>“I’m 28, and I’ve been dating my boyfriend, who’s 38, for about a month. I recently went through aggressive cancer treatment. I’m in remission now … Still, I lost my hair and have a lot of residual health issues. He’s more understanding about them than I ever could have imagined. Also, he’s sweet, funny, affectionate, and very into me,” a reader writes. “But there are some things I can’t stop thinking about. I’ve come to the extremely ugly realization that, while I love my boyfriend, I want to marry someone richer.” >In this week’s #GoingThroughIt column, Amy Rose Spiegel responds to someone who recently went through cancer treatment and wonders if she should keep dating her new boyfriend, whose financial situation doesn't make her feel secure and whose lifestyle isn't close enough to the one she envisions for herself. Read her advice: nymag.visitlink.me/mTDhVpBros, are you going to be rich enough to support your girlfriend going through medical crises? Do you have the economic means to cover the needs of the average woman in 2026 and beyond? If you can’t step up, Chad will.
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>>25320366Why is she black?
>>25320366what was (((spiegel's))) advice?
>>25320366Uppity sick nigger doesnt understand shes a 1/10 festy cancer timebomb
>>25320366I wish the cancer killed her
>>25320366Has cancer treatment.50/50 survival rateWants money.>Probably isn't paying the medical bills in the USA. She's lucky anyone is investing five minutes into her. I wouldn't date a cancer patient. Different story if they're your wife for a while. Dues were paid.
>>25320366>If you can’t step up, Chad will.Chad will absolutely not, Chad treats these roastoids like subhumans and they worship him for it
>>25320366Faggoty anti-women thread. Just fuck men in the ass if you hate women enough to obsessively track these pathetic one-off stories and anecdotes down you fucking queer.
I have land, a loving family, a nice truck, money, provided a comfortable life with potential for growth.. and she left me for a soulsfag she met on discord.I think the average modern American woman is just a retard and I am never going to try again. Wasted 12 years just to divorce at 28yo
>>25320369After the trauma she has went through, she has the right to want what she wants and follow her heart. Just because someone was with you through cancer, does not mean that you must now be slavish to them indefinitely. People are allowed to have standards and preferences.
>>25320366>my bf has all these amazing qualities and he's loving and loyal, even helping me through cancer>I love him>but I want to dump him for the sake of selfish shallow desires Ok so you clearly don't love the bf. Why even bother with the boyfriend fluff piece preamble?
>>25320376>People are allowed to have standards and preferences.No, just women are, apparently.
>>25320375>nice truckI’m gonna bet you are terrible to be around
>>25320374How many cancer treatments for a woman have you paid for?
>>25320376bro is dodging a bullet
>>25320379Why do people not like trucks anymore it’s a fucking useful vehicle to have. Ive never even done anything to it I don’t even fuck it’s muffler.Is that why you left???
>>25320376I want a cute tiny virgin 20 year old who will bear me 10 kids and will be okay with me having 10 more wives, those are my preferences.
People replying to foidslop threads are the real problem
>>25320383You may have two (2) more. Don’t be greedy
>>25320383After the trauma you have been through, you have the right to want what you want and follow your heart.
>>25320366dying woman imagines she is a disney princess. every 40yo cat lady wine aunt ever. even the cancers.
>>25320366Hey /pol/ anons,Not the usual post here, but I need some advice on a unique predicament. For many years now, I've been an avid follower of a remarkable YouTuber called Pan Piano (see picture). Her music isn't just enthralling, it's become a lifeline for me. Became a paying member years ago and have even invested around $110 in her Patreon. Heavy investment? Sure, but it's hard to quantify the value of what I've received in return.My situation's a bit more complex than it seems, though. You see, I've weathered some mental health storms throughout my 34 years, including severe autism and debilitating social anxiety. The mainstream world has often felt more like a minefield than a meadow, but her music – it’s honestly been my assemblance of peace and therapy.Feeling a connection with Pan Piano more profound than any I've felt before, I now want to make an attempt - difficult as it might be - to ask her out on a date. However, given the delicate state of my social skills and her public presence, I’m on unsure footing. How does one approach asking someone so admired, yet seemingly distant, out on a date? Is it unrealistic, or do I have a shot?Moreover, does my significant investment in her content and our shared passion for music offer any form of advantage, or does it complicate matters? Mostly, I don’t want my support to be mistaken for a sly manipulation.Would greatly appreciate any and all advice, tactful wordings, strategies, or relatable experiences. Thanks in advance, /pol/. What are the political implications of para-social relationships and online dating?Anon out.
>>25320382you present yourself as a truck owner, it means that this truck occupies a big part of your life therefore we can conclude that you have a small penis and that you are boring as fuck
>>25320375I envy you for cutting loose your losses.
>>25320389I like when I take girls out in my big truck and bust them up with my big cock.
>>25320375>soulsfagDid he beat Sekiro hitless or something
>>25320388practice on ten girls first. the best move is to just introduce yourself and tell the truth. my name is anon and ive been an ardent admirer of your art for many years and Ive become in love with your work. Could we get a boba and talk for an hour? Be prepared for a let down. Meeting your object of imaginary [ed. mental] fixation in real life tends to be underwhelming. Reality is even Shatner is shorter than he appeared in Star Trek, for example.
I love big pickup trucks but I'll never own one again because people constantly want favors
>>25320366what a disgusting person, more poison for the female mind>Spiegel of course
>>25320366I hope he reads this so when she croaks he doesn't grieve unnecessarily.
>>25320369She waffles a bit but it mostly comes down to "its been a month but if you feel worried about money, throw 10 bucks in your 401k and go back to living your life". Spiegel spends more time explaining how difficult life can be for a person undergoing cancer treatment and how that can color every aspect of your life.
>>2532036699% of these columns are made up by the way. Like nobody actually writes these love column people anymore so they just go to reddit, steal some confessions, and pretend someone wrote them a letter. The reddit confessions themselves are usually just clickbait.
>>25320383Same but with milfs
>>25320388Girls don't find infatuation or clinginess attractive at all so your chances are slim (but not zero I guess).But you seem to be attaching to her qualities that you found in her art. I'm pretty sure you're conflating what she makes you feel through her videos with what a relationship with her would be like. Common mistake but absolutely fatal at your age.
>>25320368>Why is she black?Humiliation ritual.
>>25320366lmfao nothing will ever be enough for these bitches.
>>25320366>im 28>I recently went through aggressive cancer treatmentVaxx status?
>>25320376you are right. remember fellas as soon as a girl you are with has cancer, break up with her and cut your losses. you dont have to be slavish to some bald sick cunt.
>>25320388Alright, I’ll be real with you.I respect the fact that you’re not just memeing or simping. You genuinely admire her, not just for her looks but for her musicianship and the way she presents herself. That’s fair. But here’s the tough reality: you don’t actually know her.Pan Piano is a persona. She doesn’t speak, doesn’t show her face, and doesn’t interact with fans on a personal level. That’s intentional. She’s built a boundary between herself and her audience, and that’s something you have to respect. Trying to break through that—especially with a romantic gesture—probably won’t go over well. Not because you’re a bad guy, but because she’s clearly made a choice to keep her private life separate from her content.Could you still shoot your shot? Sure. But realistically, a random fan reaching out like this will likely come off as overstepping. Commenting, DMing, or sending her a video of you in a tux (while kind of baller, ngl) isn’t likely to lead to a date. If she wanted to be personally available to fans, she would be.Now, does this mean you should just give up and cry yourself to sleep? Hell no. You admire her because she’s a talented pianist who puts herself into her art. That’s something you can find in real life. Go to live piano performances, join a music group, or even just put yourself out there socially where musicians and anime fans hang out. There are women out there who share your interests and would actually be accessible to you.I know this isn’t the answer you were hoping for, but it’s the truth. Focus on finding someone who shares her qualities, not chasing someone who’s made it clear they don’t want to be chased.
>>25320366Who cares about this fake rage bait? You sound like an israeli.
>>25320366Your daily reminder: Men are in love, Women are in business
>>25320405Not only that, but think of the thousands of dudes that probably already hit this woman up daily, she likely won't even see his message or scroll past it. She has millions of followers. Again, not to say he shouldn't shoot his shot if he really wants to but just know the chances are really slim of anything happening
>>25320366chad dont want her either, why would he?chads cant be betabuxxers and betabuxxers cant be chad
>>25320366are you winning, son?
>>25320366typical sheboon thought process, this is why not even black men want to date black women, all they want is money out of a relationship.
>>25320366>SpiegelDo I have to look at the early life section?
