and even if i wasn't, im too socially retarded to deserve genuine love
>>25165943Even most normies don't get love they get a bitter relationship with something they used to call a wife then pretend they love each other for decades while growing bitter and old
>normies
>>25165943why do you think you're unlovablelike what makes you such a terrible person that no one would find interest?>>25165948they can fake it for a bit and claim they 'had love' or something like thatwhich they get to hold on toIM NOT CRYING YOU'RE CRYING
Same tbqhI feel unlovable, but some people seem to love meBut I know that it won’t lastI’ve kinda given up, then
>>25165984I've literally never attracted a girl in my life (Cause im talking about mostly romantical love). Better my looks ? Failure. Better my speech ? Failure. Better my hobbies ? Failure. Try to please people ? Failure. Always stand for what i want ? Failure. Just LOOK competant ? Failure.I don't have anything attractive to my name, and even when i just need to act normal and do a simple social task i end up choosing the worst possible option and sabotaging myself. That's probably why i've been rejected by every single one of my 15 crushes that i asked out throughout my life.I don't think that my friends really like me either, i see how they look at me and talk behind my back. I just always look weird and out of place compared to everyone else. I probably wouldn't be able to stand myself either if i was somebody else. However it's either that or im just a literal shadow that just stands around without saying or doing anything.Im just annoyed with myself for not being able to call it quits and finally give up. My brain starts doing some weird reaction where my whole perception feels kind of vague and foggy and my emotions become dulled out so i genuinely can't even stop the cycle without my brain fucking up.
>>25165984>like what makes you such a terrible person that no one would find interest?he is french
>>25166155I hate how much sense this makes
>>25166112sorry to hear you're going through this anoni've struggled with all that too and im currently alone rn and dont even have friends because....well...people are tough>Im just annoyed with myself for not being able to call it quits and finally give upthis is what i finally had to do and doing that really helped and when you stop looking you end up fiinding someoneeven though im alone now, its how it worked in the past>Try to please people ? Failurethis was a mistake i made for many years which was really hard to breakreally you gotta set your own path and goals outside of finding someone and set out to reach those goals and you'll likely find someone along the wayi know its easy to say and we have a gorillion distractions and ways to get demotivated but its really the biggest trick to giving yourself a chance at finding someonegood luck anon, im rooting for u
>>25165943i luv u<3
>>25168160>really you gotta set your own path and goals outside of finding someone and set out to reach those goals and you'll likely find someone along the wayAlready done that. Met a girl who stole my heart (Failure of course) now im just waiting to stop loving her so i can move on and focus on my projects again until someone comes aroundBut i guess it's the only option at this point, to try and repeat focusing on my own life and hoping that the gears of the univers turn right for me>im rooting for uBest of lucks to you too anon. I hope that special someone or just good people come your way
>>25165948normies have no soul so it doesnt matter
>>25169314sounds like you've got a reasonable head on your shoulders anon,thats greatdoesnt change that it hurts thoughthe saying goes: Time heals all woundsand its true, still doestn make it pleasant >>25169332not all of them but plenty do and lots of them mean well but they're just too well adjustedbeing a more damaged person changes our perspective quite a bit
