Bonus points for getting caught.
Gonna do a session tonight with thishttps://mega.nz/file/WkJRhSjZ#38iLVSZNuR5NDIX6JXjgIJoFFJ9xzzZ5Rz617PXUN3QIt's a program that runs a timer on your computer and when it hits 0, your CD tray opens. The idea is to tie a string to your handcuff keys and have the CD tray hold it securely for a set amount of time.How much time do you /d/eviants think I should give myself?
cool thread idea, speaking as someone who does self bondage + rough anal quite frequently
Hope this thread doesn't die, because this is honestly one of my favorite BDSM subgenres. Personally, I like when they mess up in such a way that now they're helplessly trapped until someone discovers them. Will they be freed, or will their rescuer take advantage of the situation?
>>11525990Who the fuck still has a CD drive
>>11525990bad plan. failure means it stays shut. power goes out, bsod, program crashes... you are stuck. always design such that failure = release.
I do like this one.
Another favourite.
>>11528841Gagged ver
>>11527389You can buy them at just about any office store>>11528072Electronic releases are better than ice and it’s not like porn where you’re gonna end up stuck. I use safety scissors for back up
How did you get started doing this?What was your most recent set up like?What are some ways you like to stimulate yourself in bondage?
>>11525990Start low, then increase every time. Do you also plug your holes with foot long schlongs and vibrators that you cannot turn off until the set time?
>>11533098Of course
>>11525990>set timer for an hour>tie self up>windows update
>>11533382>using Windows for anything but gaming or an app you need for work that doesn't work on Linux>not dual-booting if you absolutely need Windows for somethingEL OH EL
>>11532294I was looking for this image. Thanks.
>>11533382>self-bondage>use Windows as a release timerThis post has been moved to Predicament Bondage
real stuff by Wickedergonomy, perfect for self-bondage
love being bonded as my ass pussy gets raped
>>11531434Better res for you
>>11538093Based
`[cyome] <> mightNot`
Self-bondage gone wrong. How do you get out of this situation?
>>11543122
>>11543123
>>11543122You wait for a really hung guy to find you and fuck you again too make sure you're too tired and he brings you home to install in his basement as a new fixture
>>11543122You have to wish a paradox: either anyone is coming to save you or...
I’ve been practicing self-bondage for 15 years now, and I’ve come up with new ideas from time to time. That’s how I came across X-Toys, and now I’d like to try a session with it. However, it’s really difficult to “program” your own script. And there aren’t any good guides on how to do it yourself. Does anyone know of any good guides? Or has anyone already had experience with self-bondage using X-Toys?
>>11543840It's pretty easy bruh
>>11543861Nah not with the things I want to do!I have a Coyote 3.0 with PAWPrints and its very tricky to implemant them in my script.
>>11543872Skill issue
Okay instead of shaming me you just could help me. My Problem at the Moment is, that I want to let X-Toys Send via Webhook a Signal to my Shelly 1PM Gen3 to tricker a Motor who starts and pulls me up. Im well aware of the fact that I Suck in Programming, but to find a solution for this Problem would be really nice.Thanks in advance.
>>11545220Didn't ask
When I was a kid probably like 13 my family owned some storage units that were rentals. They were all just big cages. One day I was sweeping an empty unit out, and the door closed behind me. To this day I still don't know why, I locked the door in myself. As soon as I did it I knew I fucked up, and I had no idea when someone was going to come look for me. But I was stuck in there. The thought of it made me so hard I didn't even care. I came 3 or 4 times in the hours it took someone to come find me. I had no idea I had some sort of caged fetish. Does caging yourself count? I also got way into handcuffs, and used to handcuff myself behind my back after putting the key in a crazy spot to see if I could get it. Or leaving an item to pick the lock, and no access to key, so I was forced to pick my way out of these Smith and Wesson handcuffs or my parents would find me.
>>11538090This reminds me there was a good self-shibari guide floating around a while ago.I sometimes wonder if anyone ever used it.
>>11545922
>>11545318Didn't ask
>>11547226I've had this image saved for like thirteen years or something like that, a classic. It looks great under clothes, really compliments your figure well. I ended up modifying this eventually, once I got the hang of it. Instead of tying the knots down the front, simply twist the ropes around eachother, like just make the left and right ropes switch sides where you would usually tie a knot. It makes the whole thing a lot easier to adjust once you're done, and tying/untying it is much quicker.
>>11545318Yes, I'd agree that locking yourself in a cage to jerk off with no control counts as some sort of selfbondage fetish.Also is it self-bondage, selfbondage, or self bondage?
>>11549973I've always gone back and forth between using a space between self and bondage. Some sites have it as one word, others have it as 2, I feel like there's no wrong way
>>11537809But if you love it, is it really rape?
>>11527389Who the fuck doesn't? Are you an ipad kid?
Tl;dr:A rope ratchet is a common piece of hardware used for hanging things that can used for selfbondage as it allows the rope be pulled and held in place
>>11550461Make sure to plan how you're gonna get out before hand
>>11525990Remember, kids, tie the escape device to yourself.
>>11551062Nah just make sure your dad will get home 6-8 hours later if you fail to escape
>>11550461>rope ratchetbought a pair just to try. I used them to tie my ankles to my collar in a hogtie. Luckily, I didn't tie my arms because getting free wasn't easy at all
>>11553643Where do I get some
>>11554223I got them from my country's amazon equivalent
Sumomo Dou-Selfbondage Princess
I won't upload the rest due to the atrochious Captcha.If you want the rest, search for Sumomo Dou on Sad Panda
>>11558379how does she fuck up the release?they always fuck up the release
>>11532294I finally broke down and bought myself some gear. Just a stupid little starter kit for bondage babies, cuffs, chains, a gag, and a couple of things for spanks. It came with a very long soft rope, so I decided to try that for the first time. I did the just classic knot everyone has seen the simple tutorial on with the anime girl wearing it under her clothes. It was surprisingly comfortable and I loved the way it pulled down on me when I would move. So I had that, and my feet chained together. I have this pipe on the ceiling in the basement and I was able to cuff my hands together around it, and it's nearly the perfect height, a little higher would be better so I would have to stand tippy toe. I had the gag in too. My hear was fucking pounding through my chest when I heard the *click* and knew it would take a little effort to get that undone, because it was pretty hard to do by myself. I couldn't do it blindfolded, so that was the hardest part, getting that to fall into place while all locked up. Hanging there, listening to myself breathing through the gag, the jingle of all the chains, hearing my heart pounding. I might add a vibe, or some clamps and a timer for next time. I need a better gag too. This one is way uncomfortable and my mouth got so dry. After about 30 mins I decided to undo myself. Had a slight moment of panic because I tried undoing myself blindfolded, but couldn't, and then couldn't get the damn thing off. But I finally did, then another little hiccup when I couldn't reach the latch, but then I got it when I was way up on my toes. 10/10 would do again.
>>11532294>What are some ways you like to stimulate yourself in bondage?I just discovered the holy fucking grail of long-term, automated bondage/self-bondage edging (that's not e-stim): Home Assistant (software, is actually an OS that you can run through a virtual machine on a PC)This lets you write and run scripts that control a smart plug (smart outlet).What do you plug into the smart plug? A Hitachi Magic Wand Original, of course.>plug magic wand into smart plug>run script (with delay built into the start)>attach magic wand to dick via Hummingbird attachment, place self in self-bondage>script delay ends and it starts automatically edging you by turning the plug on/off at intervals which edge you but don't make you cum>you can choose to end the script by having it leave the plug on so it makes you cum after X minutes of edgingWhy a Hitachi, you ask?>Strong and reliable>no battery, so it can edge you a LONG time (it shouldn't overheat if you keep it on low and make sure the on/off intervals have enough off time)>you're not attaching a goddamn lithium ion battery fire hazard to your cock and putting yourself in self bondage>YOU'RE NOT ATTACHING A GODDAMN LITHIUM ION BATTERY FIRE HAZARD TO YOUR COCK AND PUTTING YOURSELF IN SELF BONDAGE BECAUSE HOLY FUCK ARE YOU RETARDED?Yeah. I realize this sort of thing is much easier with a bluetooth, wireless vibrator and X-Toys but, again, fuck lithium ion batteries attached to your cock. Nope.So yeah, do with this information what you will.Home Assistant. Fucking neato. I wonder how many people use it to control sex toys.
>>11561018Now add electronic locks
>>11561018I would like to have an automatic hoist to lift myself up by my wrists, and then have it let me down after a set amount of time. There has to be something like this, right? Right now I just stand on a book, then hook my wrists, then move the book a little away so I can't undo myself and have to stand on my toes. I was looking at automatic blind openers after I read your post, but I dunno.
>>11561089I only do escapable self-bondage. I don't do the whole "escapable after X minutes" thing because, for example, a house fire can occur in those X minutes. But you do you, risk-aware consensual kink enjoyer.
>>11561093I fucked up my shoulder via long-term arms-over-head bondage. Careful with that. I didn't notice the pain until I was untied and lowered my arms. This was years ago and it's still not 100% recovered and probably needs surgery to be 100% recovered.
>>11561093Here>>11561319Thanks for the warning, sorry to hear about that. I could definitely feel it last night, but I kept my session down to a short 20 minutes. Not to overshare, but my e-stim came in last night. I was goofing around with it, and got a super crazy idea I'm certain loads of people have done before. I have a hook in my basement that is the perfect height to hang me and force me onto the tips of my toes, I have to stand on a little 5" platform to hook up, but then I kick it away. So my crazy ass puts both e-stim leads on my calves, tossed in a gag, set the intensity up to 3/4, and the timer for 20 minutes, hit start and blindfolded, hooked my ankles together and hooked myself to the ceiling before the program cranked up. Oh my God. The helpless feeling of knowing the wave was incoming, and knowing it would force my legs out from under me and make me hang, just to give me 5 seconds to collect myself just to do it all over again, over and over and over was like heaven. I've never experienced anything like it. My fucking legs are so sore today I don't know how I'm going to work. By far the hottest thing I've ever done. I felt fucking waisted afterwards. I flopped onto my bed and could barely find the strength to remove the gag, the intense wave of relief when it came out almost melted me and I just curled up into a ball with my pillow and blanket and fell asleep.
>>11561889>I could definitely feel it last night, but I kept my session down to a short 20 minutes.By long-term I meant like 30 minutes. You're already pushing it.>e-stimJust wait until you figure out how to combine e-stim with a chastity cage, produce a hands-free orgasm, and hit the fucking ceiling with your cum.
>>11561904>By long-term I meant like 30 minutesOh... Well, I'll be careful. I'm pretty strong in the upper body and don't weigh a ton, but I'll keep that in mind. I felt like a little baby for doing 20 minutes. >Just wait until you figure out how to combine e-stim with a chastity cage, produce a hands-free orgasmOh God. That's possible? I'll have to investigate that, holy shit.
>>11561907>Oh God. That's possible? I'll have to investigate that, holy shit.The safe way is using a cage with a lot of holes in it then running conductive rubber/silicone loops through the holes.Pads can cause burns when they move during use. Never burned myself with loops though.
>>11561904Fuck. My shoulders hurt now too. I definitely overdid it, you were definitely giving sound advice. Nothing serious I don't think, but I'll take some time to recover. You know those heavy duty magnet locks they put on doors? I was thinking about getting one and mounting it to the ceiling, and have the power on multiple redundant timers. Super scary to depend on a timer though. I'm not sure I could do it.
What do the people who do this to themselves think about a block and tackle, and rubber bungee cord self lifting mechanism? I was thinking if I found the right bungee, it would lift me eventually, but would have to work at it. And I should be able to pull myself down when needed with some effort. I would obviously test the heck out of this before I tried it to make sure it was safe. Maybe I should just find a rigger and be done with it.
>>11561318Lol imagine living somewhere so poor you worry about a fire happening in just a random 10 minutes
>>11564091Yeah, I'm with you there. I'm more worried my stupid dog will barge in the room and fuck up my senses and I'll not be able to stop it because of the timer so I'll just be stuck there with my stupid dog slapping me with her tail, blindfolded, gagged so I wouldn't be able to tell her get out, and getting my shit roasted by an estim until the timer runs out. Definitely double checking the door latch next time..
>>11564091Being rich doesn't magically make electrical fires impossible.
>>11564180no but living in a building that's up to code makes them exceedingly unlikely.
>>11564546>be one of the many wealthy people who choose to live in a rural area>a rodent gets into the home (this is a rural area, this *will* happen), chews wiring, pisses, causes a short>you have a house fire
>>11564634>American houses
>>11564634That's why I live where there are no rats
>>11565090You live in Antarctica?Because there are rodents of some type everywhere else.
This is getting silly. No, your house isn't going to burn down, and if you're that worried about it, I don't know how you sleep at night. No, American houses aren't full of rats, and a fire hazard. In my entire life I've seen exactly one house fire and it was arson. And if I'm being perfectly honest, yes, I'm hanging from the ceiling and blindfolded and gagged but I know with effort I could break the straps, or unscrew the loop I'm attached to, or even maybe get them unbuckled. Obviously it would be very difficult, but doable. I could literally spin myself around and around and I would be dizzy but the loop hook would unscrew out of the floor joist. I do have a bit of escape artist tendencies though. They sell a timed magnet lock for hanging and I'm probably going to get one of those. But I don't really see the point because my estim does a great job at incapacitating me, and I don't see how I can escape if that is going off, other than maybe breaking the straps but I'm not 100% certain I'm strong enough to do that and I don't want to break my straps. I'm going to get some custom ones soon. I was thinking black on black with lambskin liners, with purple stitching and purple gemstones, with black buckles, and heavy duty loops.
>>11565123'Berta motherfuckerLook it up lel
>>11565204Cool.You've got seven types of mice and 14 types of squirrel, though.
>>11565209But not a single fuckin rat
>>11565242Well there's at least one since you're there
>>11565253but I'm not jewish
I had to cut my fucking gag off yesterday after a quick session. I loved that gag but holy shit I could not get it to unbuckle. I have no idea why it was stuck. I think maybe my hair got caught in it or something because I just could not get it off. Bummer. I loved that gag. My backup gag makes me drool and I don't like it.
>>11565566Embrace the messy slobberiness!
>>11565566Not sure what type of gag it is. But if you cut close to the old buckle you could try and replace it with a snap buckle/side squeeze buckle if you have enough length left. Just fold the last half a cm and sew it a bunch to hold the fold. You could be pretty messy with it too so you don't even need to really know how to sew. It just has to hold the folded end so it doesn't slip back through.
>>11566178I actually started to panic a little bit after trying for so long to get it off unsuccessfully. I never considered this could happen with the setup I use, so I couldn't even find my scissors. When I finally did find them I was pretty upset and didn't think about the location to cut so they're definitely ruined. I cut at like the worst possible spot, the easiest spot for me to cut it.
>>11566303You could probably get it professionally repaired and even upgraded if the gag itself is intact.
>>11543122If you cum enough times eventually one of your full body orgasms will vibrate at just the right frequency that you quantum tunnel the lock open
>>11532294Waaaay back in childhood. This shit is what I used to call sex before I found out I could jerk off. I used to draw naked ladies tied up.Recently I've gotten lazy, so I just tie my legs and then cover my hands in tape, which is a bitch to take off but very possible once I'm sweaty enough. I also had a scare recently. I have this belt with zip tie style fastening, and I kinda got curious... turns out the pin that unfastens it was fucking impossible to reach when I used it as handcuffs, even once I took off the gloves I had on. I got really scared. I didn't want to call my roomie, given I had a huge gag, was cross-dressing, and was all tied up. I pulled a lot, couldn't get it done, started to wonder if I'd have to learn to dislocate my shoulder to pass my hands under my legs and bite the pin.Yeah I'm planning to do it again this weekend
>>11567453Don't forget to have a safety backup like a hung BBC stud who gets to fuck your ass is you can't get yourself out of the bondage... For motivation
>>11567457oh no the gay black man will rape me, so sad...but seriously I've been spamming the local gay chat and nobody is freaky enough to do actual bondage. An actual tragedy
>>11567463Where you at I'll let you tie me up
>>11567470Latin America, but thanks for asking.
>>11567463Same. Lots of the ones in my area do meth. Wish they did something that didn't make your fucking teeth fall outI've been chatting with the gays on /soc/ since I have a femboy body now.[spoiler]I wish this thing was real[/spoiler]
>>11567514You can absolutely achieve that with time locks. And accessories. I'm seriously contemplating buying a few for my sessions, and a new web controlled estim so people can zap me. I'm also pretty disappointed with the quality of a lot of restraints out there. Looking to make my own custom set so I can get exactly what I want. Here's a link if you want to see some of the things like in your pic. https://www.meo.de/en/218-self-bondage-timer
>>11567539Esp32 plus electromagnetic locks instead
>>11567629Yes, I'm currently experimenting with my own little project where I'm using an ESP32 with a powerful electromagnet. I'm trying to program a system that lets me set the timer so that if I misbehave, I'll be punished and have to stay tied up longer.I’m also experimenting with building a small motor that pulls on a rope attached to my nipples with nipple clamps, as another method of punishment.My problem right now is figuring out how to attach the clamps to my nipples so they don’t get pulled off. I don’t want to get my nipples pierced. Does anyone have any good ideas?
>>11566303>>I never considered this could happen with the setup I useMany such cases... im glad you didn't become a statistic, anon.
>>11567886
>>11567825Face it anon, it's time for nipple rings
>>11567825I also want to do mine but the length of time on healing really takes the wind out of my sails. I can't find nipple clamps that actually stay clamped properly. And literally there's nothing worse than being bound and blinded, gagged and clamped, and feel one of the clamps start to slide of into a climax of uncomfortable pain as it slowly falls off desperately pinching the skin as it does. Fucking hurts in a bad way, and makes my nip hurt for days after.
>>11567825clover clamps, you must have seen thosethey squeeze harder the more you pull on them
>>11567902forgot pic
>>11567896I realize I should do that—it would solve all my problems—but the healing time is really an issue. And I can’t take time off anyway to wait until the healing is complete. That would be a real problem for my job.>>11567902I’m already using them, and even so, it’s not enough for my purposes. Maybe I’m asking for too much, and I’m too hardcore. Or maybe I’m using them wrong. Although I can’t imagine using them wrong. How about you? When you use them, do they stay on no matter how hard you pull on them?Anyway thx guys
>>11567919>How about you? When you use them, do they stay on no matter how hard you pull on them? I haven't had them fall off yet, but then again I usually do what I can to avoid pulling on them, since, well, they hurtmaybe oil the hinges or somethingbut if you're that hardcore, then I can only think of piercing, although I have no experience with thatwhy would you need to take the time off for it to heal?unless you're like a pool lifeguard, you would just hide it under clothesone other thing to consider is that it's a safety featureif push comes to shove you want tge clamp to come off rather than rip something out
>>11567919>Or maybe I’m using them wrong. Although I can’t imagine using them wrong.do you put it directly on the nipple, or on the skin beyond, so the nipple is somewhat inside the clamp? the latter will generally give you better grip
>>11567539I'm the anon who posted who posted the link for the CD opener, and I just prefer to use that. I have a back up release with a pair of scissors, but it's luckily never come to that.I just wish that harness thing was real cuz setting up for selfbondae takes a long time. At least the way I like to do it. If I could just slip something on and press a button, that'd make this so much easier.
https://chaster.app/sessions/ClvMHc7rvhELCbrHpls dont make me wear it too long
>>11568047I voted random
>>11568047is using that honestly exciting?it seems like it needs more, some kind of way of making it more personal or conditional, like maybe talking with the person or demanding somethingalso with stuff like that people just always add more time, because what else are you going to do, really[spoiler]just like I did[/spoiler]desu I also sorta assume the locked person cheats somehow and is not actually completely at the mercy of the online timer
>>11568193lol I removed 4 hours and he was supposed to take it off because time ran out and now he has 4 days. Haha. I really need to buy the web controller for the estim. It is so intense and good. I would very much enjoy it being a lot more random than patterns. And adjusting power levels. Like I involuntarily scream when my shitty one is on the right settings. It doesn't hurt but it's so intense. Random users doing random shit would be so good for 20 minutes of hanging from the ceiling in a gag and blindfolded. Do you guys have a preference for straps for ankles and wrists and all that, that are strong enough they won't break under heavy strain? The pricing seems to be all over the place. I've seen custom shops offer a pair blinged out any way I want for about $120 a pair. But then I've seen other sets that include ankle, wrists, and a few other items for over $500. I want them to be soft on the inside because I don't want marks all over my wrists. I have some ok ones, but they're deteriorating, and I've had to add snap loops to try to keep the original loops from getting ripped off last time I used them. They held, but during an intense moment I heard a noise out of one of them, and it's just a matter of time now. This is my fucking dream but holy shit lol that would be insane.
>>11549973Fuck this pic is so good>getting caught by your little sister>needing to ask your little sister for help>having to explain to her what you were doing>living with the shame that she developed a bondage fetish because of you
fuck itI want to do this to somebody, or have it done to mewhere should I start
>>11568803fetlife seems to be the place but it's not really self bondage if other people are there lol. I'm on there and a total rope bunny. I know what it sounds like me saying this, but the ads are all very bondage related on the site, so I click them to learn new things all the time. I fucking love it though.
>>11568807is it really the place thoughby which I mean: has someone here actually initiated a lasting relationship through the siterather than meeting the person somewhere else and then using fetlife as a communicator
>>11568812I met a woman at a munch I found on Fetlife and was her submissive for a year.
>>11568812I meet people on there with shared kinks at community events. Kinda nice to not have to like wait a bunch of time to slowly introduce someone to your kinks and desires. I don't have any interest in online stuff, but I do see people have online relationships there, but not something in keen on. I don't really see how you would meet other kinky people in any other way, and you can just use it to introduce yourself to the community and communicate in different ways if you want. I think it's great.
>>11568916>>11568929okay, but in both cases you only used FL as a source of information for where to go, and later to communicate with people you already metso it seems like "the place to be" is community events
>>11569105Well, yes.Fetlife is the place to be to find community events lol.
>>11569189Where do you live? I live in Michigan in the USA and the city like 5 miles from me is a hotspot for bondage it's insane. I can literally go to a rope class today if I want to, and like 50 people will be there. There's another one the next day too. And these are literally self bondage classes and bondage with other folks too. It's how I learned how to tie myself up.
>>11569217How many dommes can tie you up and peg you though
>>11569225If you're not super picky, a lot. Especially if you're a cutie like me. I don't really care who does it to me so long as they're tying me up in the right way. And I would never have learned all the techniques and safety stuff for self bondage if not for these classes and other people. I don't just do rope either. I'm a little embarrassed at the moment and have to wear long sleeves because my wrists for bruises for the leather I was in, in my last session. They're soft on the inside, but I was really struggling hard. I want to get some with lambskin on the inside, instead of the fake fur my current ones have. The tension release when I get undone is so fucking surreal. Going from one extreme (bound, gagged, hanged, blinded, and tortured) to another extreme (fluffy warm pajamas, blanket, and pillow) is intoxicating.
>>11569232Wrists are covered in bruises*
>>11569269 #I don't know why you don't believe me. Doubt this will change your mind since you seem to think I'm just here making shit up on the Internet. lol.https://files.catbox.moe/tpe0an.png
>>11569283lol Pontiac Michigan is especially full of bondage BDSM people. Why is this so unbelievable?
>>11568812I had a dom gf for 6 years I met in there. It was great but I'm a piece of shit.
>>11569269>>11569281Anon has been hurt time and time again and now reacts to good news like a dog reacts to a tender hand. Very sad.I hope good ropes come (heh) to you soon, anon
>>11569294It's all indians and brazilians roleplaying, trying to fit into the cool dark web hacker website 4chan. Michigan is just the first name that comes to mind when they want to make something up that sounds unitedstatesian and believable, because "Los Angeles" sounds too mainstream and would get called out quickly, and "Denver" sounds too bland.
>>11569294>>11569482lol I'm pretty sure I was the only person here who said I lived in Michigan!
>>11569294Elbozos upCanada is a retarded wasteland
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God I had an amazing session last night. I had my electrodes in the perfect position. When the timer ran out and everything stopped I was actually pretty miffed. Definitely should've doubled the time. But I am trying to be easier on myself. I can't wait to get my new wrist straps they're going to be sick.
>>11570314Forgot pic.