKTF, fellow oldfag.
>>25075539Youre welcome nigga.
>>25075615>That genuinely sounds boring as fuck. I get bored of sex after 15 minutes.me too. sex is very boring. cant believe the majority of men are so obsessed with it. its like taking a bit of drugs really. but it feels good like maybe one or two minutes and then it's over. my wife wants sex more than me. that's great cause it makes me the leader and int control. I assert my dominance. we are making a baby.
>>25075539You could always try men faggot
>>25075613?
>>25075539you are welcome i guessalso since you fought do you happen to know someone who is willing to sell to west og wagner patch or cossack unit patch?
>>25075564enlighten us, wise one. >>25075565yeah, this is true. Maybe she was never attracted to you to begin with (>>25075552) but in that case she would've been cheating for awhile. >>25075551Some good examples I've heard of this:>guy goes to bar, bartender is younger and hotter and flirts with him a lot>brings wife one time>she's suddenly attracted to him again and protective because she realizes he has options and might leave>you should have been fucking her until she couldn't walk properly right from the start.This is good in my experience too. Just stop going to the gym and devote all that gym time to fucking your woman. Guys also let themselves go when they get married and become safer/less daring, which is a turn off to women. Treat it like you're always in the dating game and have to be at your best for two reasons:1.) she'll realize she might lose her provider to a younger+hotter woman so she'll try harder too2.) you'll be naturally more attractive to her (nobody likes a slob/drunk/boring guy)>>25075576I'm 40 and the last girl I was fuck-buddies with (22) we were fucking like this. It was honestly exhausting (usually 1 long day and 2-3 hours on normal days), but I love sex, I needed the exercise, and she does too so I just had to bang her out every day until she was satisfied. I told her one time I couldn't meet because I was just too tired and I could just tell she was itching for any cock and probably went out looking. I look at it like this: women are whores, they were built to be bred, which means constantly getting fucked. If you aren't doing it, someone else is. Women don't go without sex like men do. They'll go without boyfriends for long periods of time if they can't land a chad and don't yet need betabucks, but they're always getting fucked by somebody. Every married guy I've known who has complained about lack of sex was getting cheated on / got divorce raped later.
>>25075539>When asked why she agreed to marry me in the first place, she says it’s because I’m handy around the house, kind, treat her well, and love and look after the kids.If she is more honest, she will tell you that it's because of your money.
>>25075539>sex is one of the main driving forces for a manyou're 40 years old and just now managed to dispel that myth after discovering /pol/, a Senegalese-Lebanese lesbian incel forum?
>>25075539The purpose of sex is is procreation, if you've had your kids then you can retire. Chasing strange is a losing game for a ton of reasons. Leaving your wife is hard times. I'd think if she was ever going to come around, ignoring her about sex might eventually bring her to you. You can always do the needful (as the jeets say) and wash and rinse. Sex shouldn't be the main driver when you're north of 40 and making so is dumb
>>25075624>I've only fucked whores>All women are whoresRiveting insight
Isn't it legal to rape your wife in Russia?
>>25075539>she admitted she never really felt much desire for me>>25075539>I’m handy around the house, kind, treat her well,you are not her first choice, and never will be.Or, just take the sex, never mind what she says
>>25075539just pull her pants down and fuck her. she's your eife, you are literally legally entitled to it
Either leave her, or fuck other bitches and be open about it. take care of your kids. Life is too short and too fucked to feel undesired. If you're not the best you can be: go to the gym for a while. Do a bit of roids if you got weak genes at 40. And just chill out. You have kids, focus on making some money and doing you. if she doesn't give you sex, she's not entitled to your exclusivity.
>>25075539She probably feels she has everything she needs from you without having to put forward any effort, you should act happy and disappear every now and then whilst wearing good clothes, she will get jealous thinking you are fucking someone else and it might spark something in her to make a move.
>>25075633This mentallity of appeasing your wife is wrong to begin with. Your wife should be the one to try to appease you, not the other way around.
>>25075539You're an idiot.
>>25075539>words words words>reddit spaces>my wife is getting railed elsewhereNot your blog site faggot.sage
>>25075559>>25075544It is something bad when people see you as someone to manipulate and someone to be settled for. That guy is smart not to be someone's plan b.
>>25075569no she won't she'll just feel threatened and anxious that she's about to lose her spot to someone else, especially if it is someone younger
>>25075539Damn anon that fucking sucks. Unironically how do you cope? Are you gonna get a divorce or will end financially rape you?
>>25075539>I’ve completely given up; I’ve lost the motivation to do anything. After all, no matter how you slice it, sex is one of the main driving forces for a man.I have the total opposite problem, wife never rejects incoming advances (unless for good reason, which never bothers me), offers affection, which is great howeverShe has the emotional intelligence and maturity of a child. Im not being mean here, i'm being clinical - she literally has the executive function of a child. She is simply not equipped with the requisite hardware required to engage with a vast form of emotions or any conversations beyond shit that pisses her off.Atleast you can actually have an adult conversation with her - my wife is so childish i'm getting the ick sleeping with her because it just feels straight up wrong sometimes you know.Anyways, you've been lying to yourself, and you deserve better than that anon. I'd sit her down and make it very clear - if your desires are not met, you will not met her desires. It's called reciprocation, and remind her that if she chooses to act like a cunt about it, it is the children who will suffer mostNot that she will give a shit, but at least you can say I told you so
>>25075574your missus is an asian and you both eat way too much fuckin garlic and ginger
>>25075539BETA BUCKS
