>Talk to as many women as you possibly can until you find one willing to go on a date with youAs long as you can take rejection, this is a solid strategy for getting a GF
>>155569705because nowadays he's been recorded and publicly shamed for doing thisHell gravity falls had an entire episodes claiming this was wrong to do because, I don't know fuck Dipper I guess
>>155569705I'm not a sexy tanned stud like Boomhauer.
>>155569710>>155569725That’s all a mindset, it doesn’t matter what other people think. What matters is finding a girl who’s interested in dating.
the juice isn't worth the squeeze.also, >>>/r9k/
>>155569727bro if you get labeled something that women are weary of you lose your chance to get oneWomen gossip and shit and WILL socially destroy you just because they can. Hell they're incentivized to turn you into a spectacle for online retards to mock when you put yourself out thereThis episode came out before social media incentivized people to turn every possible interaction into a circus
Lmao that's only ever worked for Chads but is especially dumb in 2026 plus what >>155569710 saidEverything is different now. Clubs are wastelands when it comes to women because women just order Chads online now. Shit, boomers in my country would tell you to meet women in dance classes, now every dance school either has a skewer sex ratio or outright tells you to bring your own partner because of too many men specifically signing up to meet women.
>>155569752This is also why you switch locations. Just chat a girl up, ask to switch info, if she says yes, great. If she says no, politely disengage and move on to the next girl. Pretty simple.
>>155569705I don't care about rejection from women. I care about rejection from the community. There's not much to each town around here and word travels pretty fast across the area. Getting the reputation of being a horndog is too much of a hassle, and gas is too expensive now to drive to the big cities so flippantly
>>155569705Because I didn't want a whore I wanted a wife.
>>155569804It’s the way to get a gf
It's low status. The real pro move is the figure out how to read indirect signals and only ask the women who are sending those.
>>155569770This. Remember, you only need to find one.
>>155569869But also >>155569861 is smart, it's usually pretty obvious when a girl likes you or is at all receptive to you. Learn that and don't keep going if she's not interested.
>>155569770Again she will probably record you and post it online while claiming she's a victim of the patriarchy or some shit for being hit on.I don't think some of you fail to grasp how fucked the dating market truly is now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAP-b7E4L6kThis is funny because it's how grudges with friends/family usually go for me after a bad fight. 2-3 weeks and then we're back to normal.
>>155569705You can't make a girlfriend out of a whore who will immediately date a man she randomly met in public.
>>155569876>oh no, she'll record me and post a video!
>>155569889you'll be labeled a creep and women will view you as one.>but did you dieno I just lost my chance in the dating market and will now end up alone as a laughing stock
>>155569705Reminder that we had an entire episode of Gravity Falls dedicated to shitting on men for doing this
>>155569903>you'll be labeled a creep and women will view you as one.The few women who watch her instagram video, maybe.>no I just lost my chance in the dating market and will now end up alone as a laughing stockNah. The odds of some recording of you blowing up so big that everyone knows about it are near zilch. As long as you're not being truly creepy (disturbingly sexual to a stranger, following her around town for way too long, stuff like that), people won't remember or care. Nobody is going to label you a creep for life just for asking a girl out.
>>155569906>As long as you're not being truly creepy (disturbingly sexual to a stranger, following her around town for way too long, stuff like that),dude women are taught that any "unwanted" attention from men is a form of harassment.They will label and cancel you for clicks and social media brownie points.
>>155569911But did you die?
>>155569911The point isn't that some women won't consider you "creepy" for doing it. Women call all kinds of innocent things creepy. The point is that unless you're actually a creep by reasonable standards, you're not going to be ostracized by any significant chunk of women over it.
>>155569916>>155569924I think you both have a rather overly optimistic view of the dating market right now.
>>155569930And I think your idea of the dating market comes too much from bitter people online. Take my advice with a grain of salt too though, because I'm also an anonymous guy on 4chan.
>>155569930the real world is not a reflection of the internet, everyone is different
>>155569770because the internet doesn't reach everywhere?
>>155569946You know how many videos there are on that internet?
>>155569949a lot
>>155569705I used to go to the mall and flirt with as many girls as possible with my friend. Not to fuck but just to get numbers. It sucked. The only good thing to come of it was that I got used to talking to people despite being an introvert.
>>155569705Because I only get out of the house to go to work and idk how to talk to people in public transportation spaces.
>>155569814Hook up culture is not how you get a GF.
>>155569949And yet the girls WILL find the one of me making an ass out of myself.
You don't want to date a woman that would date a guy that walked up to her in public cold
>>155569705>Just approach strangers in public and guess if they’re single without looking>What could go wrong?It’s like telling someone at their lowest to just keep gambling. Ive done it enough times to know it doesn’t work. Im not gonna bother someone who shows no interest in meWomen collectively said they’d rather get chased in the woods by a hungry bear than be approached by strangers
>>155569705I'm not sure if I'd even want to be in a relationship, I think I'm just horny.
If you were into men, can you tell me how to ask your number?
>>155570064Most guys really don’t have any other options if they’re at that point. Nobody really tells you that the key to relationships is shared acquaintances. Most of the time, somebody else played matchmaker for them. You can absolutely mog a guy in every category, but a typical woman would rather date a coworker she’s known for years over you if you’re a total stranger
why do any of you even want a girlfriend?you clearly don't respect women as human beings, so why not just admit you want a live-in mom who you can also fuck? You just want women to boast that you have one to your other incel friends. She's a dicksleeve to you. Why bother with dating and shit when she can always tell you're only doing it to get laid? none of you are attractive enough for her to not mind, and none of you actually want a partner, so why are you bothering with any of this?
>>155570147You should calm down
>>155569710Any sort of publicity is still publicity. Hell, if it goes around the internet, someone in Europe could find you hot, which is ten times better than what an American woman thinks.
>>155569705Only works if you were lucky enough to be born attractive.
>>155569936I think your advice is centered around a world that no longer existsIm willing to bet you didn’t have to try hard to meet your spouse.
>>155570211What good does it do me for a random woman halfway across the world to find me attractive?
>>155570211>Any sort of publicity is still publicityno contrary to popular belief not all publicity is good
>>155570211>Some random woman thousands of miles away that will never talk to you might think you’re above average, and that’s what really mattersThanks, now I don’t fear dying alone
>>155570064Attraction is 95%+ pheromones/smell, that's the way it is. Working hard to win someone over, you have to keep winning them every day for the rest of your life because as soon as someone better comes along it's over.
>>155569710i never considered the possibility that this could be one of the reasons why they gave him a steady girlfriend
>>155570515I'm not saying you should be working hard to win someone over, I'm saying that a woman willing to date a man based on nothing but attraction is also willing to ditch that man when one that's she's more attracted to comes along. 95% of women aren't worth dating or marrying, you want the ones that can make rational decisions, like not letting strangers into their life based on pheromones/smell.
>>155570515You ridiculous buffoon. That's not even a little bit true.
>>155569705This ain't 1998 anymore anon. Today by the time you're approaching your 3rd girl you'd be tapped on the shoulder from behind by police who've been called by the store staff to trespass you and ban you from the property. And even if that wasn't the case this method doesn't give me the opportunity to find out whether or not she has kids so I don't waste my time.
>>155570953Nothing remotely rational about romance, never was, and the era of pragmatic marriages is over.>>155571068Afraid so. Women know how they feel about you within seconds of proximity, a snap involuntary judgment right then and there whether you're suitable.
>>155569710>Hell gravity falls had an entire episodes claiming this was wrong to do because, I don't know fuck Dipper I guessBecause Alex is a simp who thinks normal male sexuality is bad
>>155570146>Nobody really tells you that the key to relationships is shared acquaintances. Most of the time, somebody else played matchmaker for them.This is true in my experience. A friend's wife at a wedding recently offered to set me up with a girl, but I was already in a relationship. Build a good circle of friends regardless of gender, and it'll help in the long run. If nothing else, having a strong friend group by itself can make you more appealing to people.
>>155571137>Afraid so. Women know how they feel about you within seconds of proximity, a snap involuntary judgment right then and there whether you're suitable.What women want changes based on their hormones and what kind of social structure she lives in anon. Unless she's on birth control then she doesn't know what she wants and is repellant to normal men and to her them. A lot of women become hyper feminine brazen cock starved sluts once they get off the hormonal birth control. If they are lucky. If they aren't, they probably have permanently damaged hormones and lowered fertility.
>>155571137>Nothing remotely rational about romance, never was, and the era of pragmatic marriages is over.Cool, enjoy a wife who'll ruin your life and take half your shit because a new guy gave her pussy tingles
>>155569705because mr fed, we don't envy the men in relatioships right now and I get it, you have no idea how to reverse the inevitable which you and your pals caused.because right now, the wisest thing anyone can do is keep to themselves and not add problems into their lives, also don't forge the jab and how it can spread sexually too.
>>155569710Even if you get recorded the internet is too fucking big for most people to ever care. Even people in cringe videos that do go viral end up living a normal life afterwords.
>>155570063Main character syndrome.
>>155572672This is what happens when you try to win over someone who isn't really attracted to you. Nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women because over the years/decades a guy just gets tired of having to win her affection every day and gives up. Then she suddenly realizes she never really liked you to begin with. If she chemically likes you, the pair bonding can last forever.
>>155569705Because it's a joke from a cartoon.
>>155572812Hey there, Mr. Schizo. I'm an FBI agent and just wanted to let you know your post gave us a good laugh at the office.
>>155572839No it's what happens when you bank on attraction alone without being the most attractive person on the planet, I'm not dismissing the value of attraction, just saying you need more than first impulse hormonal response as a basis for a long term relationship
>>155569930i was just thinking your perspective seems sheltered and rather paralyzed by fears of the unknown
>>155572859A lot of people over 40 still think the Boomhauer method works cuz they never had to actually go talk to strangers
>>155571784It sucks for me cuz I never knew that in my 20’s. I was in college and had lots of female coworkers, so I had access to women; but, I was also fat, balding loser with an ugly smile. I fixed all my dysgenic qualities, but none of the girls I knew from back then want to talk to me. I think they still envision me as a fat loser
>>155570211Good luck having employers drop you I guess.
>"just go chat up women bro">talk to the wrong woman>she posts online about how I was harassing her by being a weird creepy incel (male she considers below her existing in her general vicinity)>doxxed and fired from job
>>155572885A lot of attractive men are left by their wives. Women aren't as looks-oriented as men are. It's important, but not as important as the chemical feeling.
>>155573122Is that what you think?
Because I have low self esteem, and I stew over mild rejections for literally decades, and I also don't want to end up on Tiktok.This is not a reasonable way to expect people to behave, especially when they have mental issues and self image problems. You're going to get yourself in trouble, or drive yourself to self harm.
>>155573154Putting aside that you can't tell whether something posted on Reddit is ragebait fiction or not, right there she's admitting she's not chemically attracted to that guy and was instead won over by his efforts, and their relationship never would have lasted.
>>155573190If a girl told me she wasn’t attracted to me after being in a relationship for years, Im painting the ceiling when I blow my shit off
>>155573247>killing yourself over some dumb bitchAin't even worth it bro
>>155570147I want the hypothetical person who exists in my head who isn't a stupid asshole. I can only relate to people on the autistic spectrum, and people who don't immediately jump at the chance to be a small minded bully or police other people's behavior.So no, actually. Most people are terrible. And women are like twice as bad, because people let them get away with it.
>>155569705why should I? women absolutely SUCK nowadays
>>155573284If the woman you built a life with called you ugly, youre gonna feel a type of way about it
>>155569705https://desuarchive.org/_/search/boards/co.trash.desu.meta/subject/The%20boomhauer%20method/Shut up and get some new material you faggot ass bot.
>>155569705There was a really big thing on social media where women said they’d rather get chased by bears than be approached You have to be a fucking moron or incredibly desperate to try this today
>>155573329Once you get over it and realize you can build any type of life you want without the need for a romantic partner to push and validate you, you'll be glad to have not splattered your brains across the room.
>tried it>got rejected >never try againPretty simple
>>155569710>>155569754how's the weather in Mumbai?
>>155573122I'm talking about the chemical feeling
>>155573881Doesn't jibe with>No it's what happens when you bank on attraction alone without being the most attractive person on the planetNot being "the most attractive person the planet" doesn't matter at all if she feels good being around you.
the boomhauer method is more pathetic than being an incel
>>155574118Yeah having sex with women is cringe and gay. What if people say you’re lame on the internet!?
>>155574141nothing about what other people thinkthe damage to your own self esteem wouldn't be worth it
>>155574141>Defending being so desperate that you hit on anything and everything with a pulse
>>155574040Nigga just apply the logic to her feeling better with another guy
Seriously, how old is the user base on /co/? What year do people think it is?
>>155569705I am a kissless hugless virgin and I'll probably die that way
Women love the bad boys.
Just wait until you’re in your late 30’s, mid 40’s. That’s when you are making the most money. Then women will approach you.
>>155574388That risk is always going to be there. And the risk is far greater if she never felt that way about you in the first place and is only around because of what you're providing.
>>155574185You know what’s a good way to boost your self esteem?Having sex.
>>155574437You’ve been demoralized by the internet. In reality, people still pick up women, age gap relationships exist, no one is gonna film your fails and if they do they probably won’t go viral
>>155574573doubt.jpg
>>155569705I tried it. But the older I get, the more I notice that the single women my age tend to come with their own particular disasters.Some are fresh out of relationships that left them drowning in debt.Others are financially unstable because they’ve spent their entire lives being hopelessly irresponsible with money.And then there are the childless ones who are doing perfectly well for themselves, know exactly what they’re worth, and have no reason to stay with you the moment you stop meeting their standards.
>>155574601All true.
>>155574688>And then there are the childless ones who are doing perfectly well for themselves, know exactly what they’re worth, and have no reason to stay with you the moment you stop meeting their standards.This one was the worst. I met a woman who felt like my perfect match, basically my best friend with a pussy, which was something I never thought I’d find. But she broke up with me because she didn’t like that I earned a third of what she made.
>>155574437Not old enough to remember this is the oldest bait in /co/ history
>>155574601When is the last time you saw anyone cold approaching someone?
>>155574730I had a girl like that break up with me when I lost my job and went more than 2 weeks without a paycheck. I have a better job now, but no clue how to contact her anymore
>>155572941This, it's like my parents thinking that the way to get a girl is to take it slowly as friends first and work your way up. Because it did work that way for them back in their day. Except that waiting before a girl lets you hold your hand when earlier she was blowing guys at parties a minute after meeting them is worthless.
>>155569705Does this technique work for guys in their late 40s who've never been in a relationship ?
>>155574904Doesn’t work for anyone
>>155574876>This, it's like my parents thinking that the way to get a girl is to take it slowly as friends first and work your way up. Because it did work that way for them back in their day. This stopped being the norm after the sexual revolution in the 60s, your parents would have to be pre-boomers.
>>155574978It's impossible to have a 100% failure rate with numbers in the hundreds ofreven thousands, but the success rate's going to be close to 1%.
>>155569705Despite having the bravado and charisma to do so, no one is interested in blue collar workers long term. I'm better off gettin a hooker if I wanna get my rocks off and in the digital age that's easier than ever. If i can't have what my parents have then why fuck around? Enjoy your time now before your get too old
>>155574118Why are you a coward, anon?
>>155569710Ignoring that, the way it was presented was that it was pathetic. The show had built up what a suave ladies man he was only to show that charisma had nothing to do with it, he was just a jackass with a shotgun approach. Sort of like how he sat around on his ass collecting/grifting workman's comp. I feel like later writers on the series kind of forgot that aspect fo Boomhauer, that he was as much of a loser as Bill and Dale even if he presented himself better, in favor of taking him at face value. The only time where it felt like they got it write was the waterpark episode where he was a dinosaur stuck in the past trying to hang onto his glory days.
>>155574990My parents are in their early 60s, I should mention that I live in a post-communist country and our values stayed "trad" in some manners for longer
>>155573358Women say a lot of shit and yet do the opposite.
>>155574554>Just wait until you’re in your late 30’s, mid 40’s. That’s when you are making the most money. Then women will approach you.Those are not women you want.
>>155574793>I have a better job now, but no clue how to contact her anymoreWhy would you want to contact the girl who dumped you? What's wrong with you?
>>155569705
>>155575283>no one is interested in blue collar workers long termWhich is retarded since they're the ones making stable cash that'll make one live contently.
>>155575019When I was a naive teenager I thought that the guys that I've never seen without a girl for longer than a week were doing things like this, i.e. chasing skirts and taking the first one available, I was fucking broken by learning that never did it like this, all the women just fell to their laps randomly on their own.The guy I've learnt it from who bedded over 30 girls by the time he was 15 was a fucking high school dropout meanwhile I was pestered about education by my parents Asian-style
>>155575515They are the only ones left. Dating a 20 year old is considered creepy.
>>155575526But that won’t impress her friends and colleagues.
>>155575630>They are the only ones left.lol no>Dating a 20 year old is considered creepy.By the old ones and the dunbasses who listen to them. Plenty of young ones who'd partake.
>>155575634>But that won’t impress her friends and colleaguesAs if having a stable source of income isn't impressive in this economy.
>>155575523Normies need to stop giving autists advice like "just talk to people outside", or "just hit on women until someone says yes".None of them have done any of these things. Chances are they meet people through friends, or just use Tinder. I don't know why they wont admit that. Maybe they want to pretend they're more worldly than they are, or maybe they just want to fuck you over, because they think it's funny.
>>155574554I live on disability.
>>155575630>oh no, it's "considered creepy"Who cares? Not anyone else's business, is it?
>>155574554>he thinks white men will be employed in 10 years
>>155575796It's going to be really fascinating when the USA is 70% Hispanic and white people have no status nor cumulative wealth as a demographic anymore. We're going to see South Africa, Haiti, etc. repeat itself and no one will learn anything even when there's giant pits with dead white families in them.
>>155569705>As long as you can take rejection, this is a solid strategy for getting a GFThe problem with this advice is that you're giving it to a bunch of quitters and people who are too concerned with what other people think about them
>>155569710>had an entire episodesESL retards, on my board?The episode in question (S02E16), is commonly known as the worst in the series, but besides the glaring issues—a road-trip episode right after an important story episode where it's established and made important that "the Mystery Shack is safe and safe from Cipher, let's NOT go outside it"—the point of the entire episode isn't "fuck shotgunning approach". The point of the entire episode is "be honest with people with what you want from the relationship, be it friendship, cheap sex, or something permanent."I'm rewatching it now, and Dipper is 100% in the wrong. Candy is crushing on him, which would be enough for him if Dipper was looking for honest love instead of just lusting after Wendy's huge ass, but also, and very critically: Dipper takes Stan's advice to not immediately write the first girl he gets the email of (to explain his intentions and what he's looking for). Just as nobody wants to be lead on by acts they thought meant more than friendship, or just as some will want something permanent when she's looking for a distraction, it's important to be honest.If people learned this, there would be a lot less broken hearts, bad poetry, and useless deaths.
>>155575714Everything is everyone's business. All of the time. Forever.
Women are fucking retarded and I would never respect one
>>155575918Or guys just figured>Shes not into me, I shouldn’t bother herI dont get why people are so quick to chastise dudes for having this mind sey
>>155575654You'd be ready to put a shotgun barrel in your mouth if you heard how much of "the ick" women get from hearing a guy make a humble, consistent 50,000 to 75,000 a year. To those women, a guy working at a Burgerking and another working as a rebar/fire proofing strength consultant are the exact same thing. Both are "ick" because neither are sharp dressed lawyers or smooth talking day traders.>"Wow, you only make 65,000 a year? Don't you have ANY future goals? I need a man with a career, not a little boy with a job."
>>155574771last week at a bar. Pretty sure they went home together too.
>>155575510>Hey, I know I rejected you already, but I’d really appreciate if you gave me another opportunity to make you feel like shitNah, Id rather die alone than play that stupid game
>>155576098>not sharp dressed lawyers or smooth talkingthis is a big pat of the ick too. If you're unfashionable and not attractive or uncharismatic that's gonna knock you down some pegs. I've seen a bald 50-something construction guy bag a 20-something girlfriend because he's a charming Italian-American guy.
>>155575682Normies always want to act like they've achieved everything by hard work and being good people. Being able to do something does not mean understanding it metacognitively. Normies are not autistic by definition and have friends and relationships falling onto their laps, but have piss poor understanding of social dynamics, they fall for social engineering and confidence tricks easily and are free food for narcissists and sociopaths for this reason.The most common canned "advice" I've been given in my early 20s when I just wanted to have more social life was "move to another city". None of those normies ever had to move cities to have their rich social lives and they didn't think how moving to another city does not suddenly give you a free package of new friends. In fact, many overconfident normies who had to move elsewhere post-college for a job would complain that starting a social life from scratch is harder than they thought.
>>155576098An unemployed Chad is worth more than all of these guys anyway
>>155575682>Chances are they meet people through friends, or just use Tinder. I don't know why they wont admit that.People have literally talked about meeting people through friends within this very thread. But you're going to have trouble making friends, at least the type that can connect you with women, if you don't talk to people outside. Some of those people can even be women, whether it leads to a relationship or not.
If we executed every male under 6'2 the human race would objectively benefit.
>>155576342>sparing the 6'2'' manletsSuch sentimentality will be the end of us.
>>155576295This. >Money?>Women?>Power?>Possessions?A true Chad simply takes what he wants and let's everyone else handle the fallout like the good little betas they are
>>155576316For normies it works like a snowball effect, they meet people, they get invited to parties and whatever and meet even more people there who will introduce them to even more people (even if obviously most of them are not gonna be super close because there's a physical limit), it works like this from their teenage years until like early-mid-20's. Not because of some law written on a stone tablet but because people become more busy and want to invest into long term relationships. If you have traits that turn people off, obviously none of it is ever gonna happen. Yet another thing that broke me was seeing posts from 30-35 year olds on social media complaining that youth was so fun while they get to see their friends maybe once a month or less. That shit would have been a fucking luxury to me even in my "prime", I couldn't make friends because I sound like a retard to people.
>>155576396mate i dont care just kill who you have a problem withif your too weak to do that then fuck off
>>155575682>Normies need to stop giving autists advice like "just talk to people outside">Chances are they meet people through friendsHow do you think they made friends in the first place, you self-defeatist?
>>155576007Nope. People can fuck off.>bluh-bluh-bluh you can't just-I have already blocked you on the social media platform that I don't use. Have a nice day.
>>155576598*records you with my phone in real life*
>>155576316You don't make friends by "talking to people outside". You make them because you know a person, who knows a person, who knows a person, and it's all one big chain that starts in childhood.That, or you get forced into proximity with someone through work.Those are your options.
>>155576525I think you walk up to someone on your first day of school when you're five years old and say "hi", and if you screw that up, you're probably not going to fix it.
>>155576611*kisses your dog and compliments your mother on her new frock
>>155569705Men should never talk to women since they are busy doing important stuff but also they shouldnt be incels
>>155575985>Dipper should've given it to candy instead of asking girls out of lusting after someone he actually likeswow are you implying Dipper should've given her the pity dick
>>155576647But if you can walk back your mental that far back to guesstimate why you're so shy, you can see an improvement to work toward
>>155576918I have no idea what you mean by that.Literally what do you do, logistically, to make friends out of nothing, when you're a full grown adult? It's almost impossible.And normies don't know, because they never have to do it.
>>155570135This. I don't give a damn about women or their feelings or having a relationship I just wanna get my dick wet.
>>155579533it works when women use it on men
QuestionGiven the push towards woman's empowerment, why is the man still expected to be the one to "ask"?Shouldn't be there more women doing the first step foward?
>>155579942Because women love attention, and more than just attention they love the power to crush dreams.
no one seems to ever point out that boomhauer accidentally teaches bobby that there's plenty of fish
/co/ - 3D Relationships & Dating
>>155576633>You don't make friends by "talking to people outside".You can make friends by doing activities that aren't in front of your PC. Join a club, go to events, meet people however you can. You can force the proximity that way. Or even just meet people online and then do stuff offline together. The point is that you need some kind of life that isn't in front of a screen.
>>155581412>le join a clubNo one ever does this. No one walks into a room of total strangers and comes away successfully having made friends.
>>155569710>claimingBeing a sex pest is wrong
>>155581412>meet people however you canyou sound desperate>You can force the proximity that way.nvm you are desperate
>>155575985Incels get upset when a girl is dating multiple guys but what dipper did was good in their book
>>155581430>he actually believes this
>>155581453What do you recommend instead?