A thread to talk about your kinks, where they came from, and other kinds of conversation you can't find anywhere but /d/. Images requested!
A big one for me is sweat. I'm something of an olphactophile, scents and smells are very important to me, and sweat readily fills that niche. But, beyond that, being visibly hot is also arousing to me for reasons I can't quite pin down, but the two come together pretty well for me.
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Also a real big fan of outdoor nudity, casual nudity, and casual sex to a degree. I've always liked casual nudity, but I went to a nudist camping thing once, and it was amazing, it's so chill and comfy, and I fukkin love the low level, but persistent horny vibes that permeate everything. Also kind of a weird contradiction, since it not being overly sexual, makes it so much moreso in my mind, at least. Super paranoid about bugs, though
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Not really sure what awakened it in me, but I have a thing for play involving inflatable pooltoys and balloons. Something about the texture of them is really comforting to me, the smell as well of PVC or latex is incredible
>>11543760I really love vaginas i do not know why, the lips, the clit, the tightness, it just makes you want to eat it or just put your dick in there, i think its really attractive
Hmm let's see>SphShowed pp to girl on Omegle. She laughed and called it "as tiny as a Chinese child's". Pp got harder.>Ass playI remember just washing my butt when I was 14 or so, and discovering that the tip of my finger could go inside. Felt good. Now I get pegged semi regularly.>Giving oralFell in love with he whole thing the first time I did it. Seeing my girl's pussy up close is super erotic. Also I'm apparently good at it, so it's a win win>Cum play/snowballingThere was a time in my life when I used to have a lot of humiliation-based e-sex. One of my main places was Omegle, and I had, in two separate occasions, two girls make me stick stuff in my ass and then cum for them and eat up my own cum. Once from my computer chair, once from the floor.>Cucking (though I'd never do it irl)During the aforementioned esex adventures I ended up being dragged into cuck-like situations thrice. The first time I was the bull (it was a group masturbation thing, 1 girl and 5 or so guys. Let's say I was her favourite and she didn't hide it). The other 2 times the girls lured me in with the spy play, but later added cuck elements. One started comparing me to her bf and telling me whenever he fucked her, how I could never do that, how she'd one day make me watch, she made me choose the panties she'd wear to his etc. The second one straight up forbid me to cum and made me lookup and send her big dick porn, then teased me until I admitted I'd watch her get fucked by bigger men.>Overheard sexLast time I slept in a hotel I was woken up at 3am by the couple next door. Her screams were so sexy, I still fap to that sometimes
>>11543813>spy playMeant sph play
Oh, a story thread, that's not too common now is it. I have many, but I think my earliest was dirty laundry, simply because I had no privacy in my room, and one of my chores was to do the laundry. I'd only ever have privacy when I went down to the frigid basement and handled everyone's dirty clothing, and I'd make up a big pile on the floor so I wouldn't be forced to sit on concrete, and touch myself. Eventually the odor (and the cold) became turn ons, and now its hard to do without at least one. I still do my older brother's laundry when I watch his children.
>>11543760Got the breast expansion fetish from Terminator 3 and seeing woman playing T-X make her bust grow.
>>11543813>>Giving oral>>11543794AgreePussies look amazing super up close and detailed, and eating out is so much fun. They're so fun to gently play with and explore, and fish out reactions. I think cocks are overall more aesthetic and cute, but, there's something deeply satisfying about eating pus in a way that's almost unique to it.I prefer mine with unreasonable amounts of juice though.
>GiantessRare, you son of a bitch, you knew what you were doing to me. Jugga obviously, but Humba Wumba, especially in the supervised version of her tent, too. God, Rare was thirsty as fuck back in the day, huh?
I got way too many kinks man, but I think my fable for older, dominant, tall women and their feet comes from a teacher I had in middle school who hated me. I remember jerking off one day and even though I started our fantasising about a classmate, I slowly started thinking about her instead. First about her just being naked and praising me, then my thoughts went to her feet and her putting them in my face while being as harsh and strict as she usually was. Maybe I wanted approval and praise from her so bad I started to develop a sexual attraction to the way she treated me and I wanted her to step all over me, dominate me etc. Ever since that type of woman is my weakness. I am dating a lovely girl who is really nice to me but I fantasise about getting dominated by her mom all the time.Also I think I developed a huge breeding kink from my gf not wanting kids.
>Gentle femdom, female sexual aggression/initiative, larger womenAlmost assuredly because I was molested a bit by my older sister. Nothing heavy, just some hands on places and naked cuddling (unfortunately. I was into it then, and wish we had done more). But, that was very, very formative for me, and it's super, super relaxing and comforting to me now. Honestly I feel more guilty for liking it and wishing we did more, than anything else negative though, lmao, I know a lot of people have had shit like that happen and are bad off for it, meanwhile I just want more.
I was born with a foot fetish.Genuinely.I was, I think 4 or 5 when I first really had an obsession with them.I remember, I didn't know what sex was, I didn't know naked people were interesting, and I remember staring under the door of dressing rooms waiting for my mom, looking at the feet. I stared at feet in sandals in kindergarten, I got excited when girls took their shoes off in cartoons since before I remember. In third grade, when a girl threatened to step on me, my immediate reaction was to get her to do it. I do believe that was my first erection. My first nuts, were not to feet, I didn't connect those dots at first, but within a month of my first nut, I had discovered them as a fetish. I never had a chance.
>>11543760I'm super into anal. I got into anal before I ever even knew how to cum or what cumming was. One day I was walking around in the neighborhood and saw a huge stack of dirty Club magazines in the trash can. If you're not familiar, they're not like playboy. These show full penetration, cumming, anal, and all the rest. I saw all these pictures, and all these cocks cumming and going into pussies and asses and mouths it was unbelievable. It made my dick hard but I still didn't know what to do with it. I remember I tried all sorts of things to >Get the white stuff to come outMy dumbest idea was to pee with a boner to see if that worked. I got pretty discouraged. But I also had an asshole, and these girls looked like they were having fun getting things crammed in them and fingering them, so I started fingering mine. Then I upgraded to a travel shampoo bottle, markers, a banana, a cucumber, various utensils with crazy handles... But I still haven't ever cummed. One night I had something up my rear, a sharpie or something, and was fucking my ass while slowly humping a pillow and I finally cummed. It was a massive amount. Fast forward to today and I almost never cum without something in my ass. I'm super excited right now because I'm about to get in the shower and use my ovipositor and deposit a bunch of eggs in my colon. Something I've done for the last 3 nights but still excites me. I'm not telling anyone where I got my affinity for furry...
>>11544161I should mention I found the magazines in the 90s so Internet porn wasn't a thing for me, and at worst I had seen an R rated movie before.
>>11544165Thanks for making me feel old, but no, the internet was full of porn in the 1990's, from 1992 peer to peer absolutely exploded with "work-groups" in windows3.1, so you'd have the files locally, eliminating the waiting a full minute on dial up as the image slowly loaded line by line only to discover the "best part" was hidden or concerns about being banned by the host/forum.
>>11544313I said it wasn't a thing for me. Not that it wasn't a thing. I didn't get online for at least 5 more years.
>>11544065I was born with it too, starting from age 3 it manifested as an inexplicable fixation on feet that was more like a disgust than anything, but then in adolescence it became sexual. I had a super hot English teacher and later my first gf who both would wear strappy sandals and gave me my awakening for feet (and sandals too)
>>11544161I found it organically. When I was like, 8 I had the question of if things came out of my ass, if things could go in, and tried to finger myself a few times. First few were whatever, but then I had one that felt really good, and then it started being something I did almost every time I showered. Eventually, a couple years later I had the idea of using something else, I tried a few things that just didn't work for one reason or another, then I tried an M&M's minis canister. So that was my first orgasm. Kinda weird, I was probably too young to have a full orgasm, way more deep tingling and not-quite-cum slime than a prostate orgasm as I know it now. I was scared at first, but eventually kept doing it. Until today, where it's still my preferred way to masturbate. I guess, I also have like, I dunno, a masturbation kink? Because I always get way, way more horny when thinking about masturbating, than I do for actual sex. Sex feels better, to be clear, but, I don't get as into it. Spending like 4 hours prepping for a mediocre masturbation session is a perfect day for me (obviously I'd prefer to cum harder though lmao)
>>11544065>>11544437I strongly believe that having a fetish or not having a fetish is mostly a matter of perspective. Once you learn how to see things from the right angle, they click into place. And my foot fetish is my biggest reason for believing that.I wasn't born with a foot fetish. I long knew that foot porn existed, I had seen it before. It just didn't do anything for me.Then one day I sat down in a recliner, put out the foot rest and stretched. The arch of my foot rubbed against it just the right way, and even though there was nothing lewd about that situation, I understood immediately. It was just a matter of knowing that feet can be sensitive and that they can feel nice when treated right. In that moment, feet shot up to one of the most intimate parts of a girl's body in my mind, and I don't want to go back, even if it was possible.
>>11543815A RED SPY'S IN THE BASE!?
I got cheated on and it destroyed me, but now I love being a cuck.
Deadass no idea why I like vore. It was maybe my third fap ever – it was a recommendation in the sidebar of the video what provided my first two faps ever. I've been gone ever since. I have no memories of anything prior to that which would have foreshadowed a sexual fixation on the digestive system. As far as I'm concerned it came out of nowhere. I've always assumed that something must have happened with a babysitter or something like that. Certain otherwise innocuous incidents have suggested to me that it might be genetic but I have no desire to confirm this hypothesis.
Giantess with vore, feet, and butt related subfetishes. I learned it from bugs. I stepped on one I liked by accident at 5. I roleplayed as a bug in a roleplay chat room when I was 8 and tried to get a fem regular to squash me. Various media and real life events likely influenced the end result as an adult, but neither grooming nor gooning had anything to do with the original manifestation. Pure self selected freedom and finding things that resonated with me from the start. I was exposed to a lot of fetish and porn content as a teenager and found most of it gross and weird. Never spontaneously branched off into anything I couldn’t connect to the original feeling, which doesn’t involve sex for some baffling reason, but oh well.
If it's a fetish discovery sharing circle, I have to talk about my thing for futanarization (not that widely a used tag, but basically conversion into futa.)I only read someone talking about a scenario, but it resonated so hard it was instantly one of the things I look for. Unfortunately, it's not that common an angle.It came from someone talking about an erogame called "trouble trap lab" and it was a scenario where a girl got a dick from some sci-fi nonsense or whatever, and she pesters the protagonist for help handling it.So now I have a big thing for girls gaining a dick and then being at the mercy of the new organ.
>ArmpitsHoo boy there's a lot to this one. No one single event really defined it for me, but, it's easily my strongest fetish, and is borderline a true fetish. A degree of it, I think I've always had, like the anon saying they were always sorta aware of feet.I'm an olfactophile for sure, people's smells are really important to me, and this feeds into it, too.As I was getting more into pornography, it became a bit of an aesthetic focus. Lots of little things and details about how different people draw them started fascinating me.In community college, there was a girl in my major, super cool, kind of a hippy. Almost every day she wore a tank top, and was completely unshaved. This was offputting to me at first, but won me over quickly. I was definitely into pits before, but this absolutely turned my curiosity and interest into something a lot heavier. Then, my first girlfriend was pretty attentive, and noticed that my eyes would always kinda drift to her pits. So, pretty quickly started teasing me a bit, she'd feign embarrassment over them being seen and treat them like other sensitive areas. And then non-teasing indulging, which built off that, like publically flashing her pits to me, or asking me to finger them while cuddling, and she'd pretend to moan. And then I was getting handjobs with my face pressed into her pit. This absolutely sealed in any doubts, and is what pushed it into true fetish territory to me, where I find myself fantasizing about them in some capacity almost every time I have sex or masturbate.My current girlfriend is a bit less physically playful, but still indulges me from time to time, and has noticed through me how much stuff for pits there is. I remember, we spent a weekend where she went through her old Monster Hunter saves to pick out how many outfits were pitslut approved. I'm not a monster hunter guy, but, something like 80% of the outfits were all absolutely pitslut approved.
>>11544791I hate that natural born futa became the default, since I like transformation a lot more, especially the girl intentionally turned herself into a futa.
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>>11544791There was a formative, white whale doujin I ran into early in my fap career, that gave me an appreciation for that.It was a Lucky Star one, at this point I can't even recall specifics, besides one character getting a penis, then proceeding to break down and lose to cocklust, and have sex with all their friends. That, that's hot to me. I like futa in a wide variety of circumstances and scenarios, but I have a soft spot for fenale to futa transformations, followed by her near uncontrollably having sex with her friends.
I have a femdom and crossdressing fetish, obviously with a goth theme. This literally wasn't my fault and you all probably won't believe me but I went to high school when goth girls were a big thing. There was one girl, I'll call her A. She was not the hottest goth girl in our school, but still a solid 9. Me and my friends were a bunch of skater dudes geeks who played videogames, skate boarded, and did other CKY type stuff, filming it all with a big camcorder of course. Anyways, A was one of the few goth girls that hung out with us because goth girl interest and skater geek interests ran more parallel than other cliques in school. I remember one day me and another buddy were at the park skating and A was there watching, and of course we were trying to get her to dump out her tits or something, but she completely did a reversal on us, and was trying to get me and him to make out and get to see her tits as payment. We were wusses so we only came close to kissing and then stopped>FAG! later on me and another buddy of mine were at A's house hanging out with her in her bedroom. Somehow she talked us into letting her do us up in goth makeup. I have to admit, my buddy came out cuter than me, but who knows. I've always been pretty critical of myself. And then she gets some outfits out. Mine was a stupid black frilly dress, I was surprised it buttoned up, but A was pretty stacked. Both me and my buddy were shorties, both like 5'5" or so. She put him in a tight black skirt and a top of some sort. I was honestly shocked at how good his butt looked in the skirt, but he was a very small guy. A finishes dolling us both up and then of course she starts working us to make out with each other.. To this day one of my biggest regrets is we didn't make out. We we're fucking close, and I get hot all these years later thinking about it. Our faces got really close, and I could feel his breath. He had short hair, but mine was very long. He looked like a little goth pixie. 1/2 I guess.
>>115448332/2So A is rooting is on, and we both wuss out. He was touching me, so I actually think I wussed out and he followed along because at the time everyone and everything was a gay fag. At the time I didn't realize that A was trying to satisfy her own fetishes, and not just trying to embarrass us. We hung out for a long time afterwards, for years actually, but never did anything like that again. I lost track of A, and one day my buddy stopped talking to me and we never saw each other again. I looked him up years later and he's actually a homosexual. If you get a chance to do your fetish, or partipate is someone else's, my advice is to do it, because you never know where you might end up.
>>11544449so then, you've been anal only your whole life or did you eventually jerk off? im sort of on the opposite path. i started rubbing my dick since i was 5. no i wasnt molested, it just discovered touching my dick felt good. now im anal only, but its difficult because i have 30 years of hyper concentrated cock sexual experience so its hard to relearn pleasure through anal. i wish i had touched my butt instead of my dick when i was 5
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Tons of weird shit, and I don't even have explanations for most of it. The best I can usually do is connecting them to some sort of deeper meaning. Like encasement kink coming from a subconscious need to feel protected. Although I do suspect I got a medical kink from an intimate infection when I was 5.
>>11544833>>11544835I can only dream of anything close to that happening to me. I'm so horny thinking about it now. You were so close man.
>>11544837>>11544839I've still ever only had sex with women, but there's definitely a seed planted deep down in me. Now I get on fucking FetLife and whatnot and get excluded from things because I'm too old. Definitely a missed opportunity, God bless A for trying to show me the light, I just wish I had done more. I really wish my friend didn't bail on me, I think maybe he liked me but I'm pretty straight I guess and maybe he was torn and had to leave for his own mental health. I'll never forget how cute he looked in that skirt. I wish I didn't have these crazy hangups where I always think someone is going to suddenly pull the rug out from underneath me as soon as I commit to something. I really thought A just wanted to shame us. I didn't even know this fetish existed until years later. A's fetish I mean.
Preggo fetishist, i'm confident it stems from when I was maybe 8 or 9. A family friend came over for an evening with his wife who was pretty far along. I don't remember much but what I do recall vividly was her flicking up her shirt and getting everyone to rub her belly "for luck". So I rubbed her belly which was like innocent enough to everyone else, cute even ig. But to me it was such a weird thing, the belly was tight but also had a good bit of give. It like rippled and gurgled under my hands. At the time it made my dick pop off, but i didn't know why exactly till a few years later lol. In hindsight I'm pretty sure she was 100% into her pregnancy, wouldn't have been surprised if it was a fetish for her too.
>>11544838Oh yeah and also a blood kink from around the same age, there was a time me and my sister tried tasting blood from each other's cuts
Not really a fetish but I once read a doujin where a girl was helping her futa friend fuck for the first time, teaching her the basics. When she climaxed, she yelled “I’m arriving” instead of I’m coming, and the girl admonished her for ruining the mood. It was super funny, if anyone knows what I’m referring to, link it cause I want to read it again. First time mistakes is a cute and wholesome thing more stories about virgins should have.
>femdom but really just D/sSo Misty was an early cartoon crush for many born in the mid90s but having Red version in the household I got to see Sabrina over my older brother's shoulder and damn she's cool. Finally the anime gets to the Sabrina arc and while it was mostly the doll house/toy town I just locked on to what psychic powers could do and it genuinely scared me. Small beans tho, move on... Until puberty plays with it and that fear is morphed into arousal. Doesn't help that my older brother was definitely an older brother and would bully me but sometimes in fun ways. Being tied up and left alone to see if you can get out is worth pointing out. I remember at least one time (not that it was a common occurrence I didn't want to get out cause that meant the game was over. In comes puberty along with access to the internet. Go looking for this new thing called manga (new to me) and eventually hentai. Enamoured with it and all the tags that go along with it. Boy Soprano stands out in my memory but far from the only one I read a few times. Femdom and futa went well together but they weren't the only things on the table of course. Slowly learned I was actually bi so now it's not just fantasizing about women dominating but men too.
>>11544940Didn't remember having this but might have been a better pic
>diapersI remember as a child a cousin visited and they were still in pullups when i was out. I wanted to sneak downstairs to grab some but i fell asleep and never got to. I guess it stuck with me since years later in middle school I went into the special ed bathroom once and saw a stack of abena m4s. I took one and since then i really enjoyed the comfort they give as well lets me do things without having to get up. no scat though.>Crossdressing and feminizationI think this comes from how much i love the female form and am envious of how pretty their clothes are. I never viewed it as really much sexual just love the clothes design. I did want to be a fashion designer when i was younger but was scared of being called gay.>AnalI once got a wedgie and kinda enjoyed how it scratched an itch down there. After a while i just started playing with my hole and eventually evolved to full penetration. This one comes in phases but my girlfriend wants to peg me sometimes. Never told her I wanted that before i met her.A lot of other fetishes were due to browsing /d/ during my formative years and it being slighly associated with a fetish thread i was looking for. like sph, femdom, futa, lactation, hypno, and probably a few others i can't think of right now.
>>11544968I got caught by my mom putting on a diaper when I was way to old. Probably like 7 or something. I told her that I was blackmailed into doing it and obviously she didn't believe me.
>>11544940>Oral sex and sexual secretionsSo for oral sex it's simple, oral fixation. I was a chewer. I chewed on toys, pen caps, pencils, and bit my finger nails off instead of clipping them. If it could fit in my mouth then often times it found its way in there. Hate chewing gum funnily enough. Also being super subby the idea that they are getting off from me but I don't get that direct stimulation is hot on its own.As for cum or "sexual secretions." It taste good or rather I acquired the taste. During my gay panic years after realizing I was attracted to men I figured I must be gay. All I knew at that point being in the rural south is that your either normal or gay. Understanding that I found out it was "gay" and gay men love the taste of semen, right? So I tasted my own, not bad but I can't say I love it. "Better get used to it tho," I told myself. Kept swallowing my own for the next decade+. When I finally slept with a woman, of course I tasted the new juice and again enjoyed the taste. Pair that with having seen plenty of hentai with squirting or massive ejaculations from men being proof you did a good job and how could it not be a fetish
>>11544971Last origin>Raceplay (exclusively with men)Again rural southern upbringing, and being black I noticed the subtle differences in treatment. It was whatever, not often or obvious but sometimes noticed. Enter highschool and getting my own computer and finding 4chan. As the BBC/BNWO/Blacked threads came about, as the enlightened conscientious objector I was (really just didn't care for meme) I didn't like it. Over time though I went full contrarion aka my submissive ass want to be controlled, not be in control and here we are.>Erotic asphyxiationI had asthma and probably masturbated one to many times during an event. Also holding your breath is common towards climax, so why not let someone ele hold your breath for you?
>>11543760I had a gf when I was like 3~4She was very sexual and very forceful and used to give me deep tongue kisses. We also played with each other genitals a few times.Surprisingly this didn't give me a femdom fetish or anything, but one episode where she asked started smelling my feet and masturbating, and then I joined in by smelling hers and masturbating too made me a huge smell and foot fagAlso when I was like 7~9 I had regular threesomes (actual penetration and everything) my twin neighbors, so me liking bi shit probably comes from that
>>11544979>3-4That feels like you got groomed
>>11544984She was my age so not reallyI think she was the daughter of a coworker of my mom, from what I'm told (since I was too young to remember) we immediately hit it off when we first met
>>11544994How are you sexual at 3 years old?
>>11544996People in hotter places mature (sexually speaking) faster I guessBtw she was really crazy, I made up some bullshit excuse to leave the relationship (something about her being younger than me I think) because she scared me but she proceeded to follow me around to every school I went to (due to work I had to change around a lot) lol
>>11545002That makes no sense. I grew up in a hot place and i was never molested.Was i an ugly child...
>>11543794>I really love vaginas i do not know why, the lips, the clit, the tightness, it just makes you want to eat it or just put your dick in there, i think its really attractiveI think it's hard to find a guy who doesn't agree with that
>>11545034i think most, and i mean almost all of them, are ugly. the only good ones are innies or as close to that as possible. anything thats not an innie is not human and registers as some alien being in my head. this is /d/, you've seen those NASTY futa threads where they have disgusting drooping wizard sleeve labia and foreskins and theyre dripping green juice and putrid yellow smegma. THAT is what comes to mind when the puss isnt innie
