How do people wageslave AND have kids? I'm literally too stressed and emotionally exhausted by the end of most work days. No one idea how one can successfully build a family if they work full time.
It’s called not being a pussy, you little worm
They don't spend all their free time on leddit.
Because wageslaving used to cover life's expenses, now its a humiliation ritual designed to drain your soul.
>>62591130Yea im 35 and I have ZERO fucking energy man. I have absolutely no idea how people do it. I have enough energy to get on the bus/train to and from work, and then I just sleep for half the weekend. I don’t understand how people go to work AND go to the gym, go out and about like fucking hyper Normie faggots, and deal with children. I simply couldn’t. Kids are cool but having some annoying nagging cunt wife? Fuck no
ive noticed everyone I grew up with that does that looks fucking horrible. it ages you worse than cigs and booze. the wife gets fat most of the time too and they never lose the weight
>>62591150I only spend my downtime at work on business and finance forums, but when I'm done I need to recharge being left the fuck alone. No idea how one can even be present with their kids and stuff after. Let alone listen to their wife and fix her problems.>>62591153yeah I even work most Saturdays now just to pay rent and have some vacation money saved.>>62591156I'm 30 now and literally 0 energy. I can squeeze 3 workouts a week but I'm zapped as is. Sometimes old friends will hit me up or neighbors to go out to bars/events and I'm like dude, I need to just recharge. Can't imagine also stressing about my kid being hypnotized from the media and getting bad habits from other kids etc.>>62591162yeah, never can let the fat person enter you. No exceptions. I stay really lean year round just avoiding carbs unless its a pre or post workout meal.
>>62591130>put dick in vagina>doneit's not that complicated
>>62591162yep. Seen this too. Once a woman shits out a kid they’ve fulfilled their purpose >can extort the father for child support and fuck Chad on your dime >get benefits>you have zero legal or moral levetage to compel a woman to be sexually attractive and/or fuck you Etc etcIt’s a lose lose
>>62591181I said successfully. Kids and a wife are a big responsibility. This is also assuming we're white civilized people who want to contribute positively to the world.
>>62591156you were born with a weak metabolism. ie. you were born bitchmade and a cuck
>>62591130be really rich or be really poor and get gibs
>>62591336how does one get gibs? Prob easier going from middle class to really poor than to get rich. Otherwise will just save enough to make my own gibs from index funds living in thailand
38 year old khhv checking in. I always feel exhausted too. I also recently found out (self diagnosed) that I have a vitamin B12 deficiency. Years of feeling tired and even having neurological issues gone unchecked. Doctors were too fucking retarded to make the connection. That really has nothing to do with being single or not wanting any kids though. I never had any interest in being in a relationship, let alone having a family. Which is interesting because I feel like that’s the wrong mentality to have but at the same time I can’t help it. It’s not much of a choice for me.
>>62591363>vitamin B12 deficiencyit really took you that long to start taking Vit B Complex supplements? It's literally the first thing recommended everywhere for basic health
>>62591363i can relate to the last part. i held on this belief that once i got a good paying job and my own apartment something would trigger in my brain that would want me to pursue a relationship or find new hobbies. obviously never happened and i have accepted it.
>>62591414It was the opposite for me. I wanted to be a dad when I was in high school and early college, then once I worked my first full time job I had 0 desire for that again. Also, probably doesn't help I learned how stressful it was to be in relationships and have to deal with their problems and subconscious mind games all the time PLUS prep for meetings, waking up early, working late, chores, promotions, travel, bills, saving for retirement etc. I used to have like 4-6 hours a day to play games after school and now it's 1 hour or 2 at best after work.
>>62591141>>62591274/thread
>>62591141No you dumb fucking retard, it's not supposed to be this way. Most normalfags can barely handle it yet they do because "hurr durr you're supposed to."OP is correct, as is >>62591156This is not how life is supposed to be.
>>62591363for me its genetic and there were more people in the previous generations like memy brother is this way too but he actually forced himself and found himself a woman, predictably it ended in a fucking disaster and he has to pay child support now
>>62591882>This is not how life is supposed to be.Exactly.>>62591894>pay child support nowyeah that's what scares me. I'd feel much more inclined to have kids if there was no child support thing. Sometimes I regret saving so much money and not just being some paycheck to paycheck kind of guy with low income. For those guys there's not much to lose anyway.
>>62591130I was on a very active vacation in 2024 basically walking everywhere all the time, no guide, no laying on the beach, no jerking off in a hotel for 2 weeks and didn't feel tired at all, even when I slept like shit. It wasn't fueled by some euphoric normoid emotions like "woo wee finally my dream came true le Paris" because I went to fucking Jordan which I never expected or planned to do like 6 months earlier. There's something about wageslaving that just crushes the soul. I don't even have a bad job.
>>62591130They need to raise the next generation of workers for us.
My wife ran back to China, leaving me with a 2yo. It's not that hard because the government here (Australia) subsidizes parents so much, including childcare. I work in education, so I only work 30 hours a week and get 12 weeks off every year. It's very doable. I'm even starting a personal business on the side. You have to say goodbye to free time, though.
>>62591950I retired in my 20s. Work 5 days a week is soul crushing.
>>62591981Fuck you, useless eater.
>>62591950yeah see this pic >>62591912On the bright side I do travel every month just to feel something new and look forward to something. Hopefully can just retire in southeast asia and travel all the time no waging again.>>62591981>You have to say goodbye to free time, though.This is the thing I enjoy most though. I look forward to the freedom when I'm off/weekends. I guess kids is off the table for me.
>>62591363B deficiency is probably the most overlooked issue, at least in America.>>62591399>It's literally the first thing recommended everywhere for basic healthIt is? I have never been to a check up where the physician mentioned taking a vitamin B complex, or any supplement. I only recently learned about it and its symptoms and it’s crazy to think of all the misdiagnosed issues people have when all it is was a lack of a vitamin. >>62591414I thought I was care when I got older and got a career but it never worked out the way I thought it would. If anything, I have almost no desire to have a family despite having the means to do it. I grew up without a dad so maybe that had some kind of effect on me growing up but I also think it has to do with the times we are living in today since a lot of people share the same sentiment.
>>62591912>Sometimes I regret saving so much money and not just being some paycheck to paycheck kind of guy with low incomeYea I get that. I never really lived pay check to pay check because I’m a jew when it comes to spending money, but at the same time I was way more happy when I was doing part time work a few days a week when I was younger. The work / life balance was perfect. I make nearly 5x more than what I did so even though I’m miserable, it’s hard to just walk away from that knowing how fucked the country is and where it’s headed.
>>62592212It's the first thing AI tells you when you ask to supplement or any /fit/ article. Health 101 along with Vid D supplements, fish oil, magnesium and zinc. Should get annual bloodwork too. It's all checked objectively here, so no need for anyone's opinions, just dump the results to AI and ask where you can improve.>physiciancan't outsource your thinking to people incentivized for you to just keep seeing over and over or recommend subscriptions of prescriptions. This is also survival of the fittest 101. If not a family doc wouldn't bother.>>62592230>I was way more happy when I was doing part time work a few days a week when I was youngeryeah, honestly really tempted to retire at 500k in index funds and doing some part time gigs a few times a week max. I'm doing everything I can right now to get ahead and feel I'm like two bad days from just ending it all. Literally living for the weekend and occasional vacations.
>>62591130It's simple, they half-ass it
>>62591130maybe you just care too much and/or you are physically unhealthy
>>62591130They're vacant NPCs anon.
>>6259136340 yo, not khv but been single since 25, i started lifting heavy weights consistently in january and feel much better, i'd say it's been a game changer, the only supplement i take is vitamin D/K2 once a day because i sit in a windowless office for workat this point i've accepted my solo life, luckily i don't get lonely like most people, job is ok, been investing so i can probably retire early because my cost of living is cheap, vidya is a low cost hobby
>>62591156These normalfags drink monster, that's all.