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So I went to a Halloween party. It is a rare occurrence for me. There was a girl that I have spoken to in briefly in the past but not super frequently in attendance. So, during the party she sat next to me for a sizeable portion of the time and made physical contact with me (leaning on me with her head, touching me with her hand briefly while laughing). We were chatting lots and she even laughed at stupid jokes. She shared cigarettes with me and drinks. The thing is, I know that she has a boyfriend that she has had for a number of years. She also lives with him apparently. This is just confusing to my brain. Is she simply outgoing and very social?
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She's a tranny she's trying to make you troon out
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>>25268044
She thinks you are gay.
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>>25268046
This is what I feared.
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>>25268044
She sounds like a slut to me, boss.
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>>25268044
Women "monkey bar" to new partners. They never leave their man until a new one is secured.
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>>25268044
was the laughter genuine? i can always tell if a woman is coming on to me because it won't be fake laughter it'll be completely genuine like she can't contain herself even if i say stupid shit. if my gf was going that with another bloke she'd be kicked to the kerb.

what about eye contact? was she eyefucking you? was she peering into your soul almost? if so then you probably could've escalated it and who knows where it would've went.

t. knower
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>>25268049
Ask her if she is still with (boyfriend), she will immediately say "no" or make up something abusive he does and she needs a safe place to run (You).
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>>25268046
>>25268048
>>25268049
All of these are possible. Best thing to do is try and fuck her, if she says yes, bang her thsn immediately tell her BF. Youll save him from a terrible marriage
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>>25268044
I'm happy for you

or sorry that happened
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>>25268044
Just ask her if she's still living with her bf, done.
I swear the autism in this board
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>>25268052
I overheard my sister when she was talking to my mother about leaving her husband, she said "I have had it with him, I am going to get on dating apps". It's their standard operating procedure to replace a man,
It's not: fight, breakup, be sad, find new guy. As we were told on television.
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>>25268055
what a whore, she'd be doing him a favour.
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>>25268049
Nah, women are exceedingly loyal creatures far more so than men at least while she loves you, however the female reality is there is always men around her waiting to move into your spot. Men are pathetic, every congregation of women involves them introducing a bunch of men from random far away places to each other because men just stick to women like deer nuts. Have you ever seen the nuptial flight of ants in the spring with the queens walking around carrying 6 thrusting males on her legs and back, that’s sort of how I always saw the dynamic between women and men too.
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>>25268050
I have no idea man. She was making lots of eye contact, though I did not return most of it.

>>25268051
She lives with him. She made comments about going back home to him.

>>25268053
Arigatou

>>25268054
She is still living with her boyfriend. I am just an autistic retard and don't know how to interpret these social signals. If she is just being friendly with me I don't want to be a weird retard and to mess things up since I do enjoy talking to her.
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>>25268049
This is the most important truth of life that every man needs to know.
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>>25268049
>>25268059
Perhaps. Though in this case I am surely a major downgrade. I am an unemployed autist. There is no way she "monkey branching" to me to gain some sort of survival advantage. I think I have my answer.
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>>25268060
You were an experience she was trying to have then. Women do not lay their head on you for no reason.
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>>25268049
>>25268046
Best responses in this thread
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if a woman says “you’re so funny!” and runs her hand down your arm, she wants to fuck.
if a woman sits next to you at a party and starts drinking with you, she wants to fuck.
and she wants to fuck there and then. she wants you to flirt her up, get her buzzed, and take her in the next room and bend her over. she does not want you to try again a few days later. she does not want you to dm her today. you missed your chance. well done dumbass.
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>>25268063
I think this is a vast oversimplification. However even if you are correct I am a virgin so I would not have know what to do anyway.
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>>25268063
this. she wanted to go home dicked down. OP didnt even try to bat
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>>25268065
>>25268063
Okay then, In such a situation what would you guys have done? Imagine you are sitting outside in the garden by a fireplace. What next? What do you say? Where do you go?
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>>25268066
keep her laughing and prompt her to start talking about herself. these things happen based on cues in the moment. it cant be explained here
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>>25268066
I think you place too much importance to the events which have transpired.

Maybe she wanted dick, maybe she didn't. Maybe there's trouble at home, maybe there isn't. Maybe she's just a horny when drunk.

It don't matter.
You know how I know it don't matter?

Because nothing happened as the result of what you described, and unless you're close to her it probably won't happen again. This was a one time chance to act, and you didn't. Now, YES, you could have escalated that situation to sex. But you didn't, and you probably can't in future situations because you're inexperienced autist, who can't build the necessary set of correct moves to pull that off by anything else than random chance.

It is a different discussion as what would happen if you were to fuck her. But you don't need to worry about it.



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